#anyway clearly the easiest method to talk to 9 year old children is get them distracted with a task of their choosing

[asyourshadowfalls]

little man i care for told me that since his dad is the person that "gets him" when he's feeling a lot and doesn't want to talk to anyone he goes to his dad anyway and like fuck i love that so much for him

#came out in a convo after he asked about my dad lol #and i do not sugar coat things for kids #i wont say the entire truth but enough for the facts to be known #anyway clearly the easiest method to talk to 9 year old children is get them distracted with a task of their choosing #and then just be around for the random ass questions they'll inevitably ask and genuinely give them the answers you have #personal