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thanks keyboard, when I accidentally typed hest instead of best I totally wanted the hest (norwegian word for horse) emoji

[jon-doe-with-the-weather]

isnt it fun when you might not. be plural. because nothing that bad ever happened, right? she didn't hurt us that much, she just wasn't great. nothing traumatic ever happened that i can remember that would cause this. but it did? and i see people talk about endos and i think what if thats me. what if im faking it and dont realise, and its Not Valid because i didnt have those expieriences. i never had the toxic relationships my friends did. i didn't have that. there have been some bad times, but i dont think its anything that would cause me to not just be me. i don't remember anything about that.

#vent

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System who only one other person knows you're a system culture is: always feeling mildly nervous when on discord servers seeing other systems using plural kit and just DISPLAYING their whole system. Nothing negative against them, but I just can't imagine telling a whole public server we're a system, let alone signing off who everyone is?

The host dated someone once who just openly told irl strangers about their system and it genuinely terrified us because we couldn't Imagine ever doing that

Like if we are not close, you will probably never get to know about our system unless we meet in a system space

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autistic plural culture is having so many fictives that you struggle to separate fiction from reality sometimes

our life is like a really insane crossover fic sometimes bc. fuck you mean rose lalonde, selene from pokemon and rei ayanami are all cohosts??? 😭 (this is all silly we're all very source separate but. Funny)

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Plural culture is seeing so many other people say they get headaches because of having DID/OSDD but you just..don’t and now you have a new thing to fake claim yourself about.

~Empire System🐕

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i have no idea what to make the icon for this blog because we woudl change it too often to its Fine we're just leavingit default

#the only ppl i know for certaina re in this head is: #nym #the toy soldier (mechanisms) #and someone whos gets angry mad who isnt nym #and maybe nicole (class of 09) #and maybe narrator (stanley parable)??? #the only ones easy to track are the fictives and i lose track of them. so much #i know Very Little abt terms and stuff so i just. reblog posts abt it here so the IRL moots on our main dont sus us out

[jon-doe-with-the-weather]

not every system has a gatekeeper.

not every system has a set host.

not every osdd system has less than 50 alters.

not every polyfrag system has more than 1000 alters.

not every system has an innerworld.

not every system can access their innerworld.

not every system hates their system.

not every system knows everything about themselves.

not every system knows nothing about themselves.

not every system sees themselves in the same way.

everyone’s system is different. everyone deals with their systemhood differently and has different views on systemhood.

you are not broken or wrong or faking for not being like someone else. you’re just different, like every system is <3

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Technically, if you’re plural, every project is a group project. Give your headmates credit

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Sometimes blurry means there's too many near front to figure out who is in control

Somtimes blurry means we don't feel like anyone at all

Sometimes blurry means we're someone, but they're new or unknown so we can't tell

Sometimes blurry means there's a mix of a few of us and it's easier to just say we're blurry

Sometimes blurry means we're so dissociated we can't process who we are at all

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sometimes a girl is actually a bunch of girls. and thats ok. all of her is awesome. shes multiple girls. a wom&n, if you will

this post is about being a system (but i dont mind if you reblog it about something else). also its inclusive of all system origins

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plural culture is asking yourself, “am i faking it?” and a headmate immediately replying, “i’m real, dumbass”

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plural culture is asking yourself, “am i faking it?” and a headmate immediately replying, “i’m real, dumbass”

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plural culture is asking yourself, “am i faking it?” and a headmate immediately replying, “i’m real, dumbass”

[jon-doe-with-the-weather]

my alters have been down lately, so this is for them and anyone else who needs to hear it:

alters whose voices/accents don't present themselves when speaking are valid

alters whose writing looks exactly like the host's writing are valid

perpetrators and persecutors who are nice are valid

alters who get mean, even though they're usually nice, are valid

alters who haven't fronted in forever are valid

alters who front daily are valid

alters who go nonverbal when fronting are valid

you're all valid, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

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Fronting experiences!

1. The helicopter parent

Alter just pops in out of nowhere uninvited and starts giving opinions on what you're doing

2. Curious child

Alter just starts asking you a bunch of questions on what you're doing and shenanigans out of nowhere

3. Thrown in

You're struggling! Quick gatekeeper! Throw a motherfucker here to help!!

4. The corner whisperer

You don't even notice they're in front with you until you hear them whispering from a corner all of your darkest thoughts

5. I'm coming for you bitch

You say 1 thing about an alter and then you can hear them sprinting to front, too late, he found you!

6. Positive hyperfixation trigger

Oh no i mention bees, now the little is fronting and babbling non-stop about them!

7. "ACTSHUALLY ☝️🤓"

You make one single mistake and THAT motherfucker comes out of nowhere to tell you how wrong you are, THANKS JACKASS

8. Party!

A lot of alters just front cuz something fun IS happening!!

9. Party! /Neg

A lot of alters just front cuz something horrible IS happening!!

10. You kinda just wake up together

You get to front and the other guy is just there with you too, alright then

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this image is sooo system coded

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shoutout to my therapist who, upon me telling her i didn’t like the word alter, started referring to my headmates as “my homies.” like “any updates on your homies? have you heard from your homies at all this week” she’s the only true plural ally