#I want to go on a ramble about relationships and labels and the decoupling of romance from affection and intimacy

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#how tf am I supposed to hold a conversation when someone asks me if the dinner plan we just made counts as a date #I want to go on a ramble about relationships and labels and the decoupling of romance from affection and intimacy #how do I avoid going on a ramble about platonic intimacy as a viable relationship model as opposed to the traditional romance-centric one #how do I explain 'yeah I'd fuck you but if I stop talking to you in two months you can't get sad about it' #I really don't wanna give off crazy girlfriend vibes but umm hey honey I am disordered in three different ways #like #no I'm not looking for a long term traditional relationship but I also just wanna hang out and be friends also we could make out #tag talk