#and people sometimes take that and go even further & designate themselves as fancops but gaslighting baby queer fans isnt it

[creatrixanimi]

One time i somehow got on a redit thread on will wood bc i looked him up or something and Im constantly thinking about one person I saw getting really aggressive about his fans liking him for queer reasons and they said something like "he's a cis het 30 year old man he probably doesnt know what 'so gender' means" and like ok yeah being parasocial is not good but saying that he doesnt know what "so gender" means is laughably wrong. The guy has a song about gender identity and also at one point dressed like this:

Like theres discouraging parasocial weirdness like assigning stranger's sexualities and then theres what is essentially gasligthing people into thinking they just made everything they like up about a musical artist they like. For some reason.

#I know he's kinda wishywashy about what makes him uncomfortable and stuff so people are kinda hyper aware of that #and people sometimes take that and go even further & designate themselves as fancops but gaslighting baby queer fans isnt it #also ive seen the ways the ppl he hangs out with dress this guy probably knows about tumblr furry discourse #anyway i am always thinking about that thread it haunts me #i understand he has some weird fans but also people noticing obvious themes in his music arent like. overstepping. thats normal. #also idk anything about him and his sexuality so he could be cishet but also like. u can be cishet and still be gender nonconforming #also also why is everyone over the age of 30 designated as internet lingo illiterate. did they all get amnesia or something. #me