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@chiloscylliumpunctatum

Old men yaoi (they’re sickening I hate them so fucking much)

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the attempted tiktokification of hozier will never not be funny to me because half his songs are about politics and the other half are about wanting to be railed so hard the neighbours complain

#hozier #andrew hozier byrne #too sweet

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Okay well. House MD is officially the gayest show I've ever watched. It's even gayer than the shows that are actually about gay people.

Wilson is constantly staring at House like a pining teenage girl and House can't stop himself from implying he wants to have sex with Wilson.

These men are infuriating!

#house md #gregory house #james wilson #hilson

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i feel like house would make fun of everyone that does 🤫🧏‍♂️ but then do it to wilson/cuddy whenever hes in trouble

#house md #hilson #dr house #gregory house #james wilson

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LMAOOO

Marriage headcanons - James Wilson x Fem!Reader

He cheats on you

You divorce

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Important rules/tips I've learned as an adult that helped with anxiety

If people are mad at you, it's their responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess

If they're mad at you in secret anyways, they're the ones in the wrong, not you

If people don't like what you're doing, it's their responsibility to tell you

If they say it's fine when it's really not, they're the ones in the wrong, not you

People are allowed to be wrong about you

If they are wrong about you, wait for them to bring it up, because if you try to, you will inevitably overcorrect

Some people are committed to misunderstanding you. You will not win arguments against them. Yes, even if you explain your point of view. They do not care. Drop it

The worst thing that will happen from a first-time offense is being told not to do it again. Maybe with a replacement if you broke something

You can improve relationships and gauge willingness to talk to you by giving compliments. It's like a daily log-in bonus and nobody thinks twice about it

Most things are better after you sleep on them

Most things are better after you have a meal

Most things are better after you shower

Your brain makes up consequences that are irrational. If the worst DOES come to pass and someone acts like they do in your head, they are overreacting, and you are entitled to say "what the fuck"

If your chest hurts after you feel like you've made a social error, that's called rejection-sensitive dysphoria. It means your anxiety is so bad that it's causing you physical pain, which is a good indicator that you're overreacting. Tense yourself, hold it for 20 seconds, let it go, then find a distraction

If you're suddenly angry at someone after you feel like you made a social error, that's also rejection-sensitive dysphoria. You are going to feel annoyed about it for awhile, but being genuinely pissed off is your anxiety trying to find something to blame to take the responsibility off your shoulders, and getting scared because it can't justify itself. Deep breaths, ask yourself how much you ACTUALLY want to be angry at that person, then find a distraction

"Sour grapes" is more healthy for you than stewing. Deciding you don't like someone who's perpetually annoyed with you, won't talk to you, etc. makes letting go of anxiety over them easier

If people don't like you, they will find reasons to be annoyed with you when they otherwise wouldn't. If people do like you, they will find reasons NOT to be annoyed with you when they otherwise would. People do not ping-pong between the two

You DO have to make a conscious choice not to think about something. If you're having trouble circling back to it, say out loud that you're done thinking about it and why. Then find a distraction

When you're upset, part of you is going to want to make false bids for attention (suddenly texting differently, heavy sighs, etc. but when someone asks you about it, you tell them it's nothing). Do not listen to it. You gain nothing from it except more misery

People like to help people they care about. It makes them feel good about themselves

If you think you're insufferable for needing help, see above. Yes, really. They get a serotonin kick from it

If you think you're insufferable for mannerisms you have, you either have to consciously choose not to do them, or accept that they're part of the package that comes with you. Being apologetic about existing does nothing except make you more miserable

If you do things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it makes it easier to do them when you hate it

If you avoid things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it reinforces and magnifies how bad it feels when you hate it

Seriously. Read those last two points again. If you can make yourself make a phone call when you've got nothing to lose, you will slowly lose that panic you get when you have to make a phone call you haven't prepared for. You do have to CONSCIOUSLY take that step

Hobbies that make you care for something get rid of that nagging feeling that you're not doing enough. Go grow some rosemary

If you don't engage with your hobbies regularly, you will feel miserable, and anxiety will spike

Hobbies are things that give you a bit of happiness. They do not have to be organized or named to do that. Go be creative in something. Play with coins. Make up lists. Start a new WIP

No one cares what you look like

If people point out things they don't like about how you look unprompted, they are being rude. You are entitled to say "what the fuck"

People who like you will find you pretty to some degree. Minor things about your appearance go completely unnoticed. Literally, scars and dots and blemishes do not register to someone who likes your company

You looking at yourself in the mirror is 10x more closely than anyone is going to look at you

If you're anxious about your body type, and you're creatively inclined, make/write an oc with that same shape. Give them nice things and make other characters love them. Put them on adventures. You'll start to see yourself in the mirror more kindly

You care about wording and perfect lines/colors way more than anyone who views your work ever will

Sometimes when you're upset, you're going to feel like not eating. Do not do that. Not eating makes you more miserable

Same with things you normally enjoy. Denying yourself helps no one. You are punishing yourself for being sad. Stop it

Both of these will take conscious decision to break the habit of. Make yourself do it anyways, and it will slowly get easier

And again, to reiterate: If someone is mad at you, it is THEIR responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess

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i had to draw this (from @transvox on twt)

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Any Louis' content = this reaction.

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He's such a fucking dork

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Oh this is great

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the best part of the whole interview is right in the beginning when RSL is like “wow why are you making it gay” and the interviewer is like “wait sorry I didn’t mean to make it gay” and Hugh Laurie is like “ok but I AM trying to make it gay so let’s discuss”

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wilson is so intriguing as a character bc at first u think he’s pathetic for putting up with house, then u realize he actually gets off on their dynamic psychosexual style

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you know how amber and house did shared custody of wilson & in order to avoid the polycule implications (because that’d be weird, obviously) they decided to refer to themselves as mommy and daddy. great work. that’s definitely WAY less freaky. hit the showers gang

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The way Louis carries himself and how he conquers everything so adequately and with such discipline is so admirable. He settles in a life that he wants and also accepts the ups and downs while still maintaining his focused mind and diligence. He never succumbs to the pressures, he knows his worth. He thrives on honesty and integrity, and on the goodness of his heart. It’s not unique for him to have a good heart, but the difference is that he’s not afraid to use it to carry him forward.

I think the most prominent, often mentioned thing about Louis is the kindness he exudes and the selflessness he carries. He does it all in honesty. He trust his gut, he trust himself and he trust other people. He never lives in isolation, he teaches self awareness through social interaction. He’s so conscious of his own humanity and therefore of others. And If he’s not conscious of it already, he’s ready to learn.

Louis shines so brightly. He’s luminous and whimsical and chaotic. He wears his heart on his sleeve and he’s amiable to say the least. I think that’s the greatest sort of beauty.

This year I wish to strive for Louis Tomlinson’s mindset, way of living and way of being. I aspire to let optimism lead the way instead of drowning in despair. I aspire to have the humble confidence and the courage to be vulnerable, to take risks in order to be better. I also wish to be inquisitive and allowing change. To see the glass as half full!

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hurr hurr I'm a human body hurr hurr I'm gonna solve all my problems using mucus

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