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Awww little ugly creature

#alien stage #DAMN????@?

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Ok, probably a bad idea for me to get into this during midterms week but I've been seeing a lot of (really bad) misinterpretations of what transandrophobia is and I feel the need to get this off my chest.

Transandrophobia is NOT

A way to excuse or mock transmisogyny

"Run of the mill" transphobia

"Run of the mill" misogyny

A tool to oppress or speak over women of any kind

The same thing as "men's rights"

Thing is: I'm not saying that transmascs cannot ever be misogynistic or transmisogynistic, what I'm saying is that the idea of transandrophobia is not that. Transmisogyny is a real problem, and I do not deny that my trans sisters suffer from it. If you genuinely believe I am being transmisogynistic and point out specifically where, I am willing to listen and correct myself.

But I am also asking that you do the same for us. Just as transmisogyny is a word to describe the unique type of discrimination experienced by transfems, transandrophobia is a word to describe the unique type of discrimination experienced by transmascs. And again, it's not just misogyny + transphobia, it's being invisible, condescended to, having our identity dismissed in the context of reproductive healthcare, being excluded from discussions around reproductive healthcare, and much more. Some of these may overlap with what transfems and nonbinary people face, and some may not.

There's also the myth going around that transmascs, especially trans men, are privileged because it's "easier" for us to pass. That's far from true. I am a binary trans man who has been on T for 2+ years and I pass insanely easily. BUT I AM ONE OF THE RARE LUCKY ONES. And even if my experience was common or guaranteed, any male privilege I have is CONDITIONAL ON PASSING. "Choosing" to be a man in spite of my birth circumstances does not make me privileged. Privilege does not get handed to you if you are changing your identity away from your AGAB, regardless of what gender you're changing to or from. (This is without touching on how me being east Asian may factor in)

And while I'm at it: MEN OF ANY SORT ARE NEITHER INHERENTLY EVIL NOR INHERENTLY BIGOTS. SIMILARLY, WOMEN ARE NOT INHERENTLY GOOD OR SAFE. Neither one's birth sex nor their chosen gender have any weight on whether they are a good or bad person. It is the individual's actions and only the individual's actions that matter.

This is getting long and rambly, but to reiterate the main point one last time:

TRANSANDROPHOBIA AND TRANSMISOGYNY ARE BOTH IMPORTANT WORDS THAT ADDRESS IMPORTANT PROBLEMS/TYPES OF OPPRESSION, AND IT IS IMPERATIVE THAT THEY COEXIST

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if you have violent intrusive thoughts I love you. if you have sexual intrusive thoughts I love you. if you have bigoted intrusive thoughts I love you. you are not your thoughts and you are worthy of love and care and help and affection. you are not a monster you’re a person going through it and that’s okay

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"well if it's not androgynous what should a nonbinary person look like??" ***EXTREMELY LOUD BUZZER SOUND*** WRONG!!!! YOU GOT IT ALL WRONG!!!!!!! NOBODY "SHOULD" ANYTHING!!!! THAT IS NOT WHAT QUEERNESS IS ABOUT!!!!! GO TO THE CALM DOWN CORNER AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU'VE JUST SAID.

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i love learning cursive just to write text for exactly one character

#murder drones

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if you are a disabled person of any severity and can make it through a grocery shopping trip, i am proud of you and look up to you. if you can't make it through a grocery shopping trip for whatever reason, pain, anxiety, psychosis, ADHD, autism, depression, memory or attention issues, fatigue, exhaustion, irritability, confusion, dissociation, or anything else, you have my condolences because i'm right there with you, that shit sucks ass. it's needlessly complicated and its something that abled people take for granted

of course disabled people cant go across the entire store to put an item back every time. of course disabled people may need help getting items from high or low places. of course disabled people will get lost even in labeled places because of object blindness, blindness/eye problems, bad attention span, anxiety, or other issues, of course there are who can't make it through the entire store without collapsing

these stores are designed to confuse customers and trap them inside for as long as possible to increase impulse spending, of course disabled people are going to struggle to navigate the store. i love you if you're disabled and can navigate the store, kudos to you, but i also love you if you can't. it's not easy and people take for granted how easy it is for them when others can't do it at all

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i’m gay but i’m always gonna choose the well developed straight ship over the 2 bland and incompatible white dudes that have 500,000 fanfics written about them. you guys just hate women.

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you're going about your normal day when, suddenly, surprise! you've been pokémon mystery dungeon'd!

unfortunately, due to budget cuts, the pokémon assigning quiz has been canceled. instead, you must spin THE WHEEL, assigning you a random, unevolved, non-legendary and non-mythical pokémon. you must now go on some sort of world-saving adventure as this pokémon. good luck!

tell me in the tags what you rolled, and how you feel about it - for bonus points, you can spin the wheel again for (or just take your pick of) a pokémon to be your partner.

bonus rules:

you're not shiny unless the wheel tells you you're shiny

take your pick of regional forms and evolutions (for example, if you roll vulpix, it's up to you whether that means normal or alolan vulpix)

apply whatever logic you like with regards to gender

have fun and be yourself!

#buneary! cutie pie #id definitely be able to destroy the masses as a buneary :3

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theres a popular brand in canada called no name brand and it manufactures everything you can imagine in a grocery store and it kind of makes me feel like im in a world no one bothered to do much world building for

#moving to canada just for this actually

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ah yes they call me “No Queue” Jones because I post everything I reblog at once with no breaks in between and then vanish into the night for extended periods of inactivity

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It's insane how actually talking about the real transphobic violence that trans men face will get people in this Webbed Site to call you transphobic. None of you live in the real fucking world. None of you have ever talked to trans people. Jesus Christ, leave transmascs and trans men alone.

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DUDE DEADASS SAME

like i be scrollin somewhere and BAM. color theory. BAM. eye contact theory. BAM. mizisua ivantill parallels. BAM BAM BAM BAM till was the first to look at ivan. IT NEVER STOPS

if i see one more alien stage analysis post im not kidding i will explode (/j. i just can't keep getting sad over these gays and hets)

#alien stage

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Luka-in-the-human-rebel-camp-for-some-reason AU, in which Luka looks at Hyuna putting on a skimpy lil outfit and goes "...? Why are you wearing that? You don't have to perform to save your life anymore." and Hyuna goes "I know, I just like it." and Luka's transfem-in-denial brain shatters bc they never considered they could be pretty and sexy without someone deciding their clothes for them and putting them in outfits that are uncomfortable and revealing and made to entertain.

(Hyuna finds them a cute outfit that makes them feel sexy and pretty and also covers up their body and moves with them in a way that's much more comfortable than anything they were forced to wear, and she thinks that's the most attractive they've ever looked.)

#alien stage #hyuluka #tempted to imbue this into hostage and hostess sometime #trans luka my baby

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So much history you weren't present for

#lego monkie kid #aaaaaaahhhhGGGGHHHHHH #SHBUBGHD EUUUURRRRRGHHHHHHh

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"Queer people should be weirder"

Y'all can't even handle trans men with full beards who lift weights and won't take your shit without calling them "examples of toxic masculinity"

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