#also like omg the snide comments and snippy remarks i get when i pick up the chairs to put them away after rehearsal

[windwardstar]

Anyway the amount of hostility I get from cis guys who feel threatened by my mere existence as a trans tenor would be hilarious if it weren't so isolating and terrifying. Like please I'm not stealing anything from you and it's not making you any less of a guy just because I can reach lower notes than you and look like a girl. I'm just here having fun and vibing with my new voice.

#also like omg the snide comments and snippy remarks i get when i pick up the chairs to put them away after rehearsal #like shut up and let me carry what im clearly not having trouble lifting #there are other people you can take chairs from or you know pick up the ones people left bc there are a ton of people who #actually cant pick up the chairs #like im not in any danger of physical violence because 90% of the people are supportive and friendly #and i use the gender neutral bathroom #but like ugh cis people get so threatened by the mere idea trans people exist #and they treat pronouns like cooties #like theres the option to opt in and put pronoins on the new nametags and so theyre refusing to get the new ones bc ew pronouns #also the marked difference i get in reactions when there is a cis lady tenor vs when its just me is telling