#I know our moms way more useless at feelings stuff than me so 🤷‍♂️

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#Sooo my brother who i havent been on speaking terms with for several years started talking to me recently #Its been a week or two but im still reeling a bit from trying to adjust to this #He reached out bc he got dumped and he needed support which is kind of sweet and ive been trying to be there for him #But #All he wants to talk about is the ex gf and how much he loves her or how sad and heartbroken he is and im getting a little worn down #It doesn't help that he occasionally sends me just absolutely bleak and depressing texts when hes having a rough day #And it kind of freaks me out sometimes and there was one day i almost got someone to go check on him #Its just wild how weve gone from refusing to talking to each other to me realizing i care about him so much and want him to be ok #Currently he just can't fathom how he can go on without her and im slightly too aro to relate but it breaks my heart seeing him this sad #I'm worried im the only person in the family who's checking in on him and can have productive convos about mental health a #I know our moms way more useless at feelings stuff than me so 🤷‍♂️ #But its definitely weighing on me #At least my own depression episode seems to be finally mostly over