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#and i’m not out either so i can’t pull my nonbinary card LMFAO…
tragicomedys
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fuckign hate straigjt cis dudes even the “cool” ones
#why are they so obsessed with concepts that low key connect to gender essentialism
#Like fr they’re so obsessed with the ‘differences between men and women’ and reproductive shit and whagever
#brothers trying to say there needs to be an inherent instinctual trait that has made people give girls dolls across cultures and history
#that goes beyond social/cultural norms and pressures but connects to something inherently linked to their psychology. even during stone age
#times/times where the world wasn’t so connected and stuff
#Like bro…. and the thing is neither of us have even researched this topic well
#so fucking arguing with him about this is literally like grasping at straws
#and i’m not out either so i can’t pull my nonbinary card LMFAO…
#like geez i’m not great at arguing against gender essentialism but you’re not qualified at all to be making connections across history/
#cultures/sociologically speaking on how many girls have this instinct to care for a humanoid doll and how guys probably have this instinct
#to be interested in shit like. Fucking a boulder falling in a pond or shit (tiktoks this ones for my male audience type vids)
#like those tiktoks are jokes dog
#anyway it’s so tough arguing w him cuz he’s also so defensive and sure he’s correct. sir you don’t fucking know shit on this topic and
#neither do i. i just know that gender essentialism is stupid and we’re seeing that more and more in today’s times as lgbt communities make
#themselves and their thoughts more known
#No but for real straight cis dudes even the ones that are accepting actually make such a big deal about figuring out differences between
#(Cis obv) women and men. and ofc it always goes back to reproductive functions + ‘hunger gatherer times’
#it creates such an echo chamber bc his essentialist ideas are what is more generally believed by cis people and since he will never go
#beyond that to research the topic he will always keep believing in this popular notion that isn’t necessarily based in facts. and that’s why
#i hate arguing with him. i’m stuttering and confused for a reason and that’s bc i can admit i can’t argue this topic properly 😭
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