#also looking at my 1 singular basic gene

[rizardofether]

Saw my friends doing this FR lair census thing and of course I had to do one too cause I love statistics and graphs.

Total of 200 of my dragons. Long post of graphics and my ramblings below:

Iridescent and shimmer sound about right for favourites figured ghost would be up there too but didn't think it would be number one.

For primaries: iridescent is on 40 of my dragons. Second place goes to poison with just 15 dragons with third place being starmap at 12.

For secondaries: shimmer is number one with 45 dragons having it. Second place is bee with 24 dragons. Third is spinner at 17.

For tertiaries: ghost is number one with 28 dragons. Second is capsule with 24. Third goes to glimmer with 21 dragons.

For colours obsidian sure is popular, it's popular on the site overall after all. 39 dragons. Second place colour is white at 24. Third one goes to midnight with 21 dragons. Black white and purple also for some reason. Surprised with midnight. Green comes in only at fourth with seafoam being on 13 dragons. There are multiple other dragons tied at fifth at 10 dragons each, several being green shades though.

Next dragon flights in my lair. Wind and nature being the biggest was no surprise, though surprised I have more nature than wind, though I suppose I haven't gotten as many dragons lately than when I was back in nature so I guess that makes sense.

The runner ups of ice, light & lightning having the most after them makes sense as well, given they're the flights I've been in besides the two green ones. Shadow is surprisingly low for my first flight but I suppose I got rid of most of my old dragons from back then.

As for breeds it's about what I expected. My favourite modern breeds: wildclaws, skydancers and coatls being up there, imperials are quite a bit lower than I'd expected I guess I just don't have as many even though I like them.

I have a large amount of pearlcatchers despite not liking them that much due to somehow ending with several breeding pairs consisting of atleast one pearlcatcher and I sometimes keep their hatchlings for myself.

I like aberrations, veilspun and aethers a lot but I just haven't been getting as many dragons as back in the day so I haven't gotten that many of these breeds.

The gender leaning more towards male was no surprise. I definitely prefer male characters over female characters, though with these dragons it doesn't matter that much so they're not completely outnumbered. 121 male dragos and 79 female dragons.

It seems I was most active getting dragons in 2018. That would have been a year after I returned to FR in 2017 after taking a break soon after I started back in 2015. It's leading by such a huge margin though, wow. 91 dragons from 2018 while I got 21 in 2017 and 20 in 2021. Since I didn't play in 2016 I only got 2 dragons from that year, I just happened to buy two several year old dragons within the last couple years. Needed their specific colours for projects and they happened to be the ones that fit.

Other observations:

A pic of some of my front page dragons. The green colours do surface here and there. I was expecting more green, though I suppose it makes sense, as I have taken green in as part of my identity in just the couple last years while I've been playing FR for twice as long.

This is the colours of the dragons I've sealed in my hibernal den. It seems I have a pattern for dragons who I've deemed my least favourites..

Fun look at my clan's leader pair and its hatchlings I kept. I kept one for almost all the flights I had been in, except shadow (since I properly made my clan only after moving to nature), ice (for some reason?) and wind (I had stopped breeding the pair by then)

Looking at the colours of triplets from the same nest. It's wild how their colours settled so perfectly despite the huge colour range difference in their parents. This is why I specifically kept them.

Spotted that 3 of my primal collection dragons were hatched on the same day. Must have been a good day for primals.

And lastly part of what contributed to the amount of obsidian dragons. The brief amount of time when I really wanted a bunch of obsidian primary dragons for some reason.

#fr #flight rising #lair census #i fucking love statistics #so much fun filling this out and looking at it #i cheated a little bit and put in the future stats for one project that's still in the middle of being entirely changed #well it'll end up looking like that so i figured i might as well #also looking at my 1 singular basic gene #found the perfect dragon for my sona at the time in 2015 but the tertiary was a bad colour so i kept it as basic #always gotta gene my dragons no basics otherwise

[tele-caster]

Journal.

1:08 PM 12/13/2022

They think I'm weak, soft, and gullible. They love to share anecdotes and POV's, however, all words come down to the major question which is: " Where the results at? "

If no results can be noticed, no words should be announced or shared based on a character, knowledge or intelligence.-

You shall only listen, to the one with the positive, reliable and enduring results. I have learned this by reading my fathers last gift; the " Weston Signum Vitae " book. A book that can actually trace back my fathers blood line to the 1500. Where basically all kind of conducts, manners, knowledge and behaviour was settle to all of whom may have the Weston lastname, only of course, coming from my fathers family genes.

Not to much people are aware that they can trace their Family knowledge, or history. Old saying says " If you dont know the story, you're condenmed to repeat it ". The reason I share this, it is because I've noticed that in the particular country I live in; is actually not that apart from where I was raced and educated. However, my point is... Look how I stay shut, and these men keep bloody fucking talking. Money, nor a high-profile person talks to much; rather than the one who does, actually doesnt have shit neither knows shit.

They can only know about their family until, the decades of their grandparents. They can only know about the money, as a store of value. They can only see women, as objects, not souls or creatures. They can only express their rights, but their wrongs... Which its dishonest to themselves.-

Necessarily; for me to be a cold, distant, rigid, strong Oak Tree in the middle of the forest. Then, they might ask; " Why are you such a cunt, dick, or even a lousy arrogant asshole ? "

To me respond... I thought I was soft. Everytime, every moment, every stand-out, every night out... If I don't act a certain way, if I don't talk a certain way, if I don't walk a certain way, if I don't do things a certain way or better said *as they want* I am soft, weak, and perishable. I bloody choose *me* over everything and anything that might come, because a last-name such as mine, compared to yours... Ha, I'd guess you're battling with nothing.

Like mentioned before; I stay shut. Because I already know; were the conducts, behaviour, knowledge, tradition, culture and more from my blood, nation and family comes from. They keep talking, believing that what it has been said it is the correct and trustful source as for speaking up... When it is not. In other words; I am today announcing that my "other-self" has been released; fully this time.

Cold is the abscence of warmth. Distant is the abscence of proximity. Rigid is the abscence of softness. In the middle, there is no abscense at all, since, the middle seems to be the gradual point for anything and everything. (REFERENCE: The Kybalion). Such respect has not to be demanded but gained; which aparently none of these fellows have the education nor fucking north to understand that; because like we mentioned before, they only talk but not hear. Happiness, Love, Care to me are just illusions like sex.-

" A man who does not control their impulses of thought, mouth and touch is assured to be a failure ". I have ideed been in control of these 3 pillars; but somehow I'm back again where I started... Retraining myself. And, aparently this also, is molesting my most near fellows and acquaintances. Do they feel over-ruled? Attacked? Probably insulted because of whom I am? If it is the cause, withdrawal from the services will be required, friends or not... Salvation is indeed singular, shares the bible, book of The Lord, Almighty Powerful, God. Reviewing and also reading this book has taken me to the decision that the future woman whom I will love and marry; has to abide by these principles and also culture.

Neglection or indifference? No. There are women, that do have these qualities... Matter is; you do not have them around all the time like the flock of sheep we tend to see in bars, parties or even regular gatherings. Being honest, I will follow this family principles 'till death visits me; I am caring for myself, my soul, my future wife and kids and the legacy that will be left behind afterwards. I am definetly feeling as I am going out of my senses, the world, and much more but at the same time it feels that it is the right thing to do.

As I write... I feel clear, disassociated, disconnected or even non-related to the third-world minded people. Overall; I just feel tired of everything and decided to take each aspect to my own, proper, well handled hands.

[nerd-takes-pony-town]

So... Dergun Town's gone, at last - Temp. Tester Rant.

To be frankly honest, I was waiting for it to end. I stopped playing after the weird ass Pet update and sudden, unnannounced Hair Change due to “legal reasons” because the game was just getting utterly confusing, a mess of minigames with clunky customization options and systems, and whatnot. Plus, my time as a tester was when I hit the breaks on the game and realized "man... they really are dicks".

I never ranted about it because I knew if I did, they'd definitely come for me and ban me from the game or from the server because "I shittalked about the game" or “I’m unveiling the tester server”, but now that it's over - it's time for a rant.

So, think it was around May 2020 that I decided to go for Tester to better prepare myself for the future updates, the chat itself was basically... like the lobby, just mainly memes and the Dev fanatics, who will defend them 24/7, chatting with the Devs.

One of the first few things that was asked for is the Timezones so that we could test the server together - the Timezones thing is literally thrown out the window after the very first test. From there on, what they would do is ping the Testers to announce an update - at the time, we had no changelog, no proper bug report channel, it was all crowded in one place, and because they disregarded the Timezones, imagine if you will the chat being both filled with players spamming the chat with all the new shit like some happy toddlers, and another half are people who are reporting to be in class, asleep, dinnering, ect.

A chaotic mess that makes it near impossible to actually report something. Eventually, they added a bug report but once again, no proper check list - if any, the changelog and the checklist only appeared around the Argoras or Minigame Update (June-July). And, as always, the checklist was never updated, so you'd be testing something that's already been checked and other listed things wouldn't be checked at all. Organization, which is something a Tester needs, was never a fucking thing in that horrid mess. They would occasionally do polls, one of which was if the Update should release now, nearly everyone said No - they released it anyway. :^)

Then, there would be some bugs where they’d blame us for it - the /hitme was a command that was restrictedly used in the test server because the Devs somehow don’t know how to add a small quantity of resources to all of us, so he instead made a command that gives, what? Over a million of each of the resources? We ALL made sure that wasn’t toggled on the “beta” server, and yet, somehow, it got released with the commad functioning, and instead of admitting their fault, they blamed the Testers for practically saying folks not to use it - one of the testers was literally STRIPPED OFF of their Gil and other resources, and mind you, they didn’t even used the command at all, all they did was accidentally say the command.

The Moderators would also be rather cruel, everyone likes memes, that's granted, but it shouldn't mean you can willingly change our nicknames like that. Imagine switching over to the chat only to find out your name, along with all the other testers, has been changed to "Todd Howard"; you rename it, and a couple of days later, they change it yet again without your permission or consent. This isn't fun, this is just annoying. I had to walk around with "Stop changin my name" on my nickname because of them.

And like how it has been told, these Devs cannot take criticism at all. The Argoras Update will haunt me down as the Update where I was literally fighting against other testers and the Devs over something that needed to be changed. In the Test Server, the Skill Points had a Clover table, meaning you used clovers for Skill Points, the thing is in Pony Town, the rewards are remain unlocked even if you go down the unlocking mark - Dergun Town does not. So players who are unaware of this would've wasted 1k Clovers and then realize that their prizes have been taken away because they're no longer above the unlocking mark. So as a Tester, it should be my duty to warn the Devs about it and come with suggestions.

I told them without mentioning Pony Town at all (because they have a stupid policy of “if it’s close to PT, we can’t do it”) about how the Clover option will result in players losing their reward if they go below 1k and 500 Clovers respectively, which is the equivalent to hundreds of players putting all those days collecting Clovers to waste. They would ABSOLUTELY rant  about it in Bugs or Help Desk. I suggested them to either:

Make the rewards unlocked still even if you left the mark.

Remove the Clover option

Add a warning when about to select Clover

Those are the ones on top of my head, what did they do?

Tom just kept ignoring what I said on the first suggestion and exclusively focusing on the second one, as if it was the only option available. Meanwhile, Q was guilt tripping me into bidding to their commands, "37,500 gil per skill if you the 50 points pure,," it's horrible, sure, but do you really want to deal with a hoard of players coming to the server to scream about how the Skill Point system stole their Clover rewards? And having to deal with a patch or two to make them happy, or worse, having to ban more players because they’re angry WITH REASON that their prizes were taken away because you idiots refuse to add something that allows the players to keep their rewards while below the mark?

You know they would do that, everyone knows they would do that. And worse is with exception of one or two Testers, the other users, specifically folks like J*y and D**r, just kept defending the Devs even though I was literally helping them prevent a future problem that everyone knew it would fucking happen. What's the point of testing a game if the Developers will fucking refuse to take your advices?

They did removed the Clovers from the options, but kept the Dandelions and the Bones, which, you guested it, STILL DIDN'T HAD THE PRIZE LOCKING! And the best part - NO WARNING REGARDING THE LOST OF THE PRIZES WAS ADDED EITHER! So players who had the Dandelion Rune and the ability to get the special items from the Bone would end up in losing them without them knowing - though it’s not as bad as the Clovers, a resource that restrictedly spawns in areas with Clovers as opposed to be map-wide and the last prize needs 1k of those, and the recent-ish Spring Update changed the green to a shade that blends with them.

I singlehandedly helped them avoid a hoard of angry players, and not a singular thank you was given.

The Quest Cap is also a thing, if the mobile users are in such a disadvantage with the Clovers being gone, then why are you adding the Cap anyway? Everyone knows that if a game is relying on the player to grind, it should not cap the Quests to a fucking T - only 20 Quests per hour?! And the NPC's Gil is both dependant on Bootleg Flight Rising Dominance... and dependant on a Clan that YOU CAN'T ACTUALLY CHANGE even if you request for such?! It's like if in Flight Rising, because Fiona has Light eyes, Light Flight would gain extra bonus treasure from here as if Dominance wasn't enough. "It's to balance the Economy", how is that going to balance, it just restricting the mobile users even further, as if the shitty battle controls on mobile that makes it impossible to battle wasn't enough.

The game was also just turning into a weird, funky, Flight Rising bootleg - fitting how the game that Q also worked on was a bootleg hybrid between Dragon Cave and Flight Rising - the release of pets with these genes and barely any use but to literally do the exact shit you do in FR. In FR, you exalt Dragons to gain a upper hand at Dominance, in DT, a rather recent-ish? Update allowed you to sell the Magikins (the gened pets, the other pets are literally useless) for Clan Tokens, giving you a boost to gain Dominance. It’s exactly like FR, I’m surprised no one ever bothered to contact the FR folks about this ripoff. The pets did had a use and it was to gain more gil but a nerf was done because, once again, they released an update were we made SURE that wasn’t happening, but somehow, it happened - the Pet-Gill Machine Glitch that allowed you to gain infinite Gil.

My pets got bugged because of it - the level got reset (it’d only reward 1-2 gil) but the price of the upgrade did not (750 gil) - I asked if that was a nerf or a bug, and as expected, they said it was nerf when it was clear as days it was a bug given how people had pets that requried 700+ gil and rewarded 30+ gil.

The game’s just a mess of minigames and FR Ripoff, I could go on and on with just how bad the game is, but the Devs are even worse.

It's really bad when they're once straight up muted someone for speaking their fucking opinion.

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(From PMs)

This user would constantly bring the flaws in their shit without insulting, they'd argue with reason, give suggestions, everything, in hopes of improving the game. and they instead just argued back, if not, criticized them for even bringing an opinion and tried to justify themselves as to why they didn't need to change - and the users would absolutely defend the Devs like literal ass kissers, to the point of being happy they got muted.

As the user rightfully said in PMs:

I wanted to make contributions that could help improve it, but it seems like the staff just want people to do as they say without question instead of looking for ways to improve. And they desperately need to understand that the game is not just about what they want, what kinds of designs they think players should make. It should be encouraging players to try new designs and be creative, but all the devs want to do is shut that down.

I just wish they didn't have absolute power over the server. If they were accountable to their community in some way, it'd be possible to convince them to make changes when it's really necessary. Not all the time, just when their stubbornness is getting in the way of something that absolutely everybody except them wants.

The fun in these games has always been in the community. If you stifle that, you stifle the game. And unfortunately, I now can't say any of this. Making demon combat even harder for those without skill points was wholly unnecessary, too. I don't know what their obsession is with making the game so heavy on grinding.

Back when I first arrived, Dergun Town was mostly just Pony Town with more customization options, plus a few special prizes you could earn by gathering items. Nowadays it seems like the devs are more interested in forcing players to grind for literally everything than they are in adding new stuff everyone can enjoy and use.

But worse than that is how they always respond to criticism. The mini-events were the biggest example of that. Players didn't like being forced to spend all day on Dergun Town just for any chance to win an award in mini-events. It was damaging people's ability to have a life outside the game, and a lot of users complained. How did they respond? They basically threatened to remove the mini-events altogether and make all the items from them unobtainable, rather than improving on anything. This is how the staff responds to all complaints and suggestions. It's either the exact thing they want or nothing, and if they make a mistake big enough that everyone complains, rather than admitting fault, they basically punish the community for being unhappy. Their entire mentality is "play by my rules or I'm taking my toys and going home".

Reminder that when the garden update broke and erased a ton of players' houses and items, they blamed the players and said they had to do all the work to get everything that was lost back themselves.

I swear, all of this "you complained now you get nothing" and "we work hard, so be thankful to us even for terrible content" we hear in the user suggestions channel is just conditioning their player base to accept being taken for granted and mistreated. They're basically trying to induce Stockholm Syndrome.

Someone who’s also on Tumblr got banned for saying that the new design of the hairs made their characters look ugly - it was a change that was NEVER ANNOUNCED, specially considering it’s a change regarding “legal issues”, the playerbase should’ve been warned about this before they updated it. But instead, they got pissy that some people have complained about the drastically changed hairs and once again, shit down on them for complaining.

Dergun Town is an excellent example of how some people are not and never were meant to run a game - the guilt tripping, the “accept this or get lost” attitude, the behavior they had and occasionally have regarding Pony Town (search “Let’s Talk About Dergun Town” and you’ll get the document), to the point of banning the actual word “to avoid drama” aka keep folks from talking about their real fucking nature.

I am honestly happy that Dergun Town got shut down while Pony Town keeps improving and growing, karma was indeed well served.

#dergun town #pony town #pony.town #ive been keeping this for so long and i needed to let it out #dergun was bad but yall havent seen the how bad it is #or how bad it can get

[nowitsdark]

I first want to make it clear that I fully support gender identity, both ascribed and achieved, as being socially constructed & existsting on an infinite spectrum. Personally I am as cis-female as it gets, but I think it's logical & in no way threatening to my self-identity to agree that gender can be whatever for whomever. I struggle with, in fact wholly reject, the rhetoric that biological sex is somehow false, that it doesn't exist. How could sexual reproduction exist for humans and other animals (even plants, many have binary sex organs too) if biological sex was fake? Gametes couldn't exist if sex chromosomes didn't function in very specific ways, zygotes could not form, meiosis wouldn't be a Fact of cell division? What about sex-linked traits, both positive and disorders? Like male pattern baldness or hemophilia? Genetic traits which exist as specific genes encoded within the X or Y (usually the X if you know basics of human biology), and are passed via mitosis/meiosis on to offspring. There would be no such thing as sex linked disorders if sex chromosomes were just some "figment" of science? Male pattern baldness is a sex linked disorder that is passed via the X chromosome and disproportionately affects men because the Y chromosome is small & any genetic "abnormality" held by the X will become expressed, since men only receive 1 of each chromosome. There's no arguing against this, it's just how our biology works. The video link I'll include here is a quick example of how many (younger) people are choosing to argue that both gender and sex are social constructs. It's a reasonably presented video although devoid of any citations or scientific examples, and I don't think the YouTuber responsible deserves to be a target of hateful bullying--they're not hurting anyone by expressing these thoughts, however I don't personally agree with the way they're presenting their opinions as absolute truths. I take umbrage with how they essentially say that male and female genitals are hard to tell apart in human babies----biologically that's just simply not true. I'll except from Wiki to explain how testes are formed hormonally-based in utero: "Testis-determining factor (TDF), also known as sex-determining region Y (SRY) protein, is a DNA-binding protein (also known as gene-regulatory protein/transcription factor) encoded by the SRY gene that is responsible for the initiation of male sex determination in humans. SRY is an intronless sex-determining gene on the Y chromosome in therians (placental mammals and marsupials); mutations in this gene lead to a range of sex-related disorders with varying effects on an individual's phenotype and genotype Its expression causes the development of primary sex cords, which later develop into seminiferous tubules. These cords form in the central part of the yet-undifferentiated gonad, turning it into a testis. The now-induced Leydig cells of the testis then start secretingtestosterone, while the Sertoli cells produce anti-Müllerian hormone. SRY gene effects normally take place 6–8 weeks after foetus formation and inhibits the female anatomical structural growth in males. It also works towards developing the dominant male characteristics." There would not be any phenotypical expression of testes, whether standard or abnormal (I.E. undescended testes in a genetically XXY individual) if very specific *biological sex hormones* did not get activated while a fetus is in the womb. This YouTuber says that because we can't "see" hormones just by looking at a human/baby then we shouldn't be assuming what their sex is----this to me is Not biological fact, it is body politics & semantics which can be related to science but cannot be substituted for proven facts! We can't see bacteria with the naked eye, yet through science we now know bacteria exists---no one, besides the most uneducated of people, is trying to argue in the year 2017 that we should assume bacteria aren't real because we can't just look and see them. If humans or other animals/mammals reproduced asexually it would be more "efficient"--bacteria do this by essentially cloning themselves, making many identical copies very quickly. Sexual reproduction exists to induce variety in our genetic makeup, if humans were all asexually created any one pathogen would've wiped us all out a millennia ago (since that's one of the big risks with cloning, it creates singular weaknesses). Genetic variety requires sexual reproduction which requires sex chromosomes, if biological sex wasn't real then none if this could be true & none of us would exist? Clearly intersex humans and animals are real, no one can deny the existence of organisms with genitals and other sex characteristics that are phenotypically different from what is most "common"---but even intersex animals are still existing within the biological binary, a female bear with an enlarged external clitoral organ that functions as as penis-like sexual canal (basically an extended vagina which swells like a penis, google it) doesn't have some kind of totally unique and completely brand new reproductive organs set---it is simply uncommon expression of the same genetics and sex chromosomes that all other bears have. Sexual dimorphism isn't always expressed the same, men aren't always taller & more muscly than women etc. etc.---to think sexual dimorphism does Not exist on a spectrum is also a weird & close-minded concept. But again I fail to grasp why people think they can argue that the whole idea of sexual dimorphism is Fake/Wrong when so many clear examples of it being true do exist in nature. Such as anglerfish, where the male is a teeny tiny speck of a fish that finds a female who always, without variation, are like a million times bigger--the male attaches to her side and his only purpose is to stay there pumping sperm into her body while feeding off her bloodstream like a parasite. Why would that happen if there wasn't a big biological difference between the sexes of anglerfish? Wouldn't they all be the same size, reproducing in some way that didn't require sperm and egg cells at all? Science does shift, biology especially is more malleable than most fields of explaining our reality. But blatant disregard & the spreading of misinformation for the sake of non-scientific social/identity rhetoric confounds me completely.

[veryharmonyballoon-blog]

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