Specifically like. I think instead of gender we should just have "style" like how some video games like animal crossing or splatoon do it. You shouldn't have to label yourself in order to do the things you feel you want to do. Regardless of what you were born as or howbyou identify or ptesent you should be able to be as masculine or feminin as you want at any time. But there will always be confusion because if your label is one thing and suddenly today you want to do something that goes against it you're put into a socially awkward predicament. Idk I feel like gender dysphoria wouldn't even exist in a society where what's in your pants makes no social impact whatsoever and gendered stuff is as fluid as styles of outfit
Always gonna say it, I think gender as a concept should be obliterated. That's my pokemon villain ideology.
i was cuddling with my boyfriend last night when his shoulder started tensing up (like he was readjusting or gently pushing me off) and when i asked him if he was okay or needed me to move or something he went “no you’re fine, i was just imagining myself pulling a large rope. i didn’t even realize my shoulder was doing that lmao” then refused to elaborate and i have never been as attracted to him as i was in that moment.