#I don't think it's assuming anything about the lives of home/housebound people to point out that not everyone can do this

[lesenbyan]

actually deleting a rb from last night bc the more i think about it the more I don't think I agree with OP

#personal; #the majority of people I see mentioning and having issue with posts like 'go outside bc it's good for you' are actually disabled people #and that post was assuming that it's ableds speaking for us #when no it's literally different support needs #it does actually make me actively angry when i see too many posts talking about how going outside is good for you #when just adding 'if you can' in the initial post is easy and makes people like me actually feel included #and considering I spend most of my life being excluded like #I don't want to be shamed for being rightfully upset and annoyed by them #I don't think it's assuming anything about the lives of home/housebound people to point out that not everyone can do this #bc it IS a big thing to talk about and important #and there's a lot of nuance to the conversation #and I don't want to be told to not be mad yk? #I follow a homebound person who has blacklisted every version of 'go outside' they can think of #no I don't think it's ableist to say 'go outside it's good for you' but I don't think it's too much to ask people to add 'if you can' #no not every post needs to be about everyone and I'm by no means going to harass anyone over it #but I am allowed to be upset yk? #anyway #I've probably thought about this longer than OP meant