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red flags in feedees (a warning to feeders)

my 'red flags in feeders' post got some traction, so I figured it was time to explore the other side of the coin.

🚩they hound/message a feeder that has already given them a "no" in some form and/or ignore the boundaries a feeder has set. 🚩they think all feeders want to/should interact with them based on the principle of the kink dynamic. 🚩they expect you to be into mutual gaining and get angry/upset if you're not. 🚩they're staunchly anti fat acceptance/liberation/etc. 🚩they pressure you into aspects of feedism that you aren't comfortable engaging in. 🚩they're unwilling to incorporate broader kink best practices such as aftercare, safewords, RACK checklists, etc. 🚩they throw a temper tantrum when you retract your consent/change your mind. 🚩they expect you to pay for ALL their meals and new clothes, no questions asked. 🚩they get upset if you gain weight, whether intentionally or not. 🚩they don't seem to understand why fat feeders =/= mutual gainers. 🚩they're needy; they get angry or upset if you aren't able to chat with or take care of them 24/7. 🚩they try to guilt trip you into breaking things off with any other feedees you might have. 🚩they try to shoehorn feedism into every corner of your relationship and/or life; they don't know when to "switch off" the kink talk. 🚩they try to weaponize their marginalized status against you/play oppression olympics (e.g. "fat people have it worse than POC")

there's probably more, but I'm having trouble thinking of any. stay safe out there.

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You want to call yourself her daddy?

What’s her favorite color? What’s something that always makes her laugh? What are her goals? Her dreams? What is she afraid of? Do you know what she likes do to when she wants to relax? Do you know what helps her when she’s had a bad day? Can you recognize when she needs extra love because she’s feeling needy but doesn’t want to say anything? Can you tell when she’s bothered by something? Do you know her favorite way to be held, to be cuddled, to be wrapped up in your arms? Are you her safe place to go to when the world gets scary? Does she feel safe opening up to you? Does she feel like she can tell you anything? Do you punish from a place of love/caring, for correction of her destructive behaviors, for her own good? Do you see her as a person, a whole complete, complicated person? Do you make her feel respected and cherished? Do you protect her? Do you take care of her?

Being daddy is way more than fucking her, and if you’re not ready to take her heart, mind, body and soul, and protect & treat them with all the love, care, tenderness, respect that you are capable of giving, then you’re not her daddy. You’re just some asshole who wants to be called that. And you can get fucked.

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I’m ~overflowing~ with fat 😍

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thinking about my belly sticking out in front of me

thinking about having to waddle everywhere

thinking about my hips, thighs and ass getting thicker

thinking about my tits going up two cup sizes

thinking about stretched skin and spreading my legs to let my belly rest between them

thinking about feeling to full, filled to the brim

thinking about barely being able to reach my pussy but getting off anyway

thinkifn about clothes barely fitting even though they fit last week

thinking about looking in the mirror and wondering what happened how did so much change in just a few months

thinking about being overdue and balancing between thinking i'm too big and thinking i want to get bigger

thinking about giving birth and immediately doing it all over again

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I’m backkkk 🐷🐷🐷🐷

I worked a long horny day at work (thx’s to @shyberrybabe) and I was absolutely craving devouring some Taco Bell and boy was I not joking 🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤 the smell of my food was making me want to cum in the car 🙈🙈🙈

Here’s my glorious Taco Bell feast 🐷🐷🐷 the before’s 🤤🤤🤤

I’ve never been so bloated in a while… I was actually physically pinned to my bed by my massive belly. I could not move and could barely breathe without being in so much pain 😫😫😫😫😫 but it felt so worth it

I’m such a big fucking pig 🐽

Teasing 😈 is very very welcome as atm I’m a very very horny 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

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help...I think I ate too much 🥵

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Feeling huge right now 🥵

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belly fat with a recoil 🤤🐷🩷

good piggies gotta keep growing 🐷🍔🍟🍕🧀🥨

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Orange, blue, pink: feeders delight 😈

Which would you choose..? 🤍

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Nothing feels as good as surrendering to obesity 🩷

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i swearrrr i have panties on !!! my tummy just hides them 😇

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My workers got to watch me flatten myself out of my uniform. lol

I was the one who encouraged several of them to start going to the gym!

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I never thought I’d get this fat.. especially when I thought I was HUGE in the before picture 🤭

I guess that’s what happens when you start making Feedee content.. I lost control 😈

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Outgrown tops are the cutest tops.

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she bïgge

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im waiting for u to go get me a snack

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Bloated with alcohol and bread uwu