There will of course be butches who want to go by more androgynous or masculine (nick)names, but I do not think it should be an expectation put on us neither from ourselves or from those around us that we inherently should be uncomfortable by carrying an obviously woman's name.
fully clothed butch4butch sex. rubbing the seam of your jeans hard, denim on denim, against your partners thigh. unbuckling thick belts and shoving calloused hands over wet briefs. cotton socks slipping against theirs while you struggle to keep you legs underneath you. strong hands groping your chest and ass but never touching skin. eroding the fabric on the back of your jeans with their zipper, thrusting and dry humping. leaving with little wet spots creeping through the fabric on both your crotches.
farcille isn't "toxic yuri." nothing remotely toxic about them, they both treat each other with a great deal of care and affection and respect. just because marcille is willing to do forbidden necromancy and arguably cannibalism for her wife doesn't make her toxic that's just what you do for a woman with broad shoulders