thebrattiestofprimalswitches

[thebrattiestofprimalswitches]

the opposite if mwah is hawm. fucking bite you.

[thebrattiestofprimalswitches]

Messaging a girl and she referred to her conversation with me as "just playing with her food" and I nearly moaned out loud anyways what about you guys how have your days been

[thebrattiestofprimalswitches]

sorry that i was using my other hand to fish in stardew valley while i was fingering you. it will happen again. do you wanna see my slime hutch i found a cheat to get enough iridium ore for it earlier

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Let’s make a sextape and cum together watching it

[thebrattiestofprimalswitches]

Yea, your girl is a masochist, but have you confirmed the types of pain that she's comfortable with??

Sure, your lover is into petplay, but have you talked about whether you're supposed to yank on that leash??

Absolutely, she's into degradation, but do you know whether that name makes her think of a bad ex??

Mhmm, your girl is into getting choked, but do you know how to grab her without endangering her?? Do you even know if she wants you to stop her blood flow and/or airways???

I see, your darling is into rope, but do you know whether you're tying them up in a position they don't like?? Did you even remember your rounded edge scissors in case of emergency??

Okay, so it's into CNC, do you react with care and compassion if/when it safewords??

Yea, your Dom/me is hot and scary, but have you communicated your needs, and wants, and appreciation for them?? Are you ever making sure they're having fun?? Are you ever even using your safewords, if not why?? You might need to!

Just please, I'm so so tired of hearing people pushed away from/out of kink spaces whether, online or irl, because there are some kinksters out there that cannot practice safely.

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priest kink tag is full of subs that want a priest to degrade them and no hate but Where are the submissive priests in clerical dog collars for me to tie up

[thebrattiestofprimalswitches]

manifesting a girl taking degrading pictures of me with her cock slapped across my face

[thebrattiestofprimalswitches]

imagine being clicker trained with infused browines that look like dog biscuits…oh..okay no just me?

#gonna search for these so I can make dog-treat shaped edibles for my puppygirl friends

[thebrattiestofprimalswitches]

hey can we play fight tonight?? can we tussle a bit?? i'm full of energy can i try sooo hard to pin you down and bite you only for you to look at me like i'm adorable and pin me down with one hand like i'm nothing??? perhaps??? ill put it in your outlook calendar and you can rsvp perhaps????

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can i suck you off while you infodump?

[thebrattiestofprimalswitches]

hi. non penetrative sex is often more intimate. more on this later

[thebrattiestofprimalswitches]

the birth control i partake in is "fucking people who are ok with being impregnated by me"

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My suck or fuck response kicked in

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anyway i just think we should talk more about how pushy subs can get and how we collectively need to be more mindful of doms’ boundaries. personally i’m a switch and i almost always end up domming bc of how thoroughly bottom-y so much of the queer/t4t dating scene is. like once someone finds out i can dom it’s just expected of me and i’m fucking tired of it, i shouldn’t have to work so hard to make room for the concept that i might wanna sub sometimes too (which pretty much never gets followed up on), but that’s not even the part that bothers me the most

it bothers me that people don’t seem to realize it’s not only on the dom to assert their boundaries, it’s also on the sub to check in sometimes, to read body language, to read tone, to make an effort to cognitively empathize with the dom and what they’re going through bc domming can be really intense, psychologically and physically. i know so many people/posts romanticize the idea of being so deep in subspace that you can’t even think or talk and only the dom has to worry about anything and sure, that can happen w a lot of trust and consent and communication and be a good experience for both parties, but it’s so sinister to me that it seems to be the starting expectation so much of the time. it’s good in fantasy but in reality that is way too fucking much responsibility if you don’t already have well negotiated boundaries and deep trust. imo that expectation should never be the starting point

like sex and kink (can be) deeply intimate and intense things to share with other people and you should give a shit if you’re making someone uncomfortable!! subspace does not free you from the responsibility of how you’re treating the people you’re sharing those intimate dynamic/actions with!! subs should care about their doms’ boundaries and consent!! consent to be put in a dom position should never be assumed!! domming, just like subbing, should be something earned through trust!! i am so fucking tired

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framing pussy as something small and passive and receptive is fun but limiting. like yeah yeah tight wet pussy getting pounded. whatever. love that. im also here for fat cunt smothering and clamping down violently around fingers and dicks like industrial machinery & i highly recommend you get into it too

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lowering yourself onto her cock and fucking yourself so slowly that she finally gets fed up, flipping and pinning your body to the bed

"this is what happens when you want to be a tease," she says before grabbing your hips and pounding mercilessly into you over and over again, leaving your only thoughts dripping down your thighs

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If someone put their hand over my pussy and applied light pressure I would have no choice but to hump like I’m in heat