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Am I the a-hole for letting my girlfriend flip off my ex?

So the first school dance I went too was not too long ago and a lot went down.

I 14yr old female have a girlfriend 15yr old female. She is the best thing to ever happen to me. She is understanding and funny. Anyways my ex 13yr old male was at the dance, but I didn’t know until later. Since I am not on the same team as my now ex I had my step-brother 15yr old male break up with him for me. Apparently my ex didn’t take him seriously and broke up with me weeks later because I wasn’t answering my phone. I didn’t care and deleted him from my life. Not long after I got myself a girlfriend. At the dance my girlfriend brought up the idea of flipping off my ex, and I said go ahead. She did along with a classic “I’m better than you”. Not to mention my girlfriend is taller than me and my ex, so when she did that and walked away with me she told me she claimed dominance over him. But later into the night when we were cooling off in the cafeteria with some friends my ex’s friend group and another friend group from my team along with himself sort of gathered around us. No to obviously but still. I soon noticed that some of the people in the group were taking sneaky side glances at us and giving us dirty looks. This one girl was not being sneaky and blatantly kept glaring at me every now and then. Now I don’t know the relation of my ex and this girl but I was really uncomfortable. I told my girlfriend and we left the cafeteria clearly trying to avoid them for the rest of the night. Another encounter to take note of is when we were in the gym and sitting down resting. Well my ex’s group came into the gym and just kept staring at us, again we left trying to avoid them and have a good time.

So am I the a-hole for letting my girlfriend flip off my ex and potentially start a long fight?

Also does anyone want more context of what else happened?

And I will update if anything else happens.

#am i the asshole #drama #experience #am i the drama? #am i the problem? #am i the villain? #am i making sense #am i wrong #am I in the wrong

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