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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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HERE, LET ME DO IT FOR YOU (HI BESTIE HI)

This is Raz! PSI uses these pronouns, and PSI prefers alternating PSIs names when speaking about PSI! I am using Raz here as I feel it is fitting for this demo.

Ad uses these pronouns because ad's a spamton kinnie (//t //j). This is okay because in this house we love and support ad in ads very specific tastes.

Dexter is neos other name. People seem to use this name more for neo? neo's name choices are always impeccable, though.

HEY!! HOW DO I USE YOUR [[ very poggers neopronouns ]] ? I DONT WANT TO MAKE ANY [[ fatal mistakes ]] WHILE PRONOUNING YOU

YOU'VE COME TO THE RIGHT PLACE.

since i assume the replacement/elimination method is simple enough then think of it like this

he = PSI

him = PSI

his = PSIs

himself = PSIself

OR

he = ad

him = ad

his = ads

himself = adself

AND

he = neo

him = neo

his = neos

himself = neoself

me, i despise example sentences so you wont get those BUT if you want em i'll provide

#not a request #pronoun demos #mod karkat

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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hey!

okay, so: i just wanted to ask if its normal to be kin with a homestuck troll (in my case karkat vantas, I'm typing notmally for readabilitys sake) and sometimes have this weird feeling that something is *off* when you look in the mirror and see that pink-brown skin color instead of grey? is this a common thing? or am i just weird as fuck??

HELLO! YOU DON'T HAVE TO DROP QUIRK FOR ME, IM USED TO THEM

THIS IS PERFECTLY NORMAL FROM MY EXPERIENCE, THOUGH MORE UNCOMMON FOR KINS. IT SUCKS BUT YOU AREN'T ALONE IN IT

#mod karkat #I EXPERIENCE THIS MYSELF BUT I DONT COUNT BECAUSE IM A FICTIVE //HJ #advice #homestuck kin #homestuck kin help

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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hi again, it's the anon who asked about neopronouns! thanks so much, you really helped me out a ton and i appreciate it!

OH EXCELLENT! IM GLAD I DID. HAVE A NICE DAY OKAY?

#not a request #nice mail #mod karkat

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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thank you if you can answer my questions, hopefully all 5 parts went through, and sorry that it ended up being kind of long and rambly. i really appreciate the way you answer people and thought you'd be able to provide some good insight which is why i wanted to hear your opinions if that's okay. thanks so much again, i really do appreciate any advice, and i hope you're doing well and having a good day or night. take care for now!

HI NONNIE! I GOT ALL YOUR ASKS AND ILL DO MY BEST TO AWNSER EVERYTHING I CAN. I DO TRY MY BEST TO BE HELPFUL, AND IM GLAD YOU THINK IM GOOD AT IT.

I HOPE THIS HELPS BUT IM VERY LONG-WINDED TODAY APPERENTLY

NOW, TO BEGIN. TYPICALLY WHEN ARGUING FOR NEOPRONOUNS AGAINST THE ARGUMENT YOU HAVE BEEN PRESENTED YOU HAVE TO GO FOR MORE... WHAT THE DIFFERENCE IS BETWEEN ASKING PEOPLE TO CALL YOU A SLUR OR WITH "BLMSELF" IS THAT THOSE THINGS CAUSE ACTUAL HARM TO OTHER PEOPLE. THERES ALSO THAT THERE ISNT ANYTHING WRONG WITH PIZZASELF, IT JUST SORT OF? SOUNDS SILLY? ITS NOT HURTING ANYONE, AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A LITTLE SILLY IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL HAPPY AND COMFORTABLE. A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO HATE NOUNSELF ARE GOING OFF THE BASE REACTION THAT ITS SILLY/DUMB SO ID KEEP THAT IN MIND. (FYI IF YOU GO BY PIZZASELF YOURE AWESOME. YOU DONT DESERVE ANY FLACK YOU GET FOR DOING SO AND KEEP BEING YOU BECAUSE YOURE COOL! 8}) BUT YES I AGREE, MOST IF NOT ALL PEOPLE WITH THAT ARGUMENT DO NOT USE NEOPRONOUNS THEMSELVES.

PLEASE REMEMBER THOUGH THAT IF IT WAS UNINETIONAL WHEN YOU INVALIDATE SOMEONE IT WAS AN ACCIDENT AND MISTAKE, AND YOU WILL MOST LIKELY BE FORGIVEN. WE ALL DO AT SOME POINT OR ANOTHER AND I PROMISE IT DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON.

COMING FROM THAT, THERE IS A VERY SIZABLE CHUNK OF NOUNSELF USERS WHO ARE LEGITAMATE AT LEAST THE LEAST, FROM MY PERSONAL OBSERVATION. A PATTERN I THINK IVE NOTICED IN (A PORTION OF) THE PEOPLE WHO I KNOW 100% ARE SINCERE IS USUALLY PEOPLE WILL SELECT NOUN PRONOUNS BASED ON HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT THEMSELVES? FOR THEM ITS DONE AS PART OF GENDER PERFORMANCE TO INVOKE A CERTAIN FEELING, LIKE SOMEONE WHO FEELS VERY CUTESY MIGHT GO FOR BUN/BUNS FOR EXAMPLE. ITS NOT ALWAYS THAT WAY THOUGH.

SORRY I GOT OFF TRACK. ANYWAYS, NOUNSELF TROLLS ARE SOMEWHAT DIFFICULT TO SPOT DUE TO IT BEING WELL. HARD TO MAKE A "PARODY" OF, REALLY. WITH NON-NOUNSELF ID JUST CHECK PRONOUNCIATIONS AND SUCH BEFORE PROCEEDING. FOR THE MOST PART THOUGH I WOULD TRY TO HANDLE YOUR FEARS AS BEST AS POSSIBLE? INSTANCES OF TROLLING LIKE THAT BLOW UP BECAUSE THEY ARE SCARY AND GENERATE CLICKS, THAT DOESNT MEAN THAT THEYRE COMMON NOR UNIVERSAL. IF IT CONTINUES TO BOTHER YOU ID SUGGEST DOING SOMETHING I LEARNED IN THERAPY CALLED A BELIEF EXPERIMENT (DOING A SMALLER, ACHIVABLE ACTION TO ATTEMPT TO PROVE OR DISPROVE WORRIED/ANXIOUS THOUGHTS. ID USUALLY DO THIS WITH A SUPPORTIVE FRIEND TO HAVE YOUR BACK OR SOMETHING OF THAT SORT)

GENERALLY IF YOU THINK YOUR FRIENDS WOULD FIND IT ODD BUT WOULD STILL BE RELITIVELY ACCEPTING ID TREAT IT LIKE A NORMAL COMING OUT OF THE CLOSET WITH A FEW EXTRA STEPS. ID USUALLY SUGGEST TELLING YOUR FRIENDS PERSONALLY BEFORE UPDATING YOUR SOCIALS, BUT THATS UP TO YOU. ID ALSO GO WITH ANY TRANS FRIENDS YOU HAVE FIRST IF THATS AN OPTION, BECAUSE USUALLY ITS EASIER TO EXPLAIN HOW YOU FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WITH NEOS IN THAT SITUATION. IT MIGHT SUCK BUT ID SUGGEST THAT WHEN/IF THEY ARE MILDLY INSENSITIVE JUST EXPLAIN THAT IT BOTHERED YOU AND WHY, HOPEFULLY THEYLL GET IT.

TYPICALLY MY RESPONSE TO SOMEONE BEING RUDE TO ME IS NOT... IDEAL SO I DONT KNOW HOW TO ADVISE YOU ON THAT, BUT GENERALLY YOU DONT HAVE TO DEFEND THE FACT YOU EXIST IF YOURE NOT UP FOR IT. USE THE BLOCK BUTTON AS LIBERALLY AS YOU LIKE, ITS A DEFENCE IN ITS OWN RIGHT.

THATS ALL, I THINK. YOUR MESSAGES COPY-PASTED WILL BE UNDER THE CUT, FORGIVE ME IF I MISSED SOMETHING, I DO HAVE A DISORDER THAT MAKES IT SLIGHTLY DIFFICULT FOR ME TO READ. FEEL FREE TO SUBMIT ANY FURTHER QUESTIONS, COMMENTS ETC AND DO TELL ME IF I DID MISS SOMETHING YOU STILL NEED HELP WITH .

MESSAGES AS FOLLOWS, WITH SEPERATIONS REMOVED:

so i've been using neopronouns for less than a week and every day since i started, i've been getting negative reactions. the negativity comes from strangers, so it doesn't hurt me as personally as if friends were doing this (i actually haven't said anything to my friends about my neopronouns yet). anyhow, when people try to argue with me, i tell them that i don't see why they can't be respectful and call someone whatever makes them feel happy and comfortable. one reaction i got was "just because something makes someone happy doesn't make it valid" and compared it to letting someone drink poison if drinking poison is what makes them happy. then i get a lot of people who bring up stuff like "but what if the pronouns that make me feel valid contain a slur? / what if i use pizzaself? / what if i only go by BLMself pronouns? you'd be invalidating me!!!" and they try to use my own words against me since i've previously said "even if you don't understand it you should call people by what makes them feel valid." i know these people don't even use neopronouns to begin with but tbh it still does start to make me feel guilty? i'm nd and i can't always pick up social cues or sarcasm so i would feel horrible if i did unwillingly invalidate someone. but i'm also kind of paranoid because so much trolling has been going around recently like one video where someone tricked another person into using neopronouns that sounded like a slur when said out loud, recorded it, and put it online. i don't always know who is being sincere and who wants to trick people, particularly with nounself pronouns, like the pizzaself thing. finally, i wanted to go back to the topic of not telling my friends about my neopronouns yet. i feel like if i just start to put my neopronouns on profiles that my friends can view, it'll seem odd to them that i never said anything before, but i also don't know how to bring up in a personal conversation "i found out about some neopronouns i like and i've started using them" without it being awkward. i don't think my friends would make fun of me but i do think they'd find neopronouns 'weird' in general and maybe act kind of insensitive without meaning to, like not getting it. how would you react to the rude ppl? i know i could ignore them but i feel like they take that as them 'winning' or me running out of ways to defend my point of view. and how would you have your friends find out about about you wanting to use neopronouns?

#advice #mod karkat #discussion of anti-neopronouns #cw anti neopronouns #<-- for bl.#I DO USE NEOPRONOUNS MYSELF BUT IF I SAID SOMETHING WRONG OR OFFENSIVE HERE PLEASE CORRECT ME I KNOW IM NOT PERFECT HFJGJH. (SAYING THIS-#BECAUSE IT FEELS A LITTLE OFF BUT I CANNOT PINPOINT WHERE)

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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Hello!! May I request some Kedamono related pronouns? (kedamono is from Popee the Performer :D)

I DONT REALLY KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT POPEE SO THESE WILL JUST BE BASED ON THE VERY BASICS, HOPE THATS OK

BEAST/BEASTS (beast seems very energetic, and beasts nice)

WO/WOL/WOLF (wo had the right idea in telling me what kedamono is from, otherwise i may not have been able to figure out wol request. i wish wolf a good day.)

BARK/BARKS (bark sent this ask! barks the first one to request anything in a while.)

MA/MAS/MASK

#//Popee the Performer #neopronoun help #homebrew pronouns #mod karkat

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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hello! welcome to my edit blog, there is one mod on this account, mod jade! i use they/it pronouns

please read my carrd for the list of things i do, info, and my dni.

credit is not needed for my stuff but appreciated!

can i get a promo? (you dont need to) @wiltshire-kins @cryptidzeditimgz @stuff4stucks + anyone else whod like to!

#we request from here sometimes- give them a shot

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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Hi!! Could you help me find some non-nounself earth/dirt related pronouns? I’m not against nounself, I just don’t personally vibe with it :) tysm!!

I COULDNT FIND ANYTHING ON THE WIKI I CHECKED BUT HERES TWO SETS I MADE UP? IM NOT SURE IF THEY FIT WHAT YOURE LOOKING FOR BUT HOPEFULLY THEYRE GOOD

TERRA/TERRAS/TERRIN

(TERRA SENT ME THIS ASK. I WISH TERRIN A GOOD DAY. TERRAS ASK IS ONE OF THE FEW IVE HAD IN A WHILE)

DYR/DIER

(USED GRAMMATICALLY LIKE IT/ITS)

SIL/SYOL/SILS

(SIL WANTED EARTH THEMED PRONOUNS. IM TRYING MY BEST. SIL’S BEEN VERY POLITE AND I APPRECIATE THAT. ITS VERY NICE OF SYOL)

🌎/🌎S

(A CLASSIC. I DIDNT MAKE THIS ONE UP OBVIOUSLY )

BEST OF LUCK OUT THERE, EARTHLING :}

#neopronoun help #mod karkat #homebrew pronouns #found pronouns

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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hello!!! could i get a scenecore feferi pesterquest edit??

YEAH I THINK? THIS IS A LITTLE LACKLUSTER AND THIS ASK IS LIKE CENTURIES OLD BUT HERE YOU ARE

THIS EXPRESSION SPOKE TO ME ALSO //HJ

#bread--quest #pesterquest sprite edit #sprite edit #feferi pexies #mod karkat

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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Hi so, I have a problem!! my main kin ID is a non-canon troll named Vixirg, who uses it/its as I don't quite vibe with they/them + feel better being entirely removed from gender. and i really, really want some new neopronouns. but i'm so bad at making neos! i don't type my 'typing' quirk so much as i like.. speak it, verbally stimming it as i type, maybe that's good inspo for neo making. so, think you could suggest some nb troll + scenecore based neos?

HM. ILL TRY? I FEEL KINDA TIRED SO IM NOT GOING TO MAKE MANY IF THATS OK

VI/VIX (VI GOT A CUPCAKE TOO. MINE HAS GREEN FROSTING BUT VIX'S HAS PURPLE.)

MI/MIN/MINS (HEMOANON PRONOUNS FROM HERE)

KANDI/KANDIS (KANDI SENT BE THIS ASK. KANDIS MAIN KIN IS NONCANNON.)

I HOPE THESE ARE GOOD? IM A LITTLE UNSURE WHAT IM DOING SORRY

#mod karkat #homebrew pronouns #found pronouns #pronoun requests #neopronoun help #homestuck kin #tw homestuck #noncannon homestuck kin

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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Lalonde Swapped Karkat who Misses Davepetasprite with Punk & Highschool themes for anon! [DON'T TAG AS KIN]

#karkat.reblog #for karlonde #personal content

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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Custom Blood Aspect themed flag for Anon!

#hohh fuck yea #karkat.reblog #personal content

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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May I please have some demigirl Rose icons? Thank you!

BADA BING BADA BOOM, HERE YOU GO ANON. HOPE THIS WORKS

#queue of things we made

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fridgeful-o-help · 3 years

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(Not a rq) Karkat Nitram stimboard anon here- TYSM!!!!!!! Both stimboards are really good and calming, they’re even better than I could have imagined, tysm!!!!!

AAA THANK YOU!! IM SUPER GLAD THEY WORK FOR YOU, AND YOURE SO SWEET. I REALLY LIKE WATER STIMS SO THESE WHERE REALLY NICE TO WORK ON. COME BACK AND REQUEST SOMETHING ANYTIME, OKAY? I THINK YOURE PRETTY POGGERS :3

- MOD FRIDGE (RAVEN)

#nice mail #queue of things we made

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