reclaimingsomethings

[reclaimingsomethings]

if you're tired of seeing transramcoa people in the ramcoa tags , then I'd recommend filtering out tags such as " radqueer " , " transid " and " transharmed " / " transramcoa " , or blocking any radqueers you see .

Thank you; I am beginning to filter out terms and block accounts. I hate that I have to do this in the first place though, and am still concerned about how this may affect clinical perceptions of RAMCOA survivors in the long run.

[reclaimingsomethings]

my long-winded and probably poorly thought out perspective on the ""transramcoa"" trend that's been sweeping this site recently:

it's easy to view these people as one in the same with our (as ramcoa survivors) abusers, but in reality I don't think what they're doing is so morally detestable as people suggest. this is not to say I'm pro-transID or transramcoa, I absolutely am not. I just think people are ascribing malice to these people's actions when in reality what's happening is that they've been effectively groomed into believing this is a healthy way to see their own experiences by a larger community.

yes, it's true, this won't apply to all people who identify as transramcoa. and lots of people will probably take me posting this as an attack, that I'm just trying to psychoanalyze them or whatever. but in general, from what I've seen - the people claiming to be transramcoa on this site, posting cutesy, romanticised terms and posts and etc etc - are by and large very young, some as young as 13 or 14, and by majority also "cisramcoa survivors".

I don't support any of these actions, but I do think it should be very easy to see for most people who found out about their abuse history at a young age how easy it would be to get swept up into this charade as a survivor of severe abuse which you can't seem to cope with. if you've been told your whole life that all you're good for is this abuse, or forced to believe you enjoy it, would it not be easier to just accept that? to perpetuate your abusers' rhetoric to yourself in order to make all of the hurt go away, since now it's something that's normal or good or you feel in control of. considering this, and conditioned and programmed mindsets that feed into this, as well as an entire community of people who want nothing more than to endlessly validate eachother, because they effectively exist in an online bubble where this IS the normal, that it's okay to see your own abuse like that and easy to pretend that this is the healthiest way to feel or be - I can very easily see how these people have arrived at the place that they have.

I think the majority of the "transramcoa" community is filled with young people who don't know how to cope with their abuse, and who have met older people or simply people who have been in this community longer telling them that just making their abuse seem like a thing which can be consensual and romanticised and sought after will make it easier for them. I think this is a group of seriously hurt people formalising some of the thought processes or feelings that a lot of abuse survivors genuinely experience. that it's just easier to feel this way. that the abuse you suffered was deserved, or you wanted it, or you want(ed) it to continue, because that's what your abusers told you.

many of these blogs also say they are a singular "transramcoa" part in a larger, anti-transramcoa system. again, it is easy for me to see how early in my recovery, when I had parts who were still very cult-loyal but not the ability to realise that as a collective I should not be acting as if that's their fault, conscious decision, or genuine moral belief, that some of these parts might have been driven to similar spaces if they had existed at the time, because they were forced to believe by both my abusers AND the rest of my system that somehow this was their fault & nobody would ever treat them in a positive way besides my abusers, so the only solution would be to go back, to seek out more abuse, to find their "normal".

these people should not be spammed with traumadumps, or endlessly harassed, or told vile and violent things in their askboxes or any of this. these people should be *ignored*. much of their behaviour reads as attention seeking. much of their behaviour reads like they're telling themselves they enjoy all of the harassment or want it to continue. none of what is happening is good for them. we, as a community of abuse survivors, should be removing the attention we give these people, and this community, stopping the endless hate trains and stopping the fact that we are continually publicising this behaviour, because it is SO easy for young abuse survivors to see it, feel they may have experienced some similar sentiments (like ive mentioned above), and feel that THIS is what people are attacking, demonising, and saying is amoral and disgusting.

we should not be directing young people to find blogs like this. it is an unhealthy way to think, and be, and I truly believe most of these people are hurting and clinging to an unhealthy coping mechanism many survivors have probably considered in a different way in the past.

it is okay to think you deserved what happened to you. it is normal to feel like you want to be abused further. it is understandable to want to return to a traumatic environment or even seek one out. it is even understandable to feel you enjoyed your abuse at times, or that you must've done or you wouldn't have allowed it to continue, hence placing the blame on yourself.

all of these things are normal for abuse survivors. these are not healthy thought processes, though, and I promise they go away with time as you recover, maybe if never fully. these things are not "transid or atypical dysphoria". they do not mean you are transramcoa or that you should be demonised as a person, even though I know these thoughts can feel horrible. what happened to you is never your fault. but this is not the way to deal with it.

I hope all people in the transramcoa community can get the help they need, and I hope people can stop demonising thought processes like this (to be clear - not corresponding actions which cause actual harm), because we as a community are unintentionally feeding into perfect survivor bullshit when we do this. traumadumping in strangers inboxes is absolutely never the solution to anything.

(to be clear, I don't want transramcoa blogs on my blog, but I understand this post is very likely to show up in transramcoa-adjacent searches as I've said the term so many times here. because of that, transramcoa blogs can interact with this post ONLY. thank you.)

[reclaimingsomethings]

as a blog that is neutral endos / nontraumagenic systems but is traumagenic ourselves, are you okay with us interacting with your blog?

go for it!

[reclaimingsomethings]

“transplural” is just repackaged ableism and transphobia

[reclaimingsomethings]

For sex trafficking survivors

For those who were trafficked in a small, local ring your story matters

For those who were trafficked in a large scale operation your story matters

For those who were first trafficked as a kid/preteen/early teen your story matters

For those who were first trafficked as late teens and adults your story matters

For those who were in a ring that was also a cult your story matters

For those who were in a ring with no religious affiliation your story matters

For those who have a dissociative disorder (DID, OSDD-1 OSDD-2 etc.)due to the extreme trauma you underwent your story matters

For those who don’t have any disorder besides probably (C-)PTSD from your time in the ring your story matters

For those who are receiving help, wether it’s legal or mental, for the abuse you were forced to undergo your story matters

For those who are not currently receiving assistance your story matters

For those who are all alone your story matters

For those who know and interact with other survivors your story matters

For those who are safe and away from the group, your story matters

For those who are still unsafe, and even those currently being trafficked, your story matters

Any other survivors/victims in between or outside of these categories, your story matters

Your story matters

[reclaimingsomethings]

I’m tired of being nice about it. Tumblr needs to ban the radqueer tag and related tags.

Kids are interacting sexually with full grown predators. Kids are being groomed into thinking that being ‘pro-contact’ is okay. Kids are being told they can consent, along with animals. Kids are being told that it’s okay for them to literally produce CP of themselves. People are freely calling themselves nazis and rapists.

Is this what you want your platform to be? Kids being groomed? It’s sickening that we have to be the ones to drive predators off the platform. Do better. Get rid of this community.

[reclaimingsomethings]

I never thought a day in my life would need me to have to filter “transRAMCOA” or “transOEA”

It’s not quirky, you don’t want that to happen to you.

I struggle even trying to tell myself that what happened was real to this day. Don’t mock survivors because you “feel like you needed or wanted to go through that.”

You really fucking don’t.

Like I don’t even use the term out of fear, paranoia, and because of constant doubt. Why do you get to waltz in and say it’s a fun and quirky thing to want?

[reclaimingsomethings]

tbh, I'm terrified my system and memories are a delusion, and seeing transramcoa shit on the survivor tag doesn't help. I feel like a liar, I feel like I made it up, and I feel like I'm just delusional. seeing people "trans" my fucking trauma does not fucking help me as a real survivor. it actively harms us. people already debate if our real fucking trauma and disorder (OSDDID) is real and you wanna walk in here, admit you're not actually a fucking survivor but "trans" a fucking trauma?

you're a joke and making us, REAL survivors, look and feel like a fucking joke. go fuck yourself. touch grass. see a psychiatrist. literally fucking anything actually useful. put down your fucking phone and go outside

[reclaimingsomethings]

Feels like "former endo" systems don't get appreciated enough here so shout out to

Systems who thought they were endo at first

Systems who thought they were mixed origin at first

Systems who believed they weren't traumagenic because they didn't remember their trauma

Systems held back in recovery by the endogenic community

Systems who just uncovered their trauma

Systems who are in denial about their trauma

Systems who are still learning about dissociative disorders

Systems who are syscourse neutral due to recently figuring out they are traumagenic

Systems who used to be pro-endo and are now anti-endo

And any other system with a complicated relationship to their trauma and the endo community! It's a rough road, and trauma's a bitch, but we can get through this.

Endo systems and active supporters this post isn't for you, this is for traumagenic systems, endos DNI

[reclaimingsomethings]

I’m gonna un-fakeclaim y’all real quick.

You’re a real system. You’re the realest system. Look at all your symptoms. You’re clearly a system. Think about your alters. Yep, everything about your alters, you’re def a system. Your system is full of variety? Yep, you’re real. Your system has little/no variety? You’re real. Omg, there’s no way you think you’re faking. You’re so real.

No no, imma stop you right there, because I know what you’re gonna say. “Oh but this and this and this-!” That doesn’t matter. You’re real. You’re a real and valid system.

Anyways imma head to bed now, goodnight all you very real systems!

- 🧿 (Luc)

[reclaimingsomethings]

Some past resources I have shared

I am posting parts of previous posts I've had with any mentions of my own trauma removed this is for my own safety as things have changed and I plan to open a case, in order to make sure I cannot be doxxed from the court case all specifics about my abuse have been removed in preparation.

Sources provided by/with the USA government

No PDFs

Understanding Ritual Abuse: A Guide for Self-Empowerment for Ritual Abuse Survivors  (1994) Ritualistic Abuse of Children: Dynamics and Impact (1988) Ritual Abuse-Torture Within Families/Groups (2008) These are studies that do not come with downloadable PDFs.

With PDFs

Role of Ritual in the Organized Abuse of Children (2012) Ritual Crime: Anthropological Considerations and Contributions to a New Field of Study (2007) These are studies that come with downloadable PDFs.

Pages Talking About RAMCOA

Ritual Abuse

APA's Definition Of Ritual Abuse RASAC On Ritual Abuse Brissc On Ritual Abuse Survive On  Ritual Abuse

Mind Control

APA on mind control Cults Of Hatred

Organized Abuse

WHAT IS ORGANISED ABUSE? Keeping Bristol Safe Organized Abuse In Adulthood

All RAMCOA

Freedom's Hope Counseling RA Free

Misc.

End Ritual Abuse  (Article on Forced Perpetration) Moral Injury Forced Criminality Ongoing study being funded by the USA Government on Forced Criminality Human Trafficking & Migrant Smuggling (Interpol) ASU: Trick Roll Study (Forced Criminality In Sex Trafficking) Reducing Student Vulnerability Forced Criminal Exploitation American Bar Association- laws around children being forced into criminality The last study is important for American survivors for safety due to unjust laws.

[reclaimingsomethings]

RadQueer Blocklist

This is a long list of every radqueer account I could find under the basic RQ tags. If there’s an account that’s not on this list, please message me with the account name and I will add it.

Not every account on here is inherently extremely harmful. If a person called themself radqueer, I added them to the list. Some of this is based on opinion, like if a person says they’re anti-contact but is doing things the show otherwise, I tagged them as pro contact. And if a person doesn’t identify as trans-race/trans-disabled but is being a bigot, I tagged them as such.

Don’t harass anyone on this list. And for legal reasons, if I’m labeling someone as predatory, that is just an accusation.

List under cut

‼️- Predatory

🛑- Pro-C

⚠️- Trans-abuser

🔱- Trans-abused

☢️- Trans-disabled

🚫- Trans-race

🔞- MIK/Minor owned para acc

❎- Rq, other

- Kangalpuppy, pro-c for everything, says minors, animals and d3ad ppl can consent ‼️🛑

- Radmutt, pro-c for everything, says minors, animals, and d3ad ppl can consent ‼️🛑

- Mommytransid, 25/yo dating a minor ‼️🛑⚠️

- Sootdazai, claims to abuse and “program” its partners. Claims to have r4p3d one of his partners ‼️🛑⚠️🔱🚫

- Here-4-vibez, pro-r4p3, pro-c, transCSA, claims to have “plural obsessive disorder” ‼️🛑⚠️🔱

- Arsynnotarson, pro-c zoo, makes posts about dating animals, transabused ‼️🛑🔱

- Hobiesbrokenguitar, pro-c zoo, trans-race ‼️🛑🚫

- Office-vampire, trans-abuser, talks about jacking off to trauma narratives, adult and asked young teenagers to send their trauma narratives ‼️🛑⚠️

- Shotamania, pro-c MAP, trans-abuser/harmful, says “they’re pro everything” ‼️🛑⚠️

- Shotamania, pro-c MAP, trans-abuser/harmful, says “they’re pro everything” ‼️🛑⚠️

- 88-arachnids-grip-88, threatened to send SH pics to someone in order to try and manipulate them, told someone how to kts, threatened to kill animals, “trans-groomer” ‼️🛑⚠️

- Lobotomizuki, dating Ciel, claims to be trans-abuser, trans-disabled, trans-r4p1st 🛑🔱☢️

- Paraluvs, transabused, posts self harm art on their page, pro-c, minor in kink 🛑🔞🔱

- Predqueer, pro-c, complains about not knowing what programming is while talking about being transramcoa. Coins terms🛑🔱

- Val-loves-rqs, trans-ramcoa/abused, pro-c 🛑🔱

- Radicalclues, trans-disabled, trans-race, trans-abused, adult para account that interacts with young teen para accounts, “”mirrored-contact”” 🛑🚫🔱☣️

- Deer-mageikan, pro-c 🛑🔞

- Cakechaser, pro-contact, says all furries are zoos, compares being transgender to being transrace, trans-abused(asks people to abuse them) 🛑🔱🚫

- Transillusionisms, trans-abused/er, trans-ramcoa, pro-romantic contact zoo 🛑⚠️🔱

- Foliage-446, transdisabled, minor owned para acc, xeno-satanist🛑☢️

- Deucey-deuce, pro-c, trans-abused/er 🛑⚠️🔱

- Transhcdid, trans-abused/er, pro-c, claims transramcoa terms. Makes extremely offensive flags for said terms(like graphics depicting abuse) Transdisabled 🛑⚠️🔱☢️

- Jamesbuchananbarness, transn@z1, doesn’t state contact stance⚠️🚫☢️

- Ziziscampsite, trans-n@z1, has n@z1-fan art as their pfp, says they were a n@z1 in a past life ⚠️☢️🚫

- Bloodydelusional, trans-disabled, transabused/er, says they will coin anything and have no DNI ☢️⚠️🔱

- h0lyl0l1, transtbmc /other abuse, transdisabled, transrace, transabuser ⚠️🔱☢️🚫

- Toxicpilled, transabuser, transabused, trans-slave ⚠️🔱🚫

- Radumbrella, minor owned para acc, trans-race, trans-drugaddict, trans-cannibal, transabused ⚠️🔞🔱🚫☢️

Transramcoa, identifies as trans-ramcoa and creates terms centered around ramcoa. Usually the flags are extremely offensive, trans-race, trans-disabled ⚠️🚫🔱☢️

- Wwwjunocom, trans-disabled, trans-abusive, trans-sch001-sh00t3r ☢️⚠️

- Leyleypsychotic, “”fult””(faux cult) leader, trans-abused, trans-disabled ⚠️🔱☢️

- Transdhampir, trans-disabled, trans-abuser, trans-abused, coins RQ terms ⚠️☢️🔱

- Doctors-littlehelper, trans-harmed, trans-harmful ⚠️🔱

- Wocatana2, trans-abuser ⚠️

- Narcissistic-gremlin, co-owner of RQ server, trans-abuser ⚠️

- Toxic-debris, coins trans-abuse/r terms 🔱⚠️

- Alastor-my-love, trans-abuser ⚠️

- Luci-st4r, trans-abused, trans-abuser ⚠️🔱

- Abuserprince, says they’re complex-contact, trans-abuser ⚠️

- Rqplushie, “”fult”” leader, minor ran para acc, trans-race ⚠️🔞🚫

- Diceorgy, NSFW and para acc ran by a minor ⚠️🔞

- Dreamingchu2, minor ran para acc, trans-abused, trans-abuser, trans-plural, trans-race, trans-disabled (it goes on but I got lazy)⚠️🔞🔱🚫☢️

- Thegreatlemonfish, minor ran para acc 🔞

- Scenedere, minor ran para acc 🔞

- Gutzburnz, minor ran para acc 🔞

- Lizards-in-a-cave, minor owned para acc 🔞🔱

- Ghost-boy-proship, minor ran para acc 🔞

- Necroboyfie, minor ran para acc 🔞

- Razorblade-rq, minor ran para account, posts blades/sh imagery 🔞🔱

- Trulycupid, racist, created a term called “winter-punk”, not trans-race afaik but they get the emoji 🚫

- Radiumqueer, claims gender=sex and therefore trans-race is just as valid as transgender 🚫

- Thatparablog, transrace 🚫

- Wadeystabs, trans-race, RQ 🚫

- Astrolective, RQ, trans-race 🚫

- Uwameshi, says being trans-race ””phobic”” is the same thing as being transphobic 🚫

- Mistymeow69, RQ, trans-race 🚫

- Anothertransidblog, trans-race 🚫

- Transrace, “trans-race activism blog” 🚫

- Tr4nsr4c14lj4p4n3s3g1rl, trans-race 🚫

- Transidveronica, trans-race 🚫

- 4ndr0m3da, trans-disabled, trans-race ☢️🚫

- Forgedesires, trans-disabled, trans-race ☢️🚫

- The-catwithin, trans-native, trans-disabled ☢️🚫

- Plushie-ina-big-sweater, trans-race, trans-disabled ☢️🚫

- Sqrmsh, trans-race and transdisabled ☢️🚫

- Brainlessspuppy, trans-disabled, coins terms ☢️

- Lucifer-radqueer, trans-disabled ☢️

- Loatheticbeast, transplural ☢️

- Hearts4romeii, transplural, talks graphically about how she wants to khs ☢️

- Littlemelonberry, trans-addict, supportive of abusive identities ☢️

- Iotaisradqueer, trans-disabled ☢️

- Radicalnpdisms, RQ, trans-disabled ☢️

- Thecodakkeeffectt, coins medically-unrecognized-disorders ☢️

- Radqueer-fanboy, transplural ☢️

- Emopack, trans-autistic ☢️

- Radqueerstars, trans-disabled ☢️

- Toxic-exes, trans-disabled ☢️

- Haventhing, trans-severesh, uses flags that have drawings of SH and blades ☢️

- Needygirlonline, trans-disabled, trans-plural ☢️

- Transx-mogai-cafe, coins terms, trans-disabled ☢️

- Lolinawinii, trans-disabled ☢️

- Transabled-archive, archives all “trans-abled” terms ☢️

- Snowlovesyourq, trans-autistic ☢️

- Transagestuffuwu, trans-disabled, cross-tags ☢️

- Gay-we1rdo, trans-disabled ☢️

- Transpluralunite, trans-plural, trans-disabled ☢️

- Toransuneko, trans-disabled ☢️

- Arctic-fox-queer, trans-disabled ☢️

- Maned-wolfe, trans-disabled ☢️

- Transshells, trans-disabled, term coiner ☢️

- Dyspunktional-raven, gets mad when people say autistic instead of cis-autistic(etc) ☢️

- E4t-fl3sh, trans-disabled, trans-autistic ☢️

- Wuskie-woof-meom, trans-disabled ☢️

- Cloudytransx, trans-didfaker(?), trans-disabled 🔱☢️

- Francislikeseverybeing, trans-disabled, trans-abused, trans-ramcoa 🔱☢️

- Adxmmu88xy, trans-autistic, trans-plural, trans-ch1lds3xw0rk3r 🔱☢️

- Radicallysoup, trans-ramcoa, trans-disabled, interacts with and reblogs posts made by predatory/abusive people, trans-plural🔱☢️

- Ur-local-goldfish, transabused, transdisabled, alt account of gorgeous-rq-girlies🔱☢️

- Transharmed, trans abused, term coiner, trans-disabled 🔱☢️

- Transharmedbutsillier, transharmed alt acc, posts nsfw trans-harmed stuff 🔱☢️

- Dwlliennwurse, uses a typing quirk without translations, coins terms, trans-abused, trans-autistic 🔱☢️

- Npdblythe, trans-hcdid 🔱☢️

- Rq-selfship-fun, trans-abused 🔱

- Radqueerdogboy, trans-abused 🔱

- Fish-of-fanqia, trans-abused, claims to be in a “”fult””(faux-cult) 🔱

- Rqcrimeboyz, trans-abused, RQ 🔱

- A-system-in-a-system, trans-abused, trans-ramcoa 🔱

- Radicalbunny, trans-abused, uses several transid labels for extreme abuse, uses stutter quirk without translations 🔱

- R4dqu33r-g1nny-w34sl3y, trans-abused, trans-programmed 🔱

- Maxrqstuff, trans-hcdid 🔱

- Voidformed, coins trans-harmed terms 🔱

- Catsang, transramcoa 🔱

Selfsanguinamory, catsangs alt acc 🔱

- Vivziequeer, talks about wanting to be used by people, RQ 🔱

- Wortha-prettypenny, coins radqueer labels ❎

- Colorsof-therainbow, wortha-prettypenny’s other acc ❎

- Xxbl00d-st4rxx, RQ, has requested that people send them trauma-dumps for fetish reasons ❎

- Radqueer-takes, just posts pro rad-queer discourse ❎

- Berrytasticdeer, RQ ❎

- Pricklymuffinzzzzz, RQ ❎

- Randobitchyasscoiningshite, RQ ❎

- Digitallyadored, RQ ❎

- Gorgeous-rq-girlies, RQ coining blog ❎

- Cr1ng3yl0z3r, RQ ❎

- Gnarpcotics, RQ ❎

- Waitercore, RQ ❎

- Radqueer-empire, blog for a radqueer discord server ❎

- Blissfuloverdose7, RQ ❎

- Rq-blocklist, RQ ❎

- Varii-corvid, coins terms ❎

- Minecraftenthusiast2882, coins terms ❎

- Rotnik-tmblr, RQ ❎

- Incestoophilia, wrote an article on incest called “keeping it in the family” 31 y/o that consistently interacts with young teenagers ❎

- Rq-boxes, RQ ❎

- Radqueerfluff, RQ ❎

- Wayofthefunkmaster, RQ ❎

- Weirdness-is-good, wayofthefunkmasters alt acc ❎

- Thedigitalwave, compares antis to transphobes, RQ ❎

- Radqueerpfps, makes flag pfps ❎

- Rq-term-search, RQ ❎

- Gluestrawbz, coins terms ❎

- Animal-creature, RQ ❎

- Sleepyeepyvoidcat, uses paid ads to promote their account(I got one on my dashboard), RQ ❎

- Dexxxma, RQ, partner of radicalclues ❎

- Sincerestkisses, RQ ❎

- Little—beetle, RQ ❎

- Qu33rjude, RQ ❎

- Russetfur1128, RQ ❎

- Rinlencoins, coining account ❎

- Jesterrq, RQ ❎

- Honeydew-wecantwo, RQ ❎

- Hunter-fox, coins RQ terms ❎

- Gamezee420, RQ ❎

- Cherishyne, RQ ❎

- R0tsm4z3, RQ ❎

- Morachivist, coins trans-race terms, refuses to say their contact stance ❎

- Hellelaplace, RQ ❎

- Luckas-rockz, RQ ❎

- Rqheadcanons, headcanons characters as harmful labels ❎

- Curiouscattohours, RQ ❎

- Rainbowfam, RQ ❎

- Acidic-nebula-raincloud, RQ ❎

- Satanlovesradqueers, term coiner ❎

- Peppermint-bloodshed92, coins terms ❎

- Spookrq, RQ ❎

- Hibiscux101, RQ ❎

- Radqueer-headspace, makes RQ content and coins terms, “”complex-contact”” ❎

- Gearbox-dollhouse, calls themself a yandere, RQ ❎

- Gearbox-dolls, alt account for gearbox-dollhouse ❎

- Bloodydollies, nsfw RQ alt account for gearbox-dollhouse ❎

- Anyolovez, RQ ❎

- Pastel-golden, RQ ❎

- Transthehorrors, coins terms, RQ ❎

- Lostbhappy, owner of RQ discord server ❎

- Rqmoodboards, RQ ❎

- Alexidentitiescoiningblog, coins terms ❎

- Radicaalkirby, RQ ❎

- Rosiesdelights, coins terms, RQ ❎

- Userboxmachine, makes RQ userboxes ❎

- Yourlocaledgysnake, RQ ❎

- Ur-transx-favs, creates RQ headcanons ❎

- Radqueerstim, makes RQ stim boards ❎

- Freaksboards, RQ stimboard acc ❎

- Internalcondom, RQ ❎

- Antirq-blocklist, RQ ❎

- Yourfaveis-transid-coded, transid head canons ❎

- Transstimland, makes RQ stimboards ❎

- Princesse-du-rose, RQ ❎

- Fungus-ID, RQ, term coiner ❎

- Theradroom, RQ confessionals ❎

- Adamssafeheaven, RQ ❎

If you notice a mistake, dm me and I’ll fix it. And again if there is someone not on here that needs to be added, please dm me. Better yet, write a brief description of them and add the emojis.

Ik they’re probably going to throw a fit about this and out themselves. So I’ll update the list in a few days.

[reclaimingsomethings]

Tw mention of snuff films

Oh yes you are so cool and badass you watched snuff when you was 10 y.o. yeeeaah so cold and dangerous

BRO I WAS YOUR SNUFF

[reclaimingsomethings]

Can non Victims of ramcia PLEASE stop speaking over the Voices of ACTUAL FUCKING VICTIMS. I am tired of mfs speaking over my and felow victims fucking voices. You do not know what we went through and YOU could not even take even glimse of what i went through. Someone like you could NEVER grasp wjat i went thru so shut up. God Damnit.

[reclaimingsomethings]

you were not a monster, you were a child.

you were not a monster. you were a child.

you are not a monster. you were a child.

[reclaimingsomethings]

who the fuck let rqs discover ramcoa

[reclaimingsomethings]

things that people seem to think are perfectly fine and socially acceptable, but that should not be punishments. and no, i don’t care what your kid did do «deserve it,» these are just wrong

starving or withholding food from your children

making your children destroy their comfort objects (or destroying the objects yourself)

feeding your children foods that they are allergic to

watching your children while they shower or bathe (when significantly past the age where any «help» bathing would be necessary)

hitting your children, manhandling your children, or otherwise utilizing aggressive physical contact against your children

making your children pick up broken glass (without teaching them how to safely do so) or walk on broken glass

withholding medical treatment from your children

threatening to do any of these things to your children

teaching your children ideas like «privacy is a privilege, not a right,»; «these items are in my house, so i am allowed to destroy them even if you paid for them»; and «people are allowed to hurt you if they feel like you did something wrong,» are so damaging to impressionable, fragile minds. you are setting your child up for a ruined, unstable future by doing these things.

* feel free to add on