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[friendoffelidae]

Hey, anyone remember me?…

No, but all jokes aside, I am sincerely SO sorry for ghosting this account and for anyone I worried or hurt. I’d like to explain myself.

One of my posts (the “boomer memes” post) got really popular, and because of that I got an influx of attention, some good and some not so great, that I wasn’t prepared for. Alongside that I slid into a really deep depression (completely unrelated to the post, don’t worry mean messages from a post wouldn’t be enough to make me depressed lol) and I just…couldn’t find the energy or will to post anything. And as the days and weeks and months continued, I felt less and less like I could come back and explain myself to potentially angry and upset people.

But I really want to do the right thing and officially apologize to anyone who feels like I wronged them or ghosted them or worried them. It was never my intention and I am so sorry.

Right now I’m active on my new Twitter @friendofelidae so please feel free to follow me there if you want to keep in contact. Message me there if you want my Discord as well! I love you guys ❤️

[friendoffelidae]

Hey, anyone remember me?…

No, but all jokes aside, I am sincerely SO sorry for ghosting this account and for anyone I worried or hurt. I’d like to explain myself.

One of my posts (the “boomer memes” post) got really popular, and because of that I got an influx of attention, some good and some not so great, that I wasn’t prepared for. Alongside that I slid into a really deep depression (completely unrelated to the post, don’t worry mean messages from a post wouldn’t be enough to make me depressed lol) and I just…couldn’t find the energy or will to post anything. And as the days and weeks and months continued, I felt less and less like I could come back and explain myself to potentially angry and upset people.

But I really want to do the right thing and officially apologize to anyone who feels like I wronged them or ghosted them or worried them. It was never my intention and I am so sorry.

Right now I’m active on my new Twitter @friendofelidae so please feel free to follow me there if you want to keep in contact. Message me there if you want my Discord as well! I love you guys ❤️

[friendoffelidae]

this is making me delirious. I want to cry every time I read this

#okay but this genuinely resonates so perfectly and wholly with my heart and how I truly feel about the world #like this legit made me emotional all animals are a part of Gods choir!!!! most definitely including Sheldon!!!!

[friendoffelidae]

psa to everyone on antipsychotics during the summertime

some antipsychotics can make you more susceptible to heat exhaustion because they make it so your body cannot regulate your body temperature correctly. I learned this the hard way last summer, I got really nasty heat exhaustion while on a high dose of quetiapine. so check if your meds react badly to heat, and if they do, please be sure to wear your sunscreen, have light cover ups on or with you, wear a hat, and stay hydrated! be safe

[friendoffelidae]

(via sneezy brizzle)

#oh OHHH OH #handsome!!! he looks so much like Tut!!! #he’s all black with a little white tuft on his chest too #we call it his Badge of Honor #it is the source of all his immense power

[friendoffelidae]

Learn to articulate how you're feeling without accusing anyone of having bad intentions. You can say "I'm afraid of being alone" without saying "you're just going to leave me like everyone else." You can say "I need some reassurance" without saying "you probably don't love me anymore." You can say "I'm afraid I've hurt your feelings and I'd like to talk it through" without saying "you don't even like me anymore." You can say "I want to spend more time with you" without saying "you've gotten tired of me." You can say "I feel misunderstood" without saying "you always judge me." Try not to let your emotions get the best of you. Have a conversation focused on finding solutions instead of escalating the conflict.

[friendoffelidae]

Viahart - Drevnar the Dragon

24"

Wow!! Bright!! I love all the details on this friend. (And they're so colorful!)

#OH MY GOD #OHHH MY GOD #THIS UNLOCKED SUCH A PRIMAL IMPORTANT MEMORY WITHIN ME #when I was a little girl I saved and saved my money so I could buy this exact stuffed animal #he was sooo expensive but I finally got to buy him and it was so WORTH IT #and he was my most prized possession for years #but I lost him during a move on year!!!! #I haven’t thought about him in years….maybe if I can find a secondhand replica I might try to get another one….

[friendoffelidae]

I will literally never believe your 20s are meant to be the prime of your life. The years immediately following your adolescence? When you’re entrenched in the battlefields of un/learning, healing, and growing? Yeah right

#if these are the best years of my life I’m fully truly convinced the rest of my life is not worth it #the only thing that’s keeping me going is the hope things might get better

[friendoffelidae]

for the love of god, write all the self-indulgent scenes you want.  be utterly  shameless about including every last fantasy.  i know everyone likes to share quotes and quips about how miserably hard writing is, but please please try thinking of it as a joyful act where you get to be a messy human who makes art rather than some pain filled quest for icy perfection.

[friendoffelidae]

Omg, this is so funny because I have ADORED this man for YEARS but had no idea about ANY OF THIS, I was literally just a fan of his adorable cats, the demure little Blackberry and Loudmouth Clinton, and paid no attention to the rest of his videos.

https://youtu.be/Y8bvry109OM

That’s Louis Rossman, a repair technician and YouTuber, who went viral recently for railing against Apple. Apple purposely charges a lot for repairs and you either have to pay up or buy a new device. That’s because Apple withholds necessary tools and information from outside repair shops. And to think, we were just so close to change.

Follow @the-future-now

#Youtube

[friendoffelidae]

Can’t believe I went to 6 months of 12 step meetings to learn this wisdom when I could have just watched this

#this is honestly very very very good advice

[friendoffelidae]

Just saw an 11 year old on Tumblr with her whole name and info in her bio and like-

Listen i know there are lots of kids here under the age of 14 and you want to be on internet and have fun too and it's all good just be safe?? Don't tell your full name, where you live, your age (to random strangers) and especially your photos. I know I sound annoying and "old fashioned" but it is important dude, there are lot of people on the internet waiting to take advantage of you, i am not saying everyone is bad most people are amazing but some are not good? Don't disclose your information, idk if schools and parents have stopped teaching these things but you have to know internet safety, I know how much you wanna ignore and "break the rules" I was just like you but for god sake keep yourself safe please.

#honestly I think that goes for everyone but definitely ESPECIALLY KIDS #I think the current social media culture is waaaay too comfortable having no separation with their online and offline life #and like if you’ve made an informed decision that that’s how you want to go about it that’s fine #but I feel like a lot of people just…overshare personal details without reallt thinking of #the possible ramifications that they very well might not be comfortable with #like this blog is pretty small and intimate but I still don’t have my real first name or pics of me permanently on here #every time I post a selfie I delete it within a couple hours and make sure no one reblogs it #and only a couple of trusted mutuals know my real name

[friendoffelidae]

eww why are you having salad

are you five years old

[friendoffelidae]

I’m going on a trip to see family the day after tomorrow and I’m really excited but I have to leave my cats and mom and dad and brother and I’m just 😭😭😭

#I’m trying to have a good attitude about it #I never get to see my extended family and they are really important to me!!! #but I just really don’t do well without my cats…they’re my ultimate comfort and happiness #and ofc my human family #I just have very mixed feelings about the whole thing #it’s gonna suck to wake up in my hotel bed and realize Tut isn’t there 😭 #I might ask mom if she can put me on video call with the cats

[friendoffelidae]

conditioning my opponent

#yeah their hair is gonna end up fucked up since you conditioned first and then shampooed #you’re just stripping all that conditioner from their hair. useless.

[friendoffelidae]

#ughhohh CRY cry cry cry cry #😭😭💖💖💖

[friendoffelidae]

I sometimes see people tag their reblogs of strongly worded posts with “I don’t understand this but I’ll reblog it because it seems important,” and guys, that is exactly the worst thing to do