#bc irl ladies are sooooo much better

[raytaku]

So I think I finally figured out Why despite me being Very attracted to irl women, I rarely find myself attracted to fictional women, where with my attraction to irl men/nb ppl is roughly the same when compared to fictional men/nb ppl

It's bc most of the time they feel So bland to me. Like they're cut from a "Girl/Woman" template and given a slightly different paint job each time

Like you know with how most (western) media you have the Main Guy, The Main Guy's Best Bro, The Comic Relief (also a Guy), and then The Girl. Sometimes they try to spice it up by splitting the Girl into two characters, The Tomboy and The Princess Girly Girl type, but they all somehow feel the Same. They're Women first before they're characters (and a lot of the time they're made to appeal to the lowest common denominator of cishet (white) guys, so she's scrubbed of all personality in favor for Hotted Boobs)

So whenever I find a girl who deviates from the Girl Formula I always lose my shit bc Fuck Yes! A girl that seems Real and not some rich old cis white guy's idea of a girl. Someone who exists for Herself and not to pander to cishet white guys

#honestly if your Idea of ladies is the Girl Archetypes commonly found in mainstream media you are sorely missing #bc irl ladies are sooooo much better