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flrcoach · 3 years
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Public Chastity Show Off
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I’m surprised at the number of women who recognize the meaning of the key. Just two years ago, it was rare that anyone commented on it. Now I get grins and approving comments at least once a week. Hubby still finds it humiliating when others realize his predicament
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flrcoach · 4 years
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reblog to make this the decade of male chastity and female empowerment. 
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flrcoach · 4 years
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To start the New Year, I am looking to purchase a new Chastity Device for hubby, for long term wear. I am leaning towards the Vice Mini from @lockedinlust and am wondering if any of my readers have firsthand experience with this device that you’d be willing to share. Thanks in advance
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flrcoach · 5 years
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From http://alphawifelife.com
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flrcoach · 5 years
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FIVE REASONS WOMEN TEND TO MAKE BETTER BOSSES THAN MEN
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Generalisations can be dangerous in the world of work, and stereotyping by gender particularly so.  That said, research carried out over the past few years has regularly reached the conclusion that women make better bosses than their male counterparts.  So what makes women better in leading roles?  Here are just five reasons women tend to make better bosses… Read on
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Women are Better Listeners
An ability to listen is vital in an employer/employee relationship, and women are naturally better at letting people have their say and listening to what is said.  All members of staff want to feel that their views and concerns are heard and acted upon, and women tend to be more discussion-focused when men prefer to take swift, decisive action.  There are advantages to both approaches, but creating a culture where employees feel their voices are heard and valued leads to a happier workplace all round.
Women Like to Encourage Development
Women often have a harder time getting into senior positions, but that often means they’re less inclined to pull the drawbridge up behind them.  In a 2015 Gallup report entitled The State of the American Manager, researchers found that those working for a female boss were around one and a quarter times more likely to feel they were encouraged to develop than those working for a male supervisor.  Female managers, it seems, were more likely to give their employees space for trial and error and better at finding ways to stretch them.
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Women are Better Engaged
On the whole, women are better engaged than their male counterparts and that filters down to their employees.  A more engaged boss means a more engaged workforce, and the same Gallup study found that those working for a female supervisor were almost 6% more engaged than those working for a male leader.  Women working for a female boss were found to be the most engaged and productive at 35%, while men working for a male boss came in at just 25%.
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Women are Better at Offering Praise
In any business, there needs to be a degree of both carrot and stick if you want to get the best out of your employees.  Women are almost always better at giving credit where it’s due.  Giving praise can be interpreted by some as a sign of ‘weakness’, and while men prefer to portray themselves as in control and authoritative, women are generally much more relaxed about offering praise.  Research has shown that employees who feel valued and are recognised for their contribution are more productive, so words of encouragement now and then really can have a positive impact on the whole team.
Women are Better at Building Consensus
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Debate and discussion are good, no matter what business you are in.  So too is consensus building.  Letting everyone have their say and then finding a course of action all can agree on is vital for cultivating a strong team ethic and loyalty between your employees, and women tend to prefer building bridges and finding consensus than men.  By listening and letting everyone have their say, women allow everyone to feel equally valued and people are more likely to make concessions for the wider good of the team.
Sweeping generalisations are often unhelpful, but in this case it seems that gender really can have a huge impact on the employer/employee relationship.  While women in senior company roles are still the minority, it’s clear that those in managerial positions are as successful (if not more so) than their male equivalents.  As companies strive to get more women into the top jobs, employing more female bosses really could make a big difference to the success of your business.
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flrcoach · 5 years
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Another lady demonstrating her dominance
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flrcoach · 5 years
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Gotta love it when the wife shows him that she is also physically superior to him and that he has no choice but to accept that he is in a female led marriage
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flrcoach · 5 years
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The conversation where she breaks the news that you are going to be her cuckold is never easy to hear, but it is necessary
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flrcoach · 5 years
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Bold, Dominant, Modern Woman? Make a Statement!
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flrcoach · 5 years
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For the strong and sexy Alpha Woman! Support the cause!
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flrcoach · 6 years
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Tease and Deny
I love this video. The way she teases him with her ass must be absolutely agonizing!  
http://meanwifecams.com/index.php/2017/11/21/love-teasing-a-man-whos-been-locked-in-chastity-for-weeks/
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flrcoach · 7 years
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I'm a domineering woman (40) and a strict believer in FLR. My new life partner (35) has accepted his role but there's one thing he refuses: He don't want to kiss my feet for respect! But it's absolutely necessary - I think - and so I would threaten him to use the whip if he don't obey in this sense. It would be justified, I'm sure. do you also think so?
No way this should be an issue at this stage. I need more details
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flrcoach · 8 years
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Couples frequently start experimenting with male chastity at home for fun and to add a little spice to their sex lives. More and more often the wife or girlfriend quickly recognizes the benefits of locking their man and begin to insisting on longer durations of chastity. This is often more then he bargained for, but once she has gotten a taste of the power, the control, and the servitude brought on by male chastity, it is unlikely that his objections will overcome her desires or that she will ever accept a non chaste relationship with him. This is how it began for us and many others. What started out as bedroom play will evolve into a lifestyle. One that she leads, both in and out of the bedroom. 
For the men that find themselves in this situation my advice is to just accept and go with it. Once she has experienced the changes that chastity brings out in a man, there is no turning back for her. It is okay to have apprehensions, but continued reluctance to comply with her wishes will eventually result in an ultimatum “Wear it or the relationship is over”. It can be a very difficult time in the relationship, or it can be a the best thing that ever happened. The only choice left is to abandon the relationship or learn to be obedient. This is the point of no return. Your life will be easier when you accept chastity and your relationship will flourish. You will take pride in yourself as you overcome each hurdle. Your first 24 hours being locked is a milestone that should be celebrated. Then she should shoot for three full days. Then a week. Some of the strongest relationships I know of have him locked up a month at a time. Acceptance is the key to success, and I encourage you to work with her and allow her to guide you down this path.
My guy has managed to survive week long periods of being locked for over a year now. At first he was uncomfortable with it both physically and emotionally, but in time he has come to accept chastity and physically he has adapted to continuously wearing the device. Shaving his pubic hair was one of the best things we did to make the device physically comfortable. We have recently moved to a monthly release schedule and our relationship couldn’t be stronger.
Domestically, he is a dream. I can’t remember the last time I washed a dish, vacuumed, or did a load of laundry. The housework is now his job. His weak area is cooking, but thanks to youtube, he has learned some basic techniques and has actually registered for some culinary classes that I am sure will further advance his value in the relationship and his own feeling of self worth. All this has allowed me time to workout after work (I’ve lost the 10lbs that I’ve been wanting to shed for 10 years!) or catch up with friends during the week. I am now training to run a half marathon, something I could never have done with my old schedule. Happy hours were never an option because there was so much to be done at home, but now I go out once, sometimes twice a week, and don’t have to worry about coming home to a messy house. As I have mentioned in previous post, my only regret is that I didn’t discover the benefits of a locked cock much sooner This is why I feel an obligation to share an encourage this lifestyle with others. 
Of course there are other benefits and side effects that I won’t mention in this post, but rest assured once he is locked, the woman will be free to indulge in any activity that she so desires. 
And in case you’re wondering, I love him more then I ever have.    
Questions? Comments?
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PS - It has long been rumored that Tumblr may deactivate all adult content site. Should this ever come to pass, you can find me at: https://flrcoach.wordpress.com/  No content there for now, but if necessary my writings will move there. 
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flrcoach · 8 years
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Hello everyone. I have gotten quite a few messages inquiring about FLR Coaching in real time. My original intent was to share the benefits of FLR’s through this blog, however, I am willing to speak with women or couples who are serious about pursuing this this lifestyle. No promises. I’m have no formal training or education in the area of relationship counseling, so I will only be sharing with you my experiences, opinions, and things I have soaked up from many years of online research. I’m not able to speak to all the single men out there, but can make time for a few women and couples. If interested, private message me and I’ll provide a secondary number that I maintain and we can go from there. 
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flrcoach · 8 years
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Male chastity is the foundation of a Female Led Relationship (AKA: Modern Marriage)
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twitter.com/MsFLRcoach.
I’m starting to see more and more women walking around the office, stores, bars, restaurants, even the beach, with keys like this around their ankle or necklace. I give them a knowing grin as my own key dangles between my cleavage. Sometimes they are alone quietly enjoying themselves. Other times with friends, but more frequently then not they have their husband or boyfriend in tow. He’s usually walking a step behind her, listening to her, being attentive, carrying her bags, etc.. All the things you’ve read when you read about the benefits of male chastity. An astute observer will recognize the dynamic in play as more and more women are discovering the benefits of male chastity. You can see through her body language and her expressions that she exudes confidence and power. The experience for him is likely very humbling and degrading, but this is all part of learning his role and thriving in a Female Led Relationship.
I always wonder how many people understand the meaning and symbolism of the chastity key on display? How many others get it? While male chastity is rapidly growing in acceptance it is not yet mainstream. I believe male chastity to be the cornerstone of a Female Led Relationship. Through the power of the internet, social media, and various forums dedicated to this trending lifestyle, the practice of chastising males has grown exponentially in the last decade, as more and more women embrace matriarchy and enjoy the benefits of leading their men. There is no reason to think the growth of FLR’s won’t continue to spread and in the very new future, male chastity and the FLR’s will be the new normal of the “Modern Marriage”
With all that said, I encourage all women to research the benefits and strongly consider locking his cock and enjoying the harmony that accompany a Female Led Relationship. If you’ve already taken this step, wear the key to his cock proudly and confidently. Being a keyholder is a wonderful thing and others should know of the benefits it could provide them. Show off his obedience to your friends or other women you interact with on a daily basis. If is up to those of us that “get it” to promote this growing lifestyle.
Please comment and interact with me at twitter.com/MsFLRcoach.
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flrcoach · 8 years
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Never use it again
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He's been locked up 4 weeks. His cock is useless to her. He'll never get to use it again: 
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