1. strengthen your intuition. stop looking for outside proof and trust yourself. listen to the callings of your heart. if it feels wrong, don’t do it. if it feels right, trust that. also, work with the cycles of the moon.
2. healing and transformation. do your shadow work. face your dark sides and accept all your flaws with unconditional love. cleanse your space, body and mind. talk with someone you trust or a therapist about your difficulties. journal your feelings out.
3. cleanse yourself with water. drink more water. take a salt baths. eat fruits. listen to the rain. take trips to visit lakes, rivers, waterfalls or the ocean.
4. embrace your emotions. don’t ignore your feelings or hold yourself back from crying. always give your emotions the attention and care they deserve.
5. be compassionate. listen more. learn to receive rightfully. allow others to be themselves without judging and allow yourself to be without self judgements.
6. rest. forget your responsibilities and take a break. indulge in doing nothing and just being. we’re called human beings after all.
7. be nurturing. be mothering to yourself and also spread that caring nature to others. talk about something you are passionate about. cook or bake and make a nourishing fulfilling meal. give gifts. find something to care for and pour your heart into (plants, animals, kids, skills)
8. go with the flow. don’t rush to make decisions. wait and let things unfold for themselves.
9. be artistic. start romanticizing your life. make everything around you aesthetically pleasing. listen to vibrant music. write yourself love letters. create endlessly. start daydreaming about every possibility.
10. indulge. reward yourself. eat your favorite foods. go shopping. watch your favorite tv show or movie. read a romantic books. etc.
A lot of us who are into astrology and houses, almost always definitely pay attention to our 7th house. Today we talk about how to attract the most compatible 7th house person-
mind you, that if my 7th house is Capricorn, and yours is Capricorn too, we will still differ in the qualities we like, because other aspects play a part. But for now, we'll focus on being the person you want to attract, which in most cases aligns with our 7th house.
Now think, if you met the person with the exact same characteristics you want, what would be your first thought/reaction/emotion? would you be happy with yourself? would you be satisfied? we always expect people to be there for us and not make any mistakes when it comes to you, but what about you? could you do the same for them?
The thing is as much as we want to have only the right people with us, we have to be the right person for ourselves first. When I myself do not embody the qualities I want to see in a person who will be with me, how will I be satisfied that I'm putting in the effort I can? Believe it or not, most of the time, everything is "equal give and take".
Not talking about the stuff like beauty, your wardrobe, money, but the actual real shit. Communication, vulnerability, Trust, healing, etc. All the real soul work required for the connection, dealing with your ego, your trauma, and other issues.
No, I'm not forcing you to deal with them. We all have wounds we carry, but to decide to heal them is our own human will which is certainly the most powerful decisive force to exist in 3d. I'm just saying, Be the vibrational match you wish to meet.
for ex- my 7th house is in Capricorn- I like people who are responsible, mature, somebody who still knows when to have fun but is respectful (Juno Leo here), smart and can understand me pretty quick (gem Venus and mars).
now if I myself am immature, cannot manage my finances, and don't make an effort to understand myself or anything around me, HOW AND WHY WILL THE UNIVERSE GIVE ME THE PERSON WITH ALL MY IDEAL QUALITIES? Even if it does, I'm sure it will show me, in a way or two that I need to level up for me to keep the connection, or I'm going to sabotage it. You owe it to yourself to become your best version. You attract what you are. You get what you put out. You attract what you say. So be upright with yourself. All work starts from within.
Human connections, which are indirectly soul connections, are very delicate.
Coming to the work on yourself-
For those who are in the space to heal and improve yourselves, take it slow, one day at a time, and be your own person first. I encourage you to be brave enough to be vulnerable and forgiving with yourself, that is real self-love :).
For those who feel like you have done your work, it's all in the timing now. Keep going <3
For those who are confused, the universe will show you a way. We are never really lost. Trust the process :)
For all those who are still figuring it out, no pressure figuring out yourself. We don't find ourselves, we create ourselves so make sure to put in the best lessons only.
Trauma is embedded within the body and ingrained in the brain. For lasting change, create strategies that address both the physical and mental aspects of trauma.
Physical Therapies:
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy: Leverages bodily sensations to navigate through trauma.
Yoga: Boosts bodily mindfulness and alleviates stress.
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