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This dress made me feel like firrrreeee and these shoes are cute af Dress - Rainbow Shops (4x) Shoes - Torrid

#fatshion #plus size ootd #fat fashion #torrid #vbo

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Hey do you know any trustworthy online websites for septum rings. Like nice ones that are made of good material?

Hi there! So I used to always get my jewelry from painfulpleasures, which is decent. The ring I have right now is from Etsy, but I wouldn't necessarily recommend using them unless your septum is completely healed and gives you no trouble or if they're using surgical steel and other implant grade metals. Some of the best brands are Anatometal, Body Gems, Neometal, etc. I believe bodyartforums sells some of that, but typically you have to go to a piercer who can order from them.

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I just saw your post (not sure how old it is, sorry) about proposing to your boyfriend, and I just wanted to thank you so very much for sharing that information! I’m in the process of planning my own proposal to my boyfriend, and we’re in a very similar position (he hasn’t proposed, probably because we have no money and he wants it to be perfect for me). I’ve been really excited and really really nervous, but seeing your post helped make me less nervous :)

Awww thats so awesome!!! I'm so happy for you (: honestly, fuck gender roles and go after what you want. It worked out great for me and I'm sure it will for you too. Let me know how it goes!

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I don't think I ever showed my new babies to you guys! Last year we got a tortoiseshell kitty named Luna (I call her LunaBean). She has grown up and is still a little fiesty butthole, but very loveable. Next we have Chai - my cinnamon lesser yellow belly ball python who I got in February. He was just a wee thing when I got him, but he's growing up fast! He is a silly boy who is bad at hiding. Then there is Machi (Macchiato) who is my ghost ball python who I got just a week or so before Chai. He is my first ball python and it was pretty much love at first hold with him. He was rehomed to me by a friend who was scared of him and he is such a sweet, thicc boy. You can find more of all of em on my Instagram which is @afattyfox and for more snake content specifically, @afatfoxsneks. I do have occasional feeding videos on my snake one, so just a warning if that would trigger/bother you!

#ball python #ball pythons #cinnamon lesser yellow belly #hypo #tortoiseshell #luna #chai #machi

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please don't live feed your snakes, it's not just unnecessarily cruel to the rats, but it's also dangerous for the snake. even if you are supervising, sometimes they miss when they strike at the rat and it only takes a split second for the rat to strike back and maim the snake.

Oh I don’t live feed them, they’re on frozen/thawed. The only time I would ever live feed is if they were not eating, they were losing weight, and I’d exhausted all other options to try to get them to eat. Believe me, it would be a last resort for numerous reasons for me. The warning was just for if seeing already dead rats/them being eaten would be too much for someone

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I don't think I ever showed my new babies to you guys! Last year we got a tortoiseshell kitty named Luna (I call her LunaBean). She has grown up and is still a little fiesty butthole, but very loveable. Next we have Chai - my cinnamon lesser yellow belly ball python who I got in February. He was just a wee thing when I got him, but he's growing up fast! He is a silly boy who is bad at hiding. Then there is Machi (Macchiato) who is my ghost ball python who I got just a week or so before Chai. He is my first ball python and it was pretty much love at first hold with him. He was rehomed to me by a friend who was scared of him and he is such a sweet, thicc boy. You can find more of all of em on my Instagram which is @afattyfox and for more snake content specifically, @afatfoxsneks. I do have occasional feeding videos on my snake one, so just a warning if that would trigger/bother you!

#ball python #ball pythons #cinnamon lesser yellow belly #hypo #tortoiseshell #luna #chai #machi

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Hi so I just want to start off and say your blog is amazing and I love it. Also, I’ve been considering shaving my head for awhile now. I just got married and I’m worried both sides of my family are gonna get really upset if I do it. I’ve been called a “that” before (ie “you don’t marry that”) and I’m worried this is going to add unnecessary stress to my mental health. Do you have any advice? I’m just so tired of my hair indicating my beauty.

Hi there! I’m so sorry that it’s taken so long for me to answer this, but I hope it still helps

First of all, thank you so much for the kind words and congrats on getting married!! I hope you guys had a lovely wedding/elopement and that you have years of joy/love to come. As far as shaving your head goes - it’s honestly hard to say whether or not you’re going to get a ton of flack for it or not.  You know your family better than I do, but they could also surprise you. Some people are very stuck in traditional ways and are not open minded at all to unconventional feminity or beauty, but that’s not for you to worry about honestly.  My family was supportive of my decision, though some were a bit shocked and didn’t really understand it.  The most grief I got for it was occasionally from people online, but for the most part it was just a lot of support.  If this is something you’ve wanted to do for awhile and you’ve sat on it and it is still something you feel a strong urge to do, then that means more than what anyone else thinks.  It’s YOUR hair and it’s YOUR body.  Hair does not define you as a person nor does it define your beauty.  I can’t tell you that you won’t get any shit for it, but I do want to say that the people who really love you will support you and get over it.  It’s your choice in how you approach it, but if you have any kind of social media that you use that a lot of family is on..then maybe make a post talking about it and explaining your reasoning and that you would appreciate it if your friends/family would refrain from any negative comments on it.  If someone does say something that hurts you, then I would give them a warning or two that what they’re saying isn’t okay and it’s harmful to you/your relationship with them, but if they persist..then it might be worth considering not having them in your life.  Or at least limiting contact.  Overall though -  I wish you luck in whatever you decide and I will say that I don’t regret shaving my head at all.  I think I would regret if I never did at any point and it’s something I would definitely consider doing again in the future.  It’s effortless to take care of, it gives you an opportunity to focus on other aspects of your beauty, and overall is a very freeing experience imo

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What do you use for eyeliner? Also, what are some of your favorite makeup brands? You're so lovely!

Hi there! Thanks so much (: It depends on what photos you’re referring to, but generally most of my looks for eyeliner were probably either Mac’s Fluidline in Dip Down or Urban Decay’s  24/7 Glide on Pencil.  I also really like Jesse’s Girl’s Brush tip liner which is said to be comparable to Kat Von D’s Tattoo Liner.As for favorite brands - most of my stuff comes from NYX, Urban Decay, Benefit, Wet n Wild, Tarte, etc

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Neon Kawaii Goth 🔫🍭💀

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looks from this weekend 👸🏾✨🤗

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Dress: @targetstyle Insta: @krystalrenaes

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Still my fave

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Yesterday’s look ft. my favorite accessory and my wild feminist tshirt.

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Wearing ✶ Elomi Matilda Bra and Briefs in Red ✶ Elomi Sachi Bra and Briefs in Black ✶

Easing myself into shooting again after my big move to Newcastle with a little boudoir session in our new flat! I’d been gifted the Sachi and Matilda sets by Elomi Lingerie as a welcome present to the UK - and I don’t know which one I love more! Always classic red or more contemporary black? The fit is great on both although the Sachi (black)is a little tighter and the Matilda (red) is a little looser in the band. I hook all bras on the loosest setting as you can see! Finding wired bras that actually fit has been so much easier since I managed to figure out my size - for reference, I’m wearing a 36F in both the bras and XL in both bottoms.

Even in plus size and fat positive niches, I don’t often get to see lingerie on non-ideal fat bodies. For instance I’m still very conscious about my lack of bum and don’t often pose to highlight it. One of the reasons for this is that I rarely see fat girls with flat butts represented even in fat positive media. So this is me trying to create a bit more positive representation for us flat bum fatties, because there’s no single acceptable way to have a fat body! All fat bodies are good bodies, including those with large bellies and small bums ♥

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Pretty sure I’ll still be serving pastel iridescent unicorn looks when I’m 75 if that’s what makes me happy! 👵🏾🦄💘✌🏾💎🌈✨

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To my fat girls who struggle with intimacy:

- I see you

- I’m with you

- I love you

- You are enough

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Tomorrow’s a big day for me and I’m scared and excited, wish me luck! Went to the pub tonight and felt like going full punk, so put on these boyfriend jeans from Fashion Nova with vintage suspenders and tshirt. This is just the kind of low key that fills me with unearned levels of swagger haha.