my best male friend is my housemate and im not use to men being mature cos my ex was a very shitty person.
like my housemate and i are having issues with our internet provider and hes been helping me solve the problem. without putting me down if i have a different opinion
while if i had an issue with something and i have an idea how to solve it but if i went to my ex for advice and he has a different idea on how to solve the issue, he would make it into a bigger problem. by persuading me his solution is better than mine and put me down for having another opinion. like he wouldnt really be a team with me to solve the problem. my ex would turn it into a toxic argument competition to see whos solution is ‘better’ or right vs wrong. and then if i dont agree with my ex he would gaslight me into thinking hes the victim and the original problem hasnt even been solved
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why hasn't this video blown up yet
jay shetty is the real life example of the protagonist in yellowface he claims to be a mental health professional but he is far from it. why does he have a life coaching school
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im never going on holiday alone with my aunt again. she is obsessed with being model stick thin that she projects onto me and expects me to be the same. so she constantly reminds me to lose weight and then when i try to explain why she is triggering me she thinks im disrespecting her and gaslights me into i dont love her if i dont listen to her about this like wtf
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