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notforyov · 23 days
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Rot in hell oj simpson
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notforyov · 2 months
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porn addiction isn’t real but if one site is inaccessible in one state then that’s the government outlawing masturbation
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notforyov · 2 months
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If I have any women following me who are in addiction recovery please be aware that men in NA and AA have a thing called “13th stepping” where they try to sleep with vulnerable newcomers in early sobriety, and then if they do they will brag about it with other men in the group. There are also many cases of these men encouraging women to relapse.
and this isn’t an uncommon fringe thing at all - it actually happened to me. when I went to a meeting for the second time a much older man approached me and asked if I needed a sponsor. I was very young at the time and naively said yes and agreed to exchange numbers. He seemed well-liked within the group so I thought he had good intentions. Fast forward a couple days and I was struggling with thoughts of relapsing so I texted him asking him to meet at a coffee shop near me and he said “sure but can we mess around first?” I was stunned at how disgusting it was and I never went to an NA group again after that.
Please only go to women’s groups and if there are none near you, have a trusted friend drive you to and from meetings and get a female sponsor. I’m sure you all already know that but I certainly didn’t know how big of an issue this was when I was in early recovery.
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notforyov · 2 months
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If I have any women following me who are in addiction recovery please be aware that men in NA and AA have a thing called “13th stepping” where they try to sleep with vulnerable newcomers in early sobriety, and then if they do they will brag about it with other men in the group. There are also many cases of these men encouraging women to relapse.
and this isn’t an uncommon fringe thing at all - it actually happened to me. when I went to a meeting for the second time a much older man approached me and asked if I needed a sponsor. I was very young at the time and naively said yes and agreed to exchange numbers. He seemed well-liked within the group so I thought he had good intentions. Fast forward a couple days and I was struggling with thoughts of relapsing so I texted him asking him to meet at a coffee shop near me and he said “sure but can we mess around first?” I was stunned at how disgusting it was and I never went to an NA group again after that.
Please only go to women’s groups and if there are none near you, have a trusted friend drive you to and from meetings and get a female sponsor. I’m sure you all already know that but I certainly didn’t know how big of an issue this was when I was in early recovery.
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notforyov · 2 months
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People who used tumblr for 8 months in 2014 are like “haha people still on tumblr. Still reblogging gifs of effy stonem” No I am participating in the premiere literary salon of strange women. We are inventing the culture
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notforyov · 2 months
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If any part of your life would be a past homosexual's dream, hold onto that. Hold it tighter than any of the pains <3
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notforyov · 2 months
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notforyov · 2 months
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Our Aileen who art in heaven Hallowed be thy name Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done It doesn't count if they're johns.
Awomen.
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notforyov · 2 months
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notforyov · 2 months
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i remember being 17 and having an older woman ask me "what about your husband" when i said i don't shave. i didn't have one, how could i, but still he was being forced upon me as though i should live in his shadow and slave away cutting the hair off of me until one day he finds me.
even slaughtered chickens get the respect of only being plucked once for consumption.
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notforyov · 2 months
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shavecels coping and seething….you could never hope to have leg hair like mine
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notforyov · 2 months
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art by @BottlngSunshine
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notforyov · 2 months
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i did it now it’s your turn. you have to log in browser to do it
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bye bye ai!
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notforyov · 2 months
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i hate how fathers congratulate their sons for having sex/getting a girlfriend but feel anger and get overprotective when their daughters do the same thing.
it’s sad how the idea that women are property of their fathers while sons can be their own person is so deeply rooted in our society
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notforyov · 2 months
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MOHG SWEEPS!!!!
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WE WON
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