Hi there! I'm just a 21 yo brazilian nerd who likes video games and music! This is my personal blog. Might occasionally reblog +18 stuff. Whoever you are I hope you're doing well! ^w^
Kobold blog: https://koboldsdospooky.tumblr.com/?source=share
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I think more people should have a trans girl bestie who is obsessed with a specific animal. Because not only will she enlighten you about gender in ways you didn’t know before but when you come out to her as trans her response is a gif of a shark swimming around with the caption “that’s so cool!!”
Think about what would happen if a total stranger judged you. Like they didn't even say anything, just silently judged you on their pc and scrolled on. Pretty much nothing as you can't even know that they judged you.
Those that are vocal about their judging are worse because words do hurt, I understand that and it's valid, but I think it's important to make the distinction between "weird" (or "cringe") and "harmful". Harmful is bad, but "cringe" and "weird" are neutral, just like "normal". People that judge others for being "weird" or "cringe" have been taught that not fitting in is akin to a moral crime, but it's not. How can somethkng be immoral if it literally affects nobody negatively?
If someone judges you for drawing stuff they might as well judge someone for being gay or trans or for liking the color red. "I can't understand you and have been taught that what you're doing is evil and therefore it is." It's the same logic, and one that doesn't work. Being weird is not being evil, and people should stop treating it as such.
Also I'm gonna quote Adventure Time, but "sucking at something is the first step towards being kinda good at something"
So go ahead and draw! No matter how technically unimpressive or "cringe" or "weird" it is, you have my full unflinching support! <3
how do i overcome cringe!?!!?
i wanna draw n animate stuff i think is cool like gay furry art both 2d n 3d n shit like that but mainly queer furries and put my art out there but my brain fears being judged and decides to make me anxious n procrastinate doing it and also drawing requires acceptance that stuff isnt gonna look good and we'll have to throw it away but my brain is like no! i dont want that! and therefore makes me anxious and i end up not doing it so how do i not suffer from these curses cast upon me? am still vaguely learning tumblr n how it works but i think am doing a good job at it
tumblr friendships are hard to maintain like im sorry i know i havent talked to you in 5 months but you’re still super rad and i still consider us friends im just dumb