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would die for a fresh hot corn on the cob rn

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man some of you people are really really gung-ho about wanting to find a reason to shit on some subset of trans people. find a job and throw your phone in the ocean

#thank you exactly

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Sitting on a bench under a shaded tree watching the leaves sway in the warm gentle breeze. There's birds singing and bugs crawling and it's all for free btw. You wish you were me rn

#i do wish i were you #i have to go pay rent now

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recently encountered a post where someone said "gender is fluid but sexuality isn't". (they were talking about bi lesbians.)

my first thought was: does that person, like. hear what they're saying? how can you explicitly hold two beliefs that are so logically inconsistent and not see it? how can you simultaneously think gender is this fluid and complex thing, but sexuality, much of which is defined around gender, is simple and stationary and its boundaries need policing?

but like, fuck, why even argue against it, right? there is no internal logic because there is no logical thought behind it. these are not genuine beliefs. this person is repeating what is currently acceptable in their (small) specific social circle. this is the same person who, a few years back, would be excluding nonbinary lesbians, but nonbinary lesbians are cool and normal on queer tumblr now, so they'll exclude bi lesbians instead, and not even pause to reflect on the difference.

oh, and if you read this and thought "these people don't even actually accept nb lesbians either", ding ding ding! because it's not a real, deep belief, that acceptance is extremely shallow and conditional. so as soon as someone is an nb lesbian in a way these people find odd (like being both a man and a lesbian) they will exclude them too and find a way to justify it.

why do we have to endlessly go through this cycle with queer identities. can we not? can we just not. i'm tired.

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I AM SORRY I CANNOT RETURN YOUR EMAIL AT THIS TIME. am in a cave

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I don’t really Go Here but u can always rely on this man to read a right wing politician’s outfit for filth

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fun fact (not fun at all fact actually) :

aromanticism and asexuality are still treated as issues to be fixed in most therapy settings, at least in the western psychiatric institution. i cannot fucking mention my aromanticism or asexuality to a therapist or it’ll immediately become their primary concern and goal to fix. whether or not i have a partner/am trying to have a partner is actively being used as an indicator of my wellness, regardless of if i WANT one. i cannot have access to needed mental health ressources because of fear of conversion therapy. aro and/or ace conversion therapy is the norm in most psychiatric institutions and we are getting told by the rest of the queer community that our oppression isnt real and that there is no link between our struggles and theirs.

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*ska music fading happily into the distance*

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the freak autistic girl who rambles about her interests and has 30 billion weird kinks does exist btw, it's just that you don't actually give a shit about her you just want the idea of her without all the mental illness and poverty and housing struggles that she deals with also you don't actually like it when she actually expresses those kinks and rambles about her interests you just want a trophy to show off

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