aromanticyaoi

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to be fair their story is about finding a new purpose, a new home, a new family, a new environment... and i'd want to leave that choice up to them, not me. unfortunately that is impossible. the closest i can get to this is making them in character ai and askimg them.

i know oc artists joke alot about not knowing things about their ocs despite being their literal creators but i genuinely believe half of my characters are living a life of their own. like rage. what is that thing? beats me. it just exists. i am not their parent

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i know oc artists joke alot about not knowing things about their ocs despite being their literal creators but i genuinely believe half of my characters are living a life of their own. like rage. what is that thing? beats me. it just exists. i am not their parent

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t4t hatesex with that evil robot

#scare and rage #(is rage evil enough. whatever)

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guy who’s objectum 4 radiation call that toxic yaoi

#me and plaguebringer goliath #we are a nuke-lear family #haha

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while you were studying girls i was kissing the blade

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klk aged poorly with all the sex jokes involving underage girls. but senketsu... it is so cute..

peer has forgiven klk

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a huge problem of why loveful folks can’t accept that lovespecs(? i’ve never seen others use this term but i’m going to) exist is their association that “love = care/kindness” so when they learn others don’t experience love or do so in a different way, it’s wrong because “so you’re saying you don’t care about anyone? so you aren’t kind to anyone and hate everyone? you’re just an emo edgelord that never grew out of their teen phase”

love ≠ care/kindness/respect/etc. love means “i feel x emotion” which is irrelevant to how you treat others—you’re more likely to be nice to others when you love them, but that isn’t always the case: love can cause abuse, love can cause stalking, etc.

“but that isn’t real love!!” imagine if someone hurt someone and got joy from that, and you claimed “but that’s fake happiness! real happiness comes from doing good things!” you sound ridiculous, right? because even tho the person is happy they did something wrong, that doesn’t mean their happiness isn’t real—we know this person is happy about doing a bad thing, but that doesn’t discredit happiness in general. we can acknowledge this person is genuinely happy while also knowing what they did is wrong, because “happy ≠ i did a good thing/something good happened to me”

so why can’t you apply this to love? why is love this untouchable, otherworldly being everyone likes to pretend is the source of humanity? it isn’t: it’s an emotion. when someone is a victim of abuse and you tell them “that wasn’t real love,” you’re discrediting their experience and creating a harmful idea that if a person loves you, they cannot hurt you, which is bullshit. victims of abuse can (and often do) genuinely love their abuser, and abusers can also genuinely love who they’re abusing. love isn’t this morally perfect emotion, and to dwindle it down to “love is good” is a toxic mindset

and you don’t need love to care about or respect someone. let’s say you’re talking to a cashier. you’re polite to them and if asked, you’d say you don’t want something bad to happen to them. by loveful’s logic, this means you love them, which probably isn’t the case. what about strangers you pass on the street? are you kind to them, and if someone fell on the sidewalk would you help them up? that’s kindness and respect, not love. i, and many others, don’t love the strangers we walk next to, but that doesn’t mean we want to shoot them all in the head or for something bad to happen to them

you don’t need love to be a good person, and tbh, i hope you’re only reason for being nice to others isn’t because your emotions tell you to be. if you’re only respectful to folks when you love them, then i doubt lovespecs are the bad guys here

#void time #uh huh loveful ppl equate love to kindness and care in their head #and explaining to them that 'nice behavior' doesn't always equal 'love' is like opening a new world to them lol #as if love is not a word we use to describe certain behaviors

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the idea that restrooms, locker rooms, etc need to be single-sex spaces in order for women to be safe is patriarchy's way of signalling to men & boys that society doesn't expect them to behave themselves around women. it is directly antifeminist. it would be antifeminist even if trans people did not exist. a feminist society would demand that women should be safe in all spaces even when there are men there.

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#i think mine are perfectly medium but if no nuance then i guess small 👍

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Bothering the beast

#same

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the abyss is so much more scary in infernum because of how it generates i am afraid to go to layer 4 and every time i accidentally aggro a gulper eel i fucking shit my pants because the sound it makes is scarier than anything i've ever heard in this game besides maybe eidolon wyrm

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rabbit rage🐇💥

(she/they)

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i hate character designs that are like: this character has ash grey skin and eurocentric facial features

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pens scared me as a kid. a pencil that you cant erase? thats fucked up shit to do to a kid man