avidgentleman

[avidgentleman]

yayyyy mutuals hiiiiiiiii reblog if you love your mutualssssssss hiii mutuals

[avidgentleman]

OTHER LITTLES AND SUBS!!! please please please be careful on here. there’s some guy who goes by prouse or prouse16 sometimes used me. he made me feel like he cared about me and then he blocked me. BE CAREFUL!!!!!

[avidgentleman]

[avidgentleman]

Reblog this to give the person you reblogged it from a bear hug. (they might just need it)

[avidgentleman]

i will never shut up about aftercare

i talk a lot about how i want to be handled during sex, but i try to focus equally as much on the aftercare.

i don’t think you understand how important it is and how loved it makes a sub feel to cuddle after, talk, kiss, all that.

i can’t count the amount of times i’ve had rough sex with a guy and he instantly turns his back to me to fall asleep. it’s so heartbreaking and makes us feel like we’re nothing.

aftercare shouldn’t be a chore to you. it should be a part of the whole experience, something that comes naturally after dominating a sub. a dom and a sub should both take care of each other after, compliment each other, talk, cuddle, be soft, make sure you’re both okay.

aftercare is so amazing

[avidgentleman]

i miss you, i hope you're doing okayyy :>

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Well i am doing great thx but if you miss me why not send me a DM ? 😉😘

[avidgentleman]

How tall are you?

About 6 foot or 180cm.

[avidgentleman]

Most of the time when i listen to music its metal for going to the gym or similiar stuff, something that pushes me and gives me the oomph so to speak. But from time to time there are songs completely outside of my normal listening habits that strike a special cord with me. Most of the time its bittersweet with some exceptions, but those are few and far between. These songs often fill me with a melancholy beyond my years but its a feeling i couldnt put in words even if i tried.

#ramblings

[avidgentleman]

This is a warning to other subs so they don’t have to experience what I did. And hopefully I can help someone avoid an uncomfortable situation.

Warning about someone with a blog named l-s-b, l-s-b-3, l-s-b-4 and something like l-u-r-k-s-t-r-a-n-g-e-r. I’m not sure I have the correct tumblr handles. His blogs get deactivated and he makes new ones with similar names. His blog has a red background and a red picture with a man wearing a black mask. His blogs have been popular.

I talked to this man for about 3 weeks. He tried to pressure me to send him nudes and audios. He seems really nice at first but he suddenly turned on me.

Please share this so we can spread the word. I wouldn’t want for anyone to experience being pressured into anything they don’t want to do.

[avidgentleman]

i need you inside me, cum in me, piss in me, use me as your personal urinal, keep me stuffed and filled up, torture me, keep me naked for your pleasure and you use only, breed me everywhere and whenever, take me out on only a leash with body writing all over me, let me serve and worship your cock, while you overstimulate me, until I'm just drooling on that big, fat cock and mostly importantly keeps me dumb

~love xoxo

Mhmm baby i absolutely loved to receive that ask ;) whoever you are feel free to send me a DM i would love to chat 😏 sadly i cant DM first shadowban and all 🙄

[avidgentleman]

Here’s some good life advice: if she didn’t ask for a dick pic, don’t fucking send one. ✨

[avidgentleman]

The moment you have to scream at your Sub to get them to obey or because they did smth that displeases you, you have failed as a Dom.

#bd/sm daddy #cnc daddy #daddy k!nk #daddy dd/lg

[avidgentleman]

[avidgentleman]

To anyone newly following me if you are interested and wanna have a chat please DM me. I got a Shadowban and am unable to text first for fear of losing my blog.

[avidgentleman]

Please reblog if you’re a BDSM/kink blog that does NOT support or allow minors.

Everyone who reblogs will be added to the Safe Space Support List! :)

[avidgentleman]

Might not be very kinky but still i needed to put that out somewhere. Today i saw a girl on the subway that had clearly just cried, heavy swallowing, eyes still red and full of tears and brows furrowed. It broke my heart that i couldnt do anything to comfort her without looking like a massive creep. I tried to throw some small smiles her way at least smth but she probably wasnt really present in the moment. Sometimes i hate being an empath i could just feel her sadness and pain filling the compartment and it felt like i was sucker punched. Well if you made it this far sorry for the rambling 🙃

#ramblings

[avidgentleman]

I’ve been running into some…let’s call it “forced CNC posts”. I think it’s important to clarify “safe-word play”. If my partner uses a safe word the scene is OVER.

And. If a pretty little slut wants to be raped. And we meet ahead of time. And you say to me, this is my safe word…but it doesn’t mean stop. And we have the real backup safe word for when things really need to stop.

Safe words are safe words, and they can convey and mean different levels of safety. Put in the work with your pretty princess, I promise you’ll be able to rape her little cunt and she will thank you for it.

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As an example:

Green: Keep going/harder

Yellow: good pace/don’t change anything (very good for when princess is ready to cum)

Red: stop everything/stop moving until I say something

Black: stop/get off/pull out/ begin process of aftercare

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Always respectfully.