chubby-femme-boi

[chubby-femme-boi]

[chubby-femme-boi]

Thank you xenogender people. Thank you neopronoun people. Thank you nounself pronoun people. Thank you it/its pronoun people. Thank you people who want boobs and a dick, or a dick and a pussy, and elf pointed ears and a thousand piercings. Thank you stargender puppyself deep/sea pronoun flag collecting gender hoarding carrd people. Thank you for showing us all the things gender can be, and all the places gender can go, and all the ways we can understand gender as human and more than human. Thank you for opening up all these places to play in and ideas to toy with, all these things about ourselves we can put on and try and take off and discard. Thank you for being brave, thank you for exploring, thank you for paving all these ways. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🖤

[chubby-femme-boi]

[chubby-femme-boi]

"We need more weird queer people!"

Yall can't accept lesboys and turigirls

Yall can't accept mspec gays and lesbians

Yall can't accept cistrans people

Yall can't accept FtMtF trans women and MtFtM trans men

Yall can't accept intersex people who aren't cis or trans

Yall can't accept transfemmascs

Yall can't accept gaybians

Yall can't accept neurogender people

Yall can't accept loveless aros

Yall can't accept aplatonics

Yall can't accept xenogenders

Yall can't accept cis non-binary people

Yall can't even accept straight trans folks.

[chubby-femme-boi]

Someone going by neopronouns (even ones you don't like) does not mean that you use they/them pronouns instead!

It means that you use the person's pronouns!!

[chubby-femme-boi]

given how alienating and dehumanizing the trans experience can be, is there really any question as to why so many of us identify as nonhuman? come on, now

[chubby-femme-boi]

Actually trans people are allowed to call their body parts whatever they please. It's not "cringy" or "delusional" or "unrealistic". It's their damn bodies. If it gives them euphoria that's a good thing. It doesn't fucking hurt or bother anyone if a non op trans guy wants to say he's got a dick or if a flat chested trans girl refers to her tits or if any nonbinary or genderqueer person has weird or funny or made up terms for their body parts. It's not your damn business. Actually it's really dope and cool and also coming up with your own terms for your body to avoid dysphoria or cause euphoria? Fuckin awesome. Period.

#i call my hands and feet paws #im a kinnie and therian so that also contributes to it #but like. instead of kicking my feet i say kicking my paws and???? it makes me stim so hard

[chubby-femme-boi]

Actually trans people are allowed to call their body parts whatever they please. It's not "cringy" or "delusional" or "unrealistic". It's their damn bodies. If it gives them euphoria that's a good thing. It doesn't fucking hurt or bother anyone if a non op trans guy wants to say he's got a dick or if a flat chested trans girl refers to her tits or if any nonbinary or genderqueer person has weird or funny or made up terms for their body parts. It's not your damn business. Actually it's really dope and cool and also coming up with your own terms for your body to avoid dysphoria or cause euphoria? Fuckin awesome. Period.

[chubby-femme-boi]

[chubby-femme-boi]

you're allowed to love being trans if you:

just came out

havent transitioned and dont plan to

have known you are trans for years but kept it to yourself

don't want surgery or hormones

dont disclose your trans status or genders to other people

dont change your name

never have dysphoria

your transness is tied to your neurodivergence

your transness is tied to your nonhuman identity

dont feel like you have a gender or gendered experience

feel like gender isn't really that important

are intersex

are two-spirit, hijra, or have another cultural gender or expression identity, or "third gender"

are a person of color

are an afab demigirl

are an amab demiboy

have a complex identity

have a very simple identity

cant figure out your gender for the life of you

cross dress

do drag

present socially in ways that are "normal" for your agab

have crushing dysphoria

don't know how to pass

pass effortlessly

are a butch trans woman

are a femme trans man

are demigender

don't like to be reminded you're trans

have a very specific gender

have a gender that's specific to you and you alone

have hated being trans at one point

stopped transition and restarted it at some point

have had to change your gender, name, pronouns or presentation multiple times

change presentation a lot

have a gender that's hard or impossible to put into words

dont want to figure out what your gender is exactly

are plural/a system

are genderfluid, gnc, genderqueer, multigender, polygender, genderflux, neutrois, maverique or genderfuck

are xenogender

are a lesbian or gay

are transneutral

are transfemasc/transmascfem

..... are trans.

every trans person is allowed to love being trans. good day, love yourself today!

[chubby-femme-boi]

“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities

[chubby-femme-boi]

Hey, for everyone saying xenogenders are chronically online: Today in psych class we talked about gender dysphoria and I got to illustrate my view of gender graphically. It looked like a venn diagram with four heavily overlapping circles - one of them was xenogender.

My class was ENTIRELY receptive to it. This receptiveness included a straight, cis, white, christian male who had never heard of it before. And he was totally cool with it! We even took two minutes going on about what our gender would be if we described it in xenic terms. My teacher said he'd be the point of a mountain that intersects with clouds in the sky. Another said a ball of lint. I said the ocean. Not one of us said it was "impossible" or "cringe" or any of that xenogender-phobic shit.

If you're xenogender you're valid. The world, the real, offline world thinks so too. What's "chronically online" and "cringe" is being full of hate.

[chubby-femme-boi]

𓉸✙ forestripped ┈ a gender that feels like it has been ripped from the forest. it may feel like one took the concept of gender & ripped it from the forest, whether it be metaphorically or literally.

#gender

[chubby-femme-boi]

"We need more mental health acceptance and awareness!" Y'all still call ppl with cluster b disorders evil 💀

"We need more weird people!" Y'all COMBUST when someone is xenic 💀

"Healthy coping mechanisms are important!" When someone age regresses, you call them creepy 😭

"More people need to be proud of who they are!" When you see a furry, you cry 😭

(U should totes follow me if ur a supporter of these so I can b on the good side of tumblr XD /nf!)

[chubby-femme-boi]

was talking to my gf about my fear of dying young for being trans and my mom putting my deadname on my gravestone, and she said "i hope that never happens, but if it does, i will carve your name into your grave myself if i have to." and i think theres something extremely raw about that sentiment and trans community in general. you can kill only our bodies, but you cant kill transsexuality

[chubby-femme-boi]

floradeeric

Floradeeric/florafaunic: deergender identity related to deers covered in moss/flora/with overgrown antlers. The gender might feel slightly mythical and cryptid in nature but elegant and wary like a deer.

flag without the deer

#gender

[chubby-femme-boi]

you all know that lesbians and bi women are not different species right. you all know that the life experiences and the spaces we share are innumerable right. you all know that we find comfort and community and pleasure and love in each other's arms right. you all know that sleeping with a man doesn't change a woman's body or soul right. you all know that the history and the lives we share and our capacity to hold one another up and our commitment to being there for eachother when others let us down is literally all there is right. right?