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Bonus:

GET SOME THERAPY

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Started to draw my feelings. I'm not a great artist, but I have to get it out somehow. The current climate in the USA regarding biologically female bodies and transgender people has been getting to me. This helped.

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I’m feeling like some of y’all forget the term transneutral exists. If I have to see another posts acting like transfem and transmasc are the only groups of trans people ever I’m going to explode.

And if for whatever reason you want to talk specifically about amab nonbinary ppl/afab nonbinary ppl the terms MtX and FtX are right there.

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now more than ever it's blatantly obvious that people go out of their way to erase trans men from communities and queer history. it's always been happening, but it's way easier to watch it in real time now thanks to the internet and social media. we are watching people basically gloating that they misgender trans men and don't see them as men. we are now watching people kick trans men out of queer spaces because they are often "femme and them" or "nonbinary and woman" support groups, conflating nonbinary identities with womanhood, and denying trans men or transmasc nonbinary people places to go. many of them get told that their presence would "scare" the lesbians, women and enbies because they have trauma.

where do the trans men with trauma go, though? we can't go anywhere. when i was struggling with domestic violence that ended up destroying my right leg, i was denied shelter in queer spaces and even women's spaces even though i have F on license. domestic violence shelters especially will turn trans men away if we pass. even if we partially identify as women, we can't go in because 'our voices are deep and scary and we're loud and aggressive and threatening and might prey on the defenseless scared women'

finding transmasc support groups is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. i've seen numerous organizations across the US have transfemme support groups, nonbinary/genderqueer support groups, and then nothing for transmascs. where the hell do we go when they won't let us go anywhere?

we try to exist online and they try to erase us from here, too. bickering and arguing about how we're not real men, sending trans men death and sexual assault threats, acting like they're saviors for kicking out the "dangerous ugly men" from the queer community, as if we don't belong to it at all.

i refuse to be erased. i refuse to sit in silence while people tell me my problems don't matter because now i "have male privilege". I don't. once people find out what my legal name is they view me as a woman. strangers however view me as a cis man and will deny me help, either through programs, or because i'm a "strong young man, i should be able to pick myself up by my boot straps." i'm not white. i'm not abled.

i'm proud to be a trans man and i will be here to fight for other trans men's rights to have a platform to speak, and spaces to occupy. i will not rest until trans men & mascs have safe places to be and meet other trans men.

trans men are queer. we belong here. we are taking up the space we rightfully deserve and we are not leaving.

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sick of seeing hate thrown towards “baby gays.” let them wear rainbows. let them wear their pride flags like capes. let them make jokes about their identity and talk about it all the time. let them wear tails and puppy ears. let them do what is constantly deemed as “cringe.” let them be excited about finally being able to express their true selves. they deserve it. we all deserve it.

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bro, the me inside your head is kind to you, right? haha? 🤨

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I want a tail. and. 37 million dollars

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Everyone is annoying and cringy sometimes - it’s apart of being human.

What matters is how you treat someone when you think they are ‘annoying’ or ‘cringy’.

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Hey guys if you were curious why Stardew Valley needs a nonbinary option & they/them or custom pronouns, this is why. I hope this helps you all!

if ppl are having this fucking reaction to a simple request for nonbinary friendly gameplay then you have bred the worst fucking internet community ever and need to make some changes to weed this shit out.

Also Stardew valley fans, for the love of god. Please quit your ass kissing. You're embarrassing yourself.

Also also, if you tell me to use mods you owe me $5

#concerned ape please #i want my relaxing farm game community to be safe #and to the mod folks: what about console players?

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[I/D: A screenshot of an ask sent by tumblr user shtunbsing. It reads: "Hello mate? Ya Allah, I am really sorry but is it fine to talk to you in private or inbox? If you feel comfortable.. I am sorry but I just badly need to do this. Sorry again and Assalaam 'alaikum 🤲🏼 please answer privately" the screenshot has been edited with a static filter. end ID.]

This is the ask user @shtunbsing is spamming people with. If you receive this ask, please answer it publicly and do not accept their request to private message. They are a scammer who is stealing their story and pictures off of Facebook.

If they sent you a paypal address to send money too, please share that info as well so that we can better keep track of this particular scammer.

Absolutely do not donate to them, and warn your friends and followers about them.

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some oldish doodles

i felt the urge to post them

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No in between. Reblog if you vote pleas

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Eating slime mold by MaximumMoustache

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