#anyway I just. Yeah. It’s a public space so the necessity of boundaries being established is normal and everyone’s gotta

[itspileofgoodthings]

this is your reminder that if I don’t follow you on tumblr I still love you.

#I hate that tumblr did the freaking mutual thing because now everyone can see #dash curation is such a personal thing and it’s also a brain thing #If you are intellectually stimulating it’s better if I just check your blog now and then #(which doesn’t mean if I do follow you you are intellectually not stimulating) #it’s just. a delicate balance and vibe #and it’s one of those things where the more you say it and draw attention to it the more awkward it becomes #But also I’ve been wanting to make this post for a while! #idk. it’s something I’ve wrestled with for so long and then eventually I was just like. I need the vibe of the dash to be a certain way #just for my own sanity and that involves not following a lot of people tbh #anyway I just. Yeah. It’s a public space so the necessity of boundaries being established is normal and everyone’s gotta #but it’s also a community and I know how hurtful it can be to suddenly realize someone is not following you who once was #idk. I strongly encourage everyone to unfollow me #and check in when you want if you want lol #who would WANT these things on their dash #just all interspersed #No one cares Maria it’s not important etc. #but yeah it’s just very. when my depression works the graveyard shift all of the people #I’ve ghosted stand there in the room #like. It can FEEL like that