If were dating that means I want all of you, ur clinginess, ur attitude, good morning and goodnight texts, I want u on the days we don't talk much. I'll never get used to you, I want u every day
“Do you know what people really want? Everyone, I mean. Everybody in the world is thinking: I wish there was just one other person I could really talk to, who could really understand me, who’d be kind to me. That’s what people really want, if they’re telling the truth.”
“You are allowed to terminate toxic relationships. You are allowed to walk away from people who hurt you. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for taking care of yourself.”
Anthony holds a special space in my heart yet I failed him. Siya yung nakwento ko dito na ang hirap ko maka-close nung una and now, here we are.. magkalayo as if we never been that close. Hinayaan niya ko maging comfortable around him which is why it's so hard for me to de-attach myself. He is my 'safe place, pahinga'. He gives me little energy when I asked for an elevator hug kahit siya pagod na rin. He always take care of me kapag nasstressed na ko sa work. He embraced my weird side and curious mind. My inner child feels safe with him kaya nahihirapan ako matulog ngayon. He accepts my clinginess kahit natabunan na siya.
And yet I failed him.. He asked me once why I always forgive him kahit ilang beses na niya ako binitawan? I answered him, "cause you're trying, anthony". Then again, I failed him. He said I should take a risk. I hope he knows what big risks I'm making for him para lang malaman niya na proud ako sakanya. He knows my story, my traumas and my fears yet I still failed him. Here I am trying to understand him and his reasons.