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#basically: it's 100% a mutual thing. the problem? she doesn't want a serious relationship and doesn't want to hurt me
fellwhite
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2 years
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Well
At least it wasn't my fault, right?
Venting again because i have nothing better to do nor anyone to talk to yet (well until monday atleast) so you're warned part 2: electric bogaloo
Using dots (.) As commas (,) since tags don't allow it
#so it wasn't my fault at least.but rather her being the weirdest being to ever exist (and that's coming from me a pretty damn weird person)
#basically: it's 100% a mutual thing. the problem? she doesn't want a serious relationship and doesn't want to hurt me
#well guess what both things are fucking lies and I don't know if she's trying to lie to others or to herself
#1. i know her. she definitely wants a serious relationship and was about to commit with me
#2. what she decided to do instead is so much fucking worse and only ends up in a straight up torture for me
#she's following the same pattern she's had for years:treats 1 person like heaven for a bit and before it escalates she goes to someone else
#which not only ends up hurting a fuck ton of people. but herself as well because again: i know that she truly wants it and is ready
#I don't understand it at all
#but while i would definitely be in a giant amount of suffering under normal circumstances anyway
#what makes it all worse is that now it's one of my friends. one who knew how badly i fell for her
#and what did he do? he didn't give a shit. went behind my back and straight up took her on a date 8 days after i did
#and again: she doesn't even feel for him what she does for me. it's just the stupid pattern she has and that i doubt i can break
#and thus I'm here. just thinking nonstop about what the fuck im supposed to do here
#should i murder that traitor? should i speak with her? should i speak with the traitor for atleast some context?
#i want to murder that guy. i trusted him and this is my payment. and to make it worse this has happened MANY times in my life
#at this point i only genuinely trust a few of my friends like 6 at most
#everything is so confusing. stressful. tiring and depressing i want to crawl into a hole and lie there until i die
#atleast i basically robbed her best friend now though and she (friend) feels like a friend for life who genuinely cares so that's nice
#heck she knows me a lot less than she does the other one yet she still decided to side with me after seeing how unfair this situation is
#...so hey I guess it wasn't a total loss (i mean there's a chance still. but it's rather low and I don't know if i even want it anymore)
#it hurts however. this isn't a generic crush 'oh my teenage love' i genuinely love her. I would've straight up married her that day-
#<-light exaggeration of course but not THAT far from the truth. I've done a lot for her and definitely would've done more if she let me
#so this is gonna take a LONG time to get over with. i know that i probably will but it just
#...hurts you know? like I can't describe it any better than the raw words like 'pain' or 'aching' can do
#love truly is a double sided sword after all. and humans aren't particularly good at wielding them
#at this point considering all my romantic failures it would be better if i had just been aromantic or something since the start
#would've saved me a lot of stuff (not underestimating what aros go through btw. im sure they go through even worse things)
#(but i just really wish i didn't have to deal with romance in general)
#and i think that's it for this vent. im tired and i want to sleep it all off. for it'll help to ease the feelings even if just a little
#vent
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