As if you could handle that girl. That time we went out with her, wasn’t it you who was panting behind me?
Nani Hirunkit as MJ & Win Metawin as KAVIN
Ep. 10 | F4 THAILAND: BOYS OVER FLOWERS (2022) dir. O Patha Thongpan
“I have learned that when sadness comes to visit me, all I can do is say “I see you.” I spend some time with it, get up, and say goodbye. I don’t push it away. I own it. And because I own it, I let it go.”
“[Housework] is undoubtedly a great blessing, too, because it keeps me sane, it forces me to live a regular life & is in general good for me although I curse it every day.”
— Ludwig Wittgenstein, “Letter to Lee Malcolm (5 June 1948)”
I wish people were a bit less judgemental about people's reactions to this Build issue.
Yes, things look really bad for Build and yet there's people defending him, wanting to believe in him.
If something or someone you love gets put into question like this people often react with denial. They want to believe that someone they love is a good person and wouldn't deceive them. Some people truly believe in "innocent until proven guilty" until there's some official decision so they stay.
Others can't wait that long. Their feelings tell them to drop Build. To walk away.
Both of it is valid in my eyes.
Just don't go out of your way to attack the one accusing Build but also don't wish death upon Build.
None of us were there. We can only judge by what is shared and partially translated on social media.
We aren't judges. Or God. Or the law.
If Build is found guilty please don't blame yourself for believing in him.
If Build is found innocent please don't feel guilty for leaving.