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augdream5 · 2 months

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Diaper discipline for your partner when you're not ready for 24/7

Many couples I speak to the diapered partner has a desire to be forced to wear 24/7 but either this isn't practical in their lives or their partner isn't ready to get that involved yet.

So I wanted to put together a short guide on how you can implement diaper discipline and forced regression in a ad hoc and none full time way.

With 24/7 diaper wearing the discipline & domination parts come significantly by you removing their toilet privileges in a near total way which results in it being the discipline they need. If you're instead only going to make them wear on an ad-noc basis then you need to make some changes.

First although they're going to be wearing a lot less you need to be more involved when they are wearing. Secondly it has to be unpredictable for them. And finally it should be more intense than 24/7 wearing to make up for the reduced regularity of it.

I did this to my partner before we decided 24/7 was the right path so here as some tips to get you started.

Look for opportunities to make them wear diapers where it will be more embarrassing while still protecting their privacy

Force them to use their diapers

- Once or twice a week force them to mess their diapers with the help of suppositories, enemas or laxatives.

- Use locking clothes or diaper covers to prevent them from removing their diaper so they have to use it.

- Lock the door to the toilet in your home

- Don't give them permission to use the toilet in public

- Make them lose control in a semi-public way. You don't want to expose others to smelly diapers but giving them a suppository and sending them to get groceries or go out for a walk is a favorite of mine. Or hand a suppository for them to insert at the end of a meal out or when on a drive and still an hour or two away from home.

Take control of their first diapering, checks & changes

- Surprise them by walking into the room, with diaper supplies in hand, and diapering them there and then.

- Tell them that they can't ask for checks or changes and do these yourself

- Check them in a physical way, making them drop their pants or lift skirt

Vary the amount of time they're diapered

- Sometime it might just be overnight

- Other times enforce 24/7 diapers for up-to a week

- Don't tell how long each session will last

Throw in extended 24/7 periods

- Going on a 1 or 2 week vacation? Surprise them by diapering them and telling them that you've packed no underwear for them.

- Got a quiet month at home? Tell them you're going to test them being diapered full time for a bit

Make it more embarrassing

- Tease them when they're diapered

-Threaten then with being made to wear 24/7

- Force them to use their diaper in front of you

- Make them have their diaper exposed in the house or enforce abdl clothing only

- Don't change them until they leak and then switch to thicker diapers

- Use more babyish diapers or make a male partner wear girly diapers more

Combine diapers with other humiliation elements:

- Male partner? Dress them as a girl when diapered

- Use bondage alongside their diapers; restrain overnight in a spare bedroom, use a straightjacket & suppositories to make them feel helpless, shackle their ankles to their desk in an exposed diaper while working from home, use locking onesies and covers regularly

- Chastity! Lock them up while diapered and experiment with pegging

- Butt plugs? Going out but don't want them to mess? Plug them up.

- Role play. Nurse & patient or teacher & school boy/girl work great with diapers

- Pull ups or abdl underwear when not diapered

Use forced regression alongside diapers as much as possible

- When at home and in diapers they should not be dressed as an adult. Onesies, shortalls, exposed diapers, baby dresses, etc...

- Use pacifiers and bottles regularly

- Make them wear a bib while eating. Or step things up and feed them yourself

-Tell them they're a baby, only babies wear diapers, etc

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augdream5 · 2 months

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Hi @nononodojo I didn’t know you were a diaper lover

Well lucky for you look what Penny has here for you

That’s right it’s a diaper. A lovely thick fluffy pink AB diaper

And you are going to put it on for me. Right now.

Yes you are. No fussing. So take off the big boy pants. It’s diaper time!

That’s right you lay there in front of me on the changing table. Don’t be shy now. We’ll soon have you in that lovely soft padded diaper

May you have quite a nice cock don’t you.

It’s a shame it’s going to be trapped away in this lovely pink diaper. I hope you aren’t going to squirt in there when Mommy fits this diaper nice and tightly around you

Let’s just sprinkle a little baby powder down there so you don’t get a rash.

Now are you ready for your diaper little baby. That’s a good boy.

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augdream5 · 3 months

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Soggy Sammy (NSFW 18+)

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Story contains: Wetting, humiliation, cuckquean.

“Lift up your skirt for us, hun.”

Samantha’s cheeks flushed at the humiliating order. She knew what was expected though, and meekly did as she was told.

Her Daddy flashed her a smile that made her heart flutter and turned to the woman standing beside him. “See?” He said, gesturing to Samantha. “I told you she wouldn’t try to take it off.”

The woman shook her shining almond hair and laughed. “I know, I know, but it never hurts to make sure. Babies do all kinds of silly things when they aren’t being watched.” She turned to look at Samantha. “Isn’t that right, Sam-Sam?”

Samantha shifted uncomfortably under the taller woman’s gaze and looked away. “Yes, Mommy…” She didn’t like when the other woman used her husband’s pet name for her. It was something special he’d given to her, and it filled her with fuzzy feelings of affection. Hearing it from the mouth of her Husband’s lover still felt wrong, even months later. It still gave her the fuzzy feelings though. Samantha didn’t know what to make of that.

She wasn’t even sure how she ended up like this, dressed in this humiliating toddler’s outfit. They’d dressed her up in what was probably one of the frilliest baby dresses in existence, with a skirt barely able to contain the massive bulk the cloudy white diaper underneath. Topping off the ensemble were the newest additions to her increasingly large collection of infantile accessories, a fat pink pacifier and baby pink bonnet, securely tied about her chin to prevent escape from that particular humiliation.

Samantha’s life had drastically changed when she and her husband had gone out drinking one night, back when she was allowed to do big girl things. One drink had led to another, culminating in a drunken stumble back home in the company of a brunette tigress. Samantha couldn’t remember how or why Mommy had ended up with them. The only thing she actually could remember about that night was crying in wet jeans over the other woman’s lap. Apparently, at least according to Mommy’s version of events, they’d all been about to do “adult stuff” in the bed together when Samantha lost control of her bladder like the overgrown toddler she was. She’d soaked half the bed and ruined one of Mommy’s favorite dresses with her accident. After teaching the sobbing girl a lesson in self-control at the flat of her hand, Mommy sent the chastened Samantha to stand in the corner and think about what she’d done while the adults were about their business. The memories of what came after that made her feel squirmy in a strange way. Wet slapping sounds and moans had filled her ears as Mommy and Daddy “played wrestle” behind her while she whimpered in the corner. Submissive by nature, Samantha had just stood there leaking into her soaked jeans while the more dominant woman enjoyed her Husband’s thick cock all night. They were content to leave her there, and when Samantha woke up the next morning, she was still in the corner with her wet jeans, and Mommy was in Samantha’s old bed, curled up in her husband’s arms.

After that, Mommy and Daddy had exchanged numbers with Samantha watching on in nervous silence. She probably could have said something then. But for reasons unknown to her, she hadn’t. Instead, Mommy and Daddy began seeing each other more and more frequently. Samantha’s position in their relationship diminished with every visit. Maybe it was because she was naturally a timid girl, or perhaps it was the dampness elicited by their treatment that kept her docile and quiet. On their next group date, Mommy had brought a bag of princess-styled pull-ups that she insisted Samantha wear “for her own good.” Shockingly, Samantha’s husband supported the demand. It wasn’t long after they started coercing her into call them Mommy and Daddy.

Sippy cups and bottles replaced her cups. Dramas and browsing on her phone were replaced by coloring books and bright cartoons. Bath salts and fragrances were replaced with bubble-bath and no-tear baby soaps. Martinis and steak dinners became fruit juice and chicken nuggets in the shape of animals. Pull-ups during dates became thick, humiliating adult diapers 24-7. Expensive silk lingerie and revealing thongs became wonderfully frilly dresses and soft infantile onesies. Sex with her husband became a degrading exercise in subservience. She always had to ask her new Mommy for permission, which usually resulted in copious laughter and a night of desperately humping the aptly named pillow “Mr. Squishy”. Even when she was allowed access to her husband’s body, she was so sensitive and excitable from the weeks of denial that she was a whimpering mess within minutes. Her lack of stamina and soft muscles were far cry from Mommy’s incredible stamina and toned body. And now Mommy was living with them, sleeping in the same spot Samantha had occupied in her Daddy’s bed while she herself had been relocated to the bright pink nursery Daddy had created in the old guest room.

Samantha let out a squeak as Daddy lifted her up.

“Dinner time, squirt.” he said cheerfully, throwing his infantilized wife over one strong shoulder.

“What are we eating?” Samantha asked softly, blushing as she caught Mommy smirking at her.

They entered the kitchen and Daddy lowered her into her high-chair. The chair was made of wood and painted an embarrassingly childish purple, with a clean white arm-tray to lock her in place when secured. The chair was easily big enough to hold her and then some, the extra size devilishly created to make her seem that much smaller to anyone who cared to look.

“Well, Mommy and I are having pizza.” He said, sliding her legs in and locking the hinged arm-tray to secure her. “And you,” he smiled, “are having yummy yummy veggie beef stew.” He picked up Samantha’s bib and brushed her long hair out of the way to fasten it behind her neck.

Samantha pulled a face. She wouldn’t have minded regular beef stew but the strained mash she was fed was far cry from the real thing. “Can’t I just have pizza, Daddy?”

“Don’t pout, Sam-Sam.” Daddy said. “Veggies are good for you. You can have some pizza after you eat those, kay?”

Samantha sniffled but reluctantly agreed. “Okay, Daddy…” At least she would get to eat some adult food tonight. Many of her meals now consisted of soft baby mush or cut up fruits and veggies. A lot of it actually tasted pretty decent, but she missed having the grown-up pleasure of chewing your own food.

His face brightened and he reached over to rub her hair. “Good girl!”

The brief contact made her eyes glaze over with bliss. Her diaper grew damp, and she unconsciously started rubbing against the fluffy mass between her legs.

“Careful, hun.” came Mommy’s voice, “Don’t get her too worked up. Just look how flushed the poor thing is.” The other woman’s lips pouted in mock sympathy, and she sauntered over to take the seat next to Samantha. “Why are you so blushy, princess? Do you have a fever?” Her Mommy smiled, pointedly glancing at Samantha’s gently rocking hips.

Samantha noticed what she was doing and stopped immediately. “N-no Mommy.” She sputtered out. Her face burned even brighter. Her libido was so out of control these days she was willing to degrade herself for the slightest hint of gratification. It wasn’t fair, Samantha thought. She was only in this situation because she’d gotten drunk and wet the bed one time, and this… woman had taken things far beyond the realm of reason. For a brief, defiant moment, she thought about tearing off her childish outfit and pointing it out to her self-proclaimed Mommy. It only took another milliseconds thought for that scenario to be thrown out with the bathwater. Defiance would only lead to another spanking and a lesson in her own subservience. A trickle of pee leaked out as the image of her bent over Mommy’s lap, futilely screaming and kicking, flashed through her thoughts.

With a final pat, her husband took his own seat across from his lover. He grabbed the glass of wine off the table and poured himself and Mommy each a generous glass. Smiling mischievously, he reached for the sippy-cup in front of Samantha and filled it with grape juice. Then he picked up the wine bottle again. “Look, Sam-Sam. You can be a big girl like Mommy.” Holding the cap in place to prevent any from actually splashing out, he tilted the bottle over as if was pouring it.

Mommy laughed at the joke, but Samantha merely sat there grumpily and took the sippy-cup as it was handed back.

“Okay, kiddo, nummy-time.” Samantha’s Mommy uncapped the jar of baby food and stuck a tiny, baby-blue spoon into it. They always used actual baby utensils when feeding her. Samantha hated it. The small size just made her meals take that much longer.

Samantha’s mouth operated on auto-pilot as the more dominant woman shoveled spoonful after spoonful of unappetizing mush between her waiting lips. Fighting it would only lead to another punishment later and it was better to get it out of the way as fast as possible. Sometimes the other woman would miss purposely and tut at Samantha for her clumsiness. As always, the end result was a painting of smears and stains on her face and bib. After what seemed like an hour, the jar was finally empty. Mommy patted her face clean with a napkin and grudgingly handed Samantha piece of pizza.

With the “baby” of the family taken care of, her Mommy and Daddy began to talk about work, different projects they were working on, hobbies, etc. Samantha struggled to keep up with the conversation as they ate. She didn’t know more than half of what they were talking about. Once in awhile one of them would flash her a grin or giggle, but they didn’t pay her much mind. The most attention she got during the meal was when her Mommy nonchalantly slipped a few fingers into the legband of Samantha’s diaper for a check. Like normal, she was more than a little wet, but the diaper was deemed satisfactory for another wetting or three before Samantha needed to be changed.

When the meal ended, her Mommy and Daddy pushed back their chairs and helped Samantha from her own confinement. Her Daddy lowered her to the floor and had her crawl after them as they walked to the living room. Samantha’s skirt rode up as she crawled to show the slightly yellowed padding of her diaper.

“What movie are we watching tonight?” Daddy asked, taking a seat on the couch.

Mommy sat next to him, snuggling up close and shooting Samantha a superior look. Mommy didn’t like when Samantha sat on the furniture, claiming it was just a leaky accident waiting to happen. Even sitting like an adult was now off-limits to the deposed wife. Samantha felt a pang of jealousy as she crawled to her own designated spot on the floor, a velvety soft nursery blanket decorated with letters from the alphabet and baby animals. Mr. Squishy and her stuffed animals were there too, of course.

“I was thinking something… racier? You know… to get us in the mood for later.” Mommy purred seductively, finger tracing the soft skin of Daddy’s neck.

Samantha bit her lip jealously and made an unhappy noise. Both at the helplessness she felt, and the fact that they weren’t going to be watching Beauty and The Beast like Daddy had promised. She was so far gone she didn’t pause to consider that the movie in question may be less important than her Husband’s blatant infidelity.

Samantha’s daddy leaned back and enjoyed the efforts of his lover’s attentions. “Mmm, sounds hot.” He murmured through lidded eyes.

“B-but Daddy,” Samantha whined. “I thought we were gonna watch Disney tonight?”

He lifted his head in remembrance and gently pushed Samantha’s mommy away. “Oh, that’s right! I forgot, sorry about that kiddo.”

The other woman’s lip curled with displeasure and Samantha felt a thrill of triumph at the small victory. That thrill turned to confusion, then to dismay a moment later as her husband stood up to retrieve Samantha’s tablet. It was always kept on the top of the book shelf now, too high to reach. Little girls shouldn’t have access to electronics and the internet unsupervised after all.

He squatted down to unlock the device and handed it to Samantha. “There, now you can watch your movie, and Mommy and I can watch ours.” He grinned and ruffled her hair before sitting back on the couch.

“What a great idea,” Mommy crooned gleefully. “What I had in mind wasn’t really appropriate for Soggy Sammy anyways. She probably wouldn’t know half of what was going on.”

Samantha lowered her head in defeat and watched as her already sodden diaper swelled just a bit more to accommodate the stream of pee elicited by the degrading remarks. Thoroughly demoralized, she laid on her stomach and started to watch. The opening music was just beginning to play when the “adult’s” movie started.

Mommy’s “racier movie” turned out to be a full-blown pornographic video.

Samantha knew what she was supposed to do. She was supposed to be the humiliated, beta-female in the house. The degraded wife, diapered and infantilized, expected to play out that role and watch her age-appropriate movie like the good submissive girl she was. So as the vulgar moans and grunts began emanating from the television, Samantha did her best to keep her eyes glued to the small screen in front of her. It wasn’t good enough.

Barely 10 minutes passed before the temptation overcame her submissiveness and she furtively peeked up at the big screen, hoping she wouldn’t be noticed. Samantha’s lips parted in a small O of shock when she saw the TV.

A handsome, well-built man’s ass gyrated violently as he repeatedly thrust pistoned in and out of the groaning woman before him. She was bent over the side of their bed, being held in place by her shiny black hair. The woman’s legs shook as what was probably her third or fourth orgasm trickled down her legs in a flood of arousal. The camera angle shifted and Samantha gasped silently. Another woman was in the room with the mating pair, looking on in futile jealousy. At the very barest glance, she might have been said to be dressed like a maid. Velvet white stockings with lacey trim and a black garter belt decorated her legs, with a matching pair of gloves over her small hands. She even wore the stereotypical headband seen on many westernized “French maid” costumes. The comparison ended though at the ridiculously short skirt and bared chest of her dress. Black sleeves with white lacy frills at the shoulders were all that comprised the front of the dress, leaving the woman’s breasts on clear display. A leather collar around her neck connected with chains running through metal rings in her nipples. The chains joined at the lower portion of her midrift before snaking down between her legs and back up to connect with a metal ring drilled into the wall. The short and raised hem of her skirt left her bare pussy on full display. Despite her clearly servile position, the woman being fucked was grinning widely at the bound woman. Tears rolled down the maid’s face as she tried to reach between her legs, foiled every time by a sturdy set of handcuffs positioned beneath the chain between her legs. Frustrated sobs and whines mixed in with the other noises in the room as she tried to relieve herself. The best she could manage in her situation was tugging on and rubbing her inflamed clit against the chain’s links. Evidence of her exertions glistened on the teasing metal.

“Look, dear. The baby’s watching,” came Mommy’s voice.

Samantha turned towards the noise and realized her Husband and his lover were both staring right at her, smirking. She squirmed under their attention, trying not to show how much she was enjoying the sensation of her soaked pampers squishing against her buzzing kitty.

“Do you like Mommy and Daddy’s movie, Sam-Sam?” Her Mommy cooed, running her fingers up and down the outline of her husband’s engorged member. The other woman turned back to Samantha’s husband. “Since soggy Sammy here likes the movie so much, how about we head to the bedroom so she can watch the rest without any… interruptions.”

Samantha’s pussy clenched as her husband responded by sweeping his lover up in his arms.

“Sounds good to me,” He chuckled.

“Enjoy the movie, sweet-pea.” Mommy gloated as she was carried away. “I’ll change you out of those pissy pampers later when I’m done with your Daddy.”

They walked off and closed the door, leaving Samantha alone. Heart pounding, brain on fire with a heady concoction of need and pure shame, Samantha immediately pulled Mr. Squishy between her legs and began to rock her hips against him. She’d probably be spanked later for not asking permission, but she didn’t care. Spankings were for naughty girls, and that’s exactly what she was. A naughty, pathetic little baby, humping her diapies while the adults fucked in front of her…

New, quieter moans quickly joined the ones playing on the TV. The erotic sounds mixed obscenely with the melodic noises of singing and cartoonish voices from Samantha’s tablet. She hugged her inanimate partner tightly and buried her burning face in the soft cushion. Her desperate humping quickly scented the air with a combination of her own urine and the sweet, gentle smell of baby powder. The smell only heightened her peaking arousal, and the humiliation she felt as she realized it sent a jolt through her aching cunt. Listening to the grunts and moaning of her Mommy and Daddy, pathetically rubbing up against her own piss and dressed like an overgrown toddler, Samantha knew deep in her submissive, infantilized brain, that she was exactly where she wanted. And it felt incredible.

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augdream5 · 3 months

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I sure do 😉

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augdream5 · 3 months

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How can I get more involved?

A theme of questions I’ve been getting from partners is how can they can get more involved. Specifically, being that taking on the role of the person forcing their partner to wear/use diapers doesn’t come naturally and so they never seem to do it.

I can’t stress enough how important it is for you to be in control of your partner’s diaper wearing and babying. Being accepting is a great first step but they’ll never really feel accepted if you’re not actively involved.

The good news is it’s not that hard and using some of the ideas I’ve already shared I’ve put together this article as a guide to situations which you can leverage to take control.

This can be learned and become natural over time, I know as I wasn’t wired with a natural ABDL mommy role.

Scenario examples where you can get more involved:

Partner not currently diapered:

They come back from work

- Meet them at the door with a diaper in hand and take them straight to get changed.

- Check their underwear upon arriving home. Comment that it smells like they had an accident (even if a lie) and say you think it’s best you get them diapered to avoid any in the house.

You’re away

- If your partner is at home or will come home and you’ll be away, leave a diaper and maybe some ABDL clothes out with a note telling them to get changed into this.

- Leaving for a few days? Hide their underwear and replace it with a note saying diapers are their underwear while you’re away.

- Ask for a diaper check over a message or video call, if not diapered, tell them to put one on.

- Require them to ask before changing and deny it until it looks near leaking.

They ask not to be diapered

Maybe they’re embarrassed, just not feeling it today or it will be inconvenient for some reason, you have a few choices:

- Tell them that’s not an option and they’re getting diapered anyway (this should be the default)

- Tell them you’ll allow it but as a consequence they’ll get some form of punishment. This should make them think twice so might be something like “you can wear adult underwear today but you’ll be getting a smacking and suppository tonight” or “ok but you’ll be diapered 24/7 for the rest of the week”

- Tell them to prove they deserve adult underwear. (This one needs a few hours spare so is best when they’re resisting wearing as they’re bored of it, feel ashamed, etc.) Your goal here is to prove they need diapers = they have an accident. Make them drink 3-4 large glasses of water and then say that they can use the toilet in 3 hours time to prove they don’t need diapers. Most won’t make it near that and will either beg to use it or have an accident. If you’re feeling nice when they ask to use the toilet, say no and diaper them or alternatively make them wet their pants before diapering them.

- A variant of the above also works if they don’t want to mess their diapers. Swap the water for 1 or 2 suppositories and set a time of an hour. The consequence of resisting and then being proven to need diapers should be long term, e.g: “ok now we know you’re not a big girl you’ll be using you diaper for everything for the next few months and then maybe you can try again”

It’s bedtime

- Have a diaper and some cute ABDL clothing laid out waiting for them.

- Ask them if they’re ready for bed and if they say yes, tell them that it doesn’t look like it and babies need to be diapered for bedtime.

On the way to the toilet

Stop them and tell them babies don’t use that and to go put on a diaper or better still, diaper them yourself.

You notice the toilet isn’t clean

If you go to the toilet after them and notice some stray pee on the seat, toilet surround or floor (all common with boys) or if they’ve left skids, then tell them off for being messy. Most importantly tell them that if they’re not grown up to use the toilet you’ll put them back in diapers permanently.

The first time this can just be a threat but on the second time you should enforce this and diaper them 24/7 for at least a few days but ideally a few weeks.

Underwear Inspections

Another great way to trigger some diaper wearing time is to inspect their underwear. After peeing many males leak a small amount so checking their underwear after they used the toilet can yield a small wet patch. Equally check at the end of the day but this time focus on the rear, and tell them that you can smell poop (even if you can’t).

Then use these findings to tell them they’re obviously too little for adult underwear and take them to be diapered. Again as before, this should last a few days. You can also step things up more slowly by going to pull ups first and then diapers.

During Sex

Experiment with mentioning diapers or them being a baby during sex. You’ll likely find this turns them on more. Little things like saying:

- “Do you feel like a big boy/girl not wearing your diaper tonight”

- “I think I should diaper you after this”

- “I prefer you in diapers for this, maybe we’ll make that permanent”

- “Will you cum so we can get you back in your diapy”

- Etc

Going; on a drive, to see a movie, a day trip?

These should all be used as reasons for your partner to be diapered. Tell them that you want them diapered as it would be easier and pick an appropriate diaper for the occasion.

For long drives or movies I’d recommend a thick diaper. For day trips a thinner diaper, which can be changed, may be better. Remember they likely will object to wearing out of fear or it being inconvenient but this is exactly why this is a perfect opportunity to diaper them.

They’re already diapered:

They say they’re going to the toilet

- Stop them and tell them to use their diaper. Likely this means they need to a poop but don’t relent and tell them their diapers are for everything. This is one of the most powerful things you can do to show them you accept their diaper wearing and be actively forcing them to mess their diaper.

They walk past you

- Try give them a “diaper pat” when you’re nearby or if they pass you. This shows you know they’re diapered and that you accept it!

- Stop them and do a diaper check. You can do this by squeezing the front and back of their diaper through clothing but ideally get them to expose their diaper to you. This shows you accept them and are expecting them to have used their diaper.

You’re sitting together

- If their diaper is exposed, make a small comment about it, like “These diapers look cute on you”

- If the diaper is hidden by clothing, do a small diaper pat or squeeze it to show you know it’s there

- Make a comment on their diaper’s state, like “you’re already a bit wet”, “I might need to change you soon”, “it doesn’t look like you’ve used your diaper yet”

You’re about to head out of the house

- Quickly check they’re wearing a diaper either subtly by lifting a shirt to see the waistband or even better is to get them to show you their full exposed diaper by dropping their pants or lifting their skirt.

- If longer than an hour ask if they’ve got their diaper bag with them.

They need a change

If you notice their diaper is nearing capacity you have a few options:

- Tell them they need a change and guide them to the changing area to do the change.

- Say that it looks like their diaper is getting full but you’ll change them in a bit. Delay it an hour and if they do leak tell them how you might need to switch to thicker diapers

- Don’t mention it but just bring diaper supplies to where they are and without comment start the changing process. Make it as if this is the most normal thing in the world.

They’re smelly / messy

You notice that they’ve messed their diaper, this might be expected or a surprise but it’s very important you don’t react negatively.

Some options:

- Mention it in a teasing but not disgusted way; “oh, do I smelly a messy diaper”, “I think my baby might need a change”, “Is someone a messy baby”, etc

- Check their diaper by pulling back the waistband or if it’s not exposed, grab and squeeze the back of their diaper through their clothing.

- Ask them to come over and sit on your knee. This is one of the most embarrassing things as it will cause their mess to spread and they’ll feel very babyish. Cuddle and bounce them for maximum blushing.

- Tell them you’ll change them in a bit. Making them wait even a short while shows you’re in control. For even greater effect, tell them that you don’t think that diaper is full yet so you’ll check them again in an hour. Or my favorite is to say I’ll change them but after lunch, dinner or some other activity that means it will be at least an hour and they’ll have to sit in it.

- Shower them with praise. As I mentioned they’ll likely be feeling some shame so tell them how good they are for using their diaper as they’re supposed to.

- Ideally when the time comes, change them yourself, but if not, be waiting with their new diaper after they’ve cleaned up.

You’re in public

- Lightly smack or squeeze their bum to remind them they’re wearing a diaper and you know it.

- Ask them if they’ll need a change soon

- Check their diaper subtly, this works best when you’re out of sight of others such as in an elevator or on a secluded section of a hike.

- Comment that their clothes hide their diaper well, or point out their waistband is showing.

- See a sign for a restroom? joke that they won’t be needing that.

At bedtime

- Prepare a bottle for them (milk, juice or water) and feed this to them in bed. This feels incredibly loving and should become part of your daily routine. It’s especially good if your partner struggles to sleep or is stressed.

- Insert an adult pacifier into their mouth before sleep, perfect straight after their bottle.

- Make a comment that you hope their diaper will hold all their accidents tonight

- Place mittens onto their hands (ideal for partners who like using their phone in bed)

- Give them a teddy to sleep with or read them a bedtime story.

During Sex

- If they’re diapered then it’s likely you’re using a vibrator or similar. Try also physically interact with their diaper at the same time to make it so you’re more intimately involved in it.

- Most importantly after the orgasm DO NOT allow them to change out of a diaper. This is a time they’re most likely to experience shame so actively tell them they’re good for being diapered and keep them diapered. If they do need to change it must be into another diaper. This is probably one of the most important pieces of advice I can give!

In the mornings:

- Check their diaper physically by touching, squeezing etc

- Make a comment that you’re glad they’re diapered otherwise they’d have wet the bed.

- Keep them in their night diaper and ABDL clothes until after breakfast or longer if possible (normally at weekends).

- Tell or encourage them to mess their diaper as then they can shower to clean up. Or force the matter by inserting a suppository or fleet enema.

- Re-insert the pacifier and/or give them another bottle.

Having a meal:

- Make them wear a bib. For maximum effect wait until a meal where they spill something on themselves and then introduce this rule.

- Feed them a meal. This can be fun!

- Make them sit in a highchair! These can be made using a director’s chair and an accessible feeding table and it’s worth the investment as it will make them feel very babyish sitting in an exposed diaper eating with with their hands or baby cutlery.

- Give drinks in a bottle or sippy cup.

Other situations:

It’s their birthday, Christmas or you just want to get them a gift

- Buy them a diaper / ABDL related gift and ideally from now on at least one but potentially even all of their gifts from you should be ABDL related. This unprompted involvement from you will show them how accepting you are of it. They will be delighted I guarantee!

- Gift Ideas:

- New ABDL diapers; buy a few packs of adult diapers. I’d recommend ABDL ones as they’re prettier and also you can buy a few different styles which they might not have.

- ABDL clothing; onesies are the easy option but to really wow them try something like shortalls, rompers, footed onesies.

- ABDL accessories; bottles, pacifiers, bibs, mittens or a new changing mat are great choices. These are especially good if the ABDL side has been something you’ve shy’d away from to date.

- Sexual; Some bondage gear like a straitjacket, bed restraints or locking clothing is a great gift. Or a Chastity cage will fill a boy with excitement and fear.

- Small filler gifts: baby powder, rash cream, etc

- As part of their gift, change their diaper wearing frequency or rules. “For Christmas I’ve decided that from now on you’re always going to be diapered at night”. “You’ll see I’ve got you some new diapers and from now on you’ll only be in these ABDL diapers, even in public”

Clothes shopping

- When clothes shopping ask them if this will fit over their diaper

- Make comments about certain items being good for hiding their diaper or “I think this might show your diaper a bit much”

- Comment on items being too adult for them or things looking childish as being perfect

- Make them wear a diaper out shopping so they can make sure things fit well

Grocery shopping or at a pharmacy

- Buy baby essentials regularly

- Comment on the baby diaper aisle that it’s a shame you can’t buy diapers their size here

- If you see adult diapers stop and look and ask them if you should buy some.

- Add a pack of goodnights to your cart if they fit them and comment that these might be useful for when you’re not in diapers.

- Buy suppositories, laxatives, etc

You have a vacation coming up

- Check they’ve packed enough diapers

- When they’re not around remove any underwear and replace with diapers (if you want them 24/7 for the trip)

- Discuss how them being diapered will impact the vacation. “I wonder if they’ll be somewhere I can change you on this day trip”, “Can you google if there’s accessible restrooms available at …”, “I wonder if I should ask the hotel for a medical trashcan in the room for your diapers”

- Buy a swim diaper if you don’t already have one.

Summary:

- Find reasons to diaper your partner even at times where it will be inconvenient

- Try increase the reasons and frequency of their diaper wearing over time. I’s start with 25% of the time they’re diapered and work up from there.

- Encourage and force them to use their diapers

- Interact with their diapers and acknowledge the fact they are diapered

- Introduce baby elements as much as possible

I’m assuming they’ve given consent to be diaper disciplined and because of this remember you’re TELLING them what to do, not asking.

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