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If Vanny is in the digital circus.. where’s Pomni?
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spilledblood · 2 years
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holy shit, hey guys.
those of you who follow me elsewhere or know me well enough probably already know the basics. but the last several months have been a mess and tbh my mental health has been all over the place.
for the better part of 2021, my mom’s health had been declining a lot. she was hospitalized in december and since then, she’d only left the hospital for a week or two at a time ( a most ), until now. when she was home, she required a lot of help and care. good news is, she’s improved a lot over the last few weeks and is doing incredibly. things are looking up.
but man, there was just so much stress and fear that even escapism was rough af. i like to keep a lot of my mental health off of tumblr, but i struggle with anxiety and panic disorder on a good day, and boy, the last several months haven’t been kind to that. i’ve probably clocked more video games over the last 6 months than ever before, bc it’s all i had mental energy for.
i felt really overwhelmed for a while that it was hard to really write or even socialize.
BUT onto better things! my work routine is becoming... stable again. i’ve started slowly engaging in my hobbies, leaving the house and feeling like a person™ again. i am doing my best to have a really positive outlook on things again.
i’m cleaning up my asks and going to start fresh here again. IF YOU REMEMBER ME OR OUR THREADS AND WANT ANYTHING FROM A GOD AWFUL LONG TIME AGO let me know. if you want to interact or plot, let’s do it! i miss my cowboy desperately.
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sacredandwild · 6 years
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The Craft, Buffy, TLB.
Name the fandom & I’ll answer
          @murdercapitalking
The Craft
The first character I first fell in love with: Probably Nancy bc teen me’s aesthetic goalsThe character I never expected to love as much as I do now: Miss Bonnie Harper!The character everyone else loves that I don’t: The pain of loving Skeet but despising Chris but also feeling sympathetic towards him bc he lost his will bc of the spell Sarah put him under and then his life bc of NancyThe character I love that everyone else hates: Probably MittThe character I used to love but don’t any longer: I have mixed feelings towards Rochelle just bc Rachel True got really passive aggressive towards Charmed once and it just rubbed me the wrong wayThe character I would totally smooch: Bonnie or ChrisThe character I’d want to be like: Lirio ( magic shop owner )The character I’d slap: Laura Lizzie ( like i would probably beat the shit out of that racist bitch )A pairing that I love: I’m here for Bonnie and Rochelle like no one’s businessA pairing that I despise: Probably Nancy and Chris bc my girl was already damaged enough without that pos playing the games he does
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
The first character I first fell in love with: Angel, like teen me was weak for him like you don’t even know, and Oz is a super close secondThe character I never expected to love as much as I do now: I haven’t done a solid rewatch of Buffy in eons so this is all off the top of my head so I’d probably have to say Tara for now. Like I never thought she’d become a queen of my heart and here we are.The character everyone else loves that I don’t: I have the biggest mixed feelings towards Spike, like I love him as a villain but the writing for him getting his soul back ( pretty much just to get into Buffy’s pants ) was terrible and I think they did him real dirty tbh and i also just hate how much he’s glorified and how many free passes he gets from the fandom bc he’s attractive but i’m gonna address this later in the postThe character I love that everyone else hates: Am I allowed to say Veruca? Bc I love me some werewolves who embrace their natures and it’s even better when they’re ladies. Like shows need to let women be fucking monstrous. The character I used to love but don’t any longer: I would have loved Amy so much but I hate the direction the show took her in and I also hate the scene she pulled Willow into and i have the biggest mixed feels for the Dark!Willow episodes.The character I would totally smooch: Oz!The character I’d want to be like: Either Veruca, the badass werewolf lady but not dead or Willow, witch queen of my heart.The character I’d slap: Warren.A pairing that I love: Willow and Oz owns my entire everything and I will fight everyone on itA pairing that I despise: Oh, I hate Sp*ffy with the passion of ten thousand suns. I do find the ship really bothersome and I’m not gonna go around telling people what they can and can’t ship but what really aggravates me ( like i go from 1-999999 real quick ) most about those who ship Sp*ffy is the whole “lol, it didn’t happen“ mentality when it comes to his r*pe attempt on Buffy. Like, way to completely invalidate sexual abuse survivors, guys. Nice work.
The Lost Boys
The first character I first fell in love with: The boys, specifically Dwayne and I hate him bc he is the reason i have a type.The character I never expected to love as much as I do now: The boys. Like I was expecting to watch the movie, to enjoy the movie and that be it. Nope, I fell in love with four eighties vampires and we’re in a really dedicated lifelong relationship. You don’t chose that life, it chooses you.The character everyone else loves that I don’t: I honestly can’t really pick one bc I love everyone to an extent? The character I love that everyone else hates: ???The character I used to love but don’t any longer: I don’t dislike him but Michael irks the hell out of me when he attacks Star when she asks for help. Like I get him being a whole tornado of emotions and shit, but out of all of them she was the only one that was fully honest with him and did not deserve that treatment, so I just get bothered, is all.The character I would totally smooch ( among other things ): Dwayne, like he wouldn’t even have to DM me, man. he could just show up and i’d be happy.The character I’d want to be like: Probably one of the boys ( minus the whole death that didn’t happen thing ) bc they’re honestly the more stable side, like with Lucy being a divorcee and then the Frogs having parents that don’t seem to care about themThe character I’d slap: Probably a surf nazi but i also don’t want to die???A pairing that I love: Me & Dwayne and I have no shame in saying this.A pairing that I despise: I don’t really have one???
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cherriebomb · 4 years
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✩ for krava
Send ‘✩’ for the following:
Disagreements:
Who is more likely to raise their voice?
definitely ava. kris never raises her voice       ————      that was a huge thing instilled in her by her mom. 
Who threatens to leave but never actually does? 
ava.
Who actually keeps their word and leaves? 
kris. girl can only take so much of ava’s shit. < 3
Who trashes the house?
ava oh my god. kris would’ve had her ass whooped for throwing a fit as a kid, and so she’d definitely not do that as an adult. maybe if it’s like, the worst day of her life, but not likely.
Do either of them get physical?
????
How often do they argue/disagree? 
i don’t think that often. kris hates upsetting ava, and she’s usually flexible enough to go with whatever ava wants in order to placate her. the being in love with her thing will def be a fight though ...
Who is the first to apologise?
kris. almost always.
Family:
Do your muses plan on having children/or have children?
kris would definitely want kids, but i don’t actually think i know ava’s stance on kids.
If so, how many children do your muses want/have?
kris would want two, because she wouldn’t want anyone to develop middle child syndrome.
Who is the favorite parent? Who is the authoritative parent?
ava’s the favorite, kris is the authoritative one.
Who is more likely to allow the children to have a day off school? 
ava for sure.
Who lets the children indulge in sweets and junk food when the other isn’t around? 
ava.
Who turns up to extra curricular activities to support their children? 
kris would be at every one, but i think ava would also try to be there as often as she could? i don’t really see her being the fuck yo shit type of parent.
Who goes to parent teacher interviews? 
kris goes and drags ava with her. teachers always tell kris that they really “see where the spirit comes from.”
Who changes the diapers? 
kris.
Who gets up in the middle of the night to feed the baby? 
kris but she’d make ava do it every once in a while, usually when kris was actually able to sleep.
Who spends the most time with the children? 
they both would definitely try to spend an equal amount of time with the kid(s).
Who packs their lunch boxes?
kris. ava always gives them five dollars and tells them “go nuts!”
Who gives their children ‘the talk’? 
THEY BOTH DO kris would absolutely not let ava get out of that.
Who cleans up after the kids? 
kris cleans up after the kids and ava.
Who worries the most? 
kris. ava worries about which kid will be the star wars fan.
Who are the children more likely to learn their first swear word from?
ava. kris gets mad every time she swears around the kids.
Affection:
Who likes to cuddle? Who is the little spoon?
 they both like to cuddle! though kris will definitely have times where she needs space and doesn’t want to be touched. and they probably take turns because that’s kinda soft.
Who gets naughty in the most inappropriate of places? 
ava because she’s a brat.
Who struggles to keep their hands to themself?   
they both do. they were already touchy before and having that person as free territory? i have zero faith in them.
How long can they cuddle until one becomes uncomfortable? 
kris can handle physical affection in waves, and while it’s easier with ava it’s still only about twenty to thirty minutes, at most. sleeping at night is different, because she’s not as aware of it.
Who gives the most kisses? 
i think they probably like. douse one another in kisses, but kris would probably look for any reason to kiss ava so i’d say her.
What is their favourite non-sexual activity? 
holding hands. for sure.
Where is their favourite place to cuddle? 
the bed, i think? i feel like that’s the most common cuddle location and also the most accessible for them for as long as they’ve been friends. probably couches but since they’re now in college ... 
Who is more likely to playfully grope the other? 
ava because she’s a brat.
 How often do they get time to themselves?
often, at least when they’re living together.
Sleeping:
Who snores? If both do, who snores the loudest?
i bet ava snores. kris does not, though.
Do they share a bed or sleep separately?
i think that once they’re together, they share the bed a LOT. and when they aren’t, i think they share the bed when one of them has a nightmare.
If they sleep together, do they cozy up together or lay far apart? 
they cuddle, regardless of if they’re dating or not.
Who talks in their sleep? 
ava.
What do they wear to bed? 
clothes, bitch. but nah, i bet ava wears a big t - shirt and boxers, and kris wears those cute little pj sets they sell at like, pink or aerie.
Are either of your muses insomniacs?
kris is, actually.
Can sleeping pills be found by the bedside?
yep!
Do they wrap their limbs around each other or just lay side by side?
oh, they’re 100% tangled up in one another once they’re together, as long as kris is comfortable. before they’re together, though, it’s probably side by side, holding hands, and then they wake up cuddling.
Who wakes up with bed hair? 
ava. kris wakes up looking like a model, of course.
Who wakes up first? 
kris. she wakes up at 8:30 every day.
Who prepares breakfast in bed for the other?
so, i think they both would, because ava’s soft and gay even if she doesn’t KNOW it, and kris would just like spoiling ava.
What is their favourite sleeping position?
kris likes it when her head is on ava’s chest, or when ava’s arms are around her, because it feels like home.
Who hogs the sheets?
ava, because she’s a brat.
Do they set an alarm each night? 
kris does, and she reminds ava to set one too.
Can a television be found in their bedroom?
probably, but kris never lets ava use it if kris is in bed.
Who has nightmares?
kris. i’m not sure with ava, tbh.
Who has ridiculous dreams?
ava, probably. kris’ are usually just kinda gay.
Who sprawls out and takes up most of the bed?
ava, because she’s a BRAT.
Who makes the bed?
kris, because she’s the mom - friend.
What time is bed time?
kris goes to bed at 12:30 at the latest every night. ava probably stays up until 3 playing video games or something.
Any routines/rituals before bed?
kris will wash her face, brush her teeth, make her lunch for work and prep coffee, then give ava a kiss and go to bed. she did the same thing before they got together, too, but instead of kissing her she booped her nose.
Who’s the grumpiest when they wake up?
ava.
Work:
Who is the busiest?
kris, for sure. she’s constantly doing things because babygirl can’t keep still.
Who rakes in the highest income? 
kris because she actually KNOWS what she wants to do. <3
Are any of your muses unemployed? 
both.
Who takes the most sick days?
ava.
Who is more likely to turn up late to work?
ava.
Who sucks up to their boss?
kris.
What are their jobs?
they’re both unemployed. losersssss.
Who stresses the most? 
probably kris because she’s kind of high - strung.
Do your muses enjoy or despise their careers/occupations?
bro.
Are your muses financially stable?
kris is rich and if kai and odette are paying for ava to go to college i think she’s gucci.
Home:
Who does the washing? 
kris.
Who takes out the trash?
kris makes ava do it because it makes her gag.
Who does the ironing?
kris. does ava even know how to use one?
Who does the cooking?
kris.
Who is more likely to burn the house down just trying?
ava. kris tried to teach her to cook once and they ended up getting takeout.
Who is messier? 
ava.
 Who leaves the toilet roll empty?
ava. she probably pulls it out and then just forgets.
Who leaves their dirty clothes on the floor?
ava.
Who forgets to flush the toilet?
ava, but only when she’s drunk.
Who is the prankster around the house?
ava.
Who loses the car keys when it comes time to go somewhere?
ava. kris probably found them and hides them from ava to see how long she can keep pretending she knows where they are.
Who mows the lawn?
neither of them. since they are in COLLEGE. but if they weren’t kris would just hire someone.
Who answers the telephone?
kris, even though she hates it.
Who does the vacuuming?
kris.
Who does the groceries?
probably kris.
Who takes the longest to shower?
kris takes an hour at least, and i bet ava tries to take just as long out of pure competition.
Who spends the most time in the bathroom?
kris.
Miscellaneous:
Is money a problem?
not for kris, and she wouldn’t let it be an issue for ava if she could help it. 
How many cars do they own?
kris has one.
Do they own their home or do they rent?
right now they’re in college, but in the future they’d own it.
Do they live near the coast or deep in the countryside?
if i remember correctly, sheffield isn’t near the coast, so countryside?
Do they live in the city or in the country?
again, i’m guessing country?
 Do they enjoy their surroundings?
kris likes them, but i actually don’t know if ava likes or hates where they live.
What’s their song?
midnight love by girl in red or wish you were sober by conan gray. but kris would make ava a playlist and the first song on the playlist would be lucky by chelsea cutler.
What do they do when they’re away from each other
kris is pouty and sends ava about a million texts, at least once they’re together. before that, though, she’s just pouty and maybe a tiny bit bitchy.
Where did they first meet?
on the playground, a few days after ava moved to sheffield.
How did they first meet?
kris fell off the monkey bars and landed on ava. oops.
Who spends the most money when out shopping?
kris.
Who’s more likely to flash their assets?
unfortunately, probably kris.
Who finds it amusing when the other trips over?
ava, for sure.
Any mental issues?
i don’t remember what’s been said for ava, but kris has anxiety, adhd, ocd, and an undiagnosed ed with some control issues.
Who’s terrified of bugs?
kris.
Who kills the spiders around the house?
kris makes ava do it, even if ava doesn’t want to.
Their favourite place?
in high school, it was the playground and 7/11. in college it’s probably their room, or the roof of their building, because i bet ava would find a way to get up there after kris said she missed stargazing.
Who pays the bills?
they don’t pay bills they’re children. but it’d probably be kris.
Do they have any fears for their future?
oh, for sure. kris is scared of the future, a little bit.
Who’s more likely to surprise the other with a fancy dinner?
probably, after kris off - handedly mentions it.
Who uses up all of the hot water?
kris. definitely kris.
 Who’s the tallest?
kris, and she likes heeled shoes so she’s even taller.
Who’s more likely to just randomly hop into the shower with the other?
ava, i bet.
Who wanders around in their underwear?
kris because she’s a little bit of a tease.
Who sings the loudest when singing along to the radio?
kris, and thank god she can carry a tune because she’s obnoxious about it.
What do they tease each other about?
ava teases kris about being perfect, and kris pretends to forget the difference between star wars and star trek and other nerd shit.
Who is more likely to cringe at the other’s fashion sense at times? 
kris, because she actually has a sense of style. <3
Do they have mutual friends?
yes his name is casper and he’s a dummy.
Who crushed first?
kris baby! she’s not a simp though don’t even think about it.
 Any alcohol or substance related problems?
kris probably drinks a little too much sometimes, and she has a very minor addiction to adderall, but i don’t think ava would have any?
Who is more likely to stumble home, drunk, at 3am?
my guess is ava? kris would usually just get drunk at home, and she’d definitely be home before 3am.
Who swears the most?
ava, definitely.
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