#this whole post screams avoidant attachment init loooool

[iman-92]

one of my best qualities is my ability to simply not care. at a moment in time i’ll care a lot. think about it constantly, obsess over it. play things over in my mind again and again. and as soon as i decide i don’t care anymore… i just don’t.

#I think it’s not even really just my ability to not care but more my ability to just come to a conclusion #even if that conclusion is that there is no conclusion #once i’ve decided i’m done with something i just am and i can never get pulled back in again with the same amount of feeling #it’s accs probably not healthy but i’ve always been able to move on when someone’s wronged me lol cause i dont see it as a personal failure #i just accept it for what it is and move forward or just delete you from my brain altogether #perhaps it’s a conversation for a therapist lol but I wonder if it’s bc I’ve grown to just not expect much from people ? #in a way it makes it easier to forgive people but also easy to leave people behind too #this whole post screams avoidant attachment init loooool