i think that people should start using “in poor taste” as a descriptor again given it is often the most applicable and clearest phrase when discoursing about media and analysis; sometimes a piece of art isn’t actually THE most problematic thing of all time is is. just in poor taste (not JUST in poor taste as a reductive take on potential harm but/and as in regardless of intent the impact is this was an offensive or stupid take/choice)
Messaging a girl and she referred to her conversation with me as "just playing with her food" and I nearly moaned out loud anyways what about you guys how have your days been
in general I think this website has a serious problem about wanting to feel smugly superior about Literally Everything without spending even five seconds thinking about it first
Sending my unconditional love to addicts and people with horrible compulsions and people who are suicidal and everyone who feels utterly alone and all the psychotic people who society disdains and the homeless and people who feel lost and everyone who doesn't want to get better and people seeking vindication and people who can't let go and people who are undesired. I love you all so much.
the idea that restrooms, locker rooms, etc need to be single-sex spaces in order for women to be safe is patriarchy's way of signalling to men & boys that society doesn't expect them to behave themselves around women. it is directly antifeminist. it would be antifeminist even if trans people did not exist. a feminist society would demand that women should be safe in all spaces even when there are men there.
ive seen that one smoking poll like 4 times today and like. smokers ur fine, smoking or using any substance is morally completely neutral and ur not a bad person for being addicted or just using something, but acting like anyone who doesnt do those things is cringe or like, surprising is dumb. like this is the website with the CELEBACY!!!! gif man lmao,,
BUT ALSO!!!! replying to smokers saying "UR GONNA GET LUNG CANCER UR GONNA DIE!!!! THATS SO GROSS YOURE KILLING URSELF!!!!!" is weird. like im sure they know the risks dude. ur allowed to not want to or want to do things that are harmful to your body, its your life yknow. taking moral high grounds on either side of addiction is stupid.