#but i wasnt notified until friday of my appointment

[tiddytrashcan]

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#my coworker is mad at me #i missed for the first time yesterday cause i had a dentist appointment #and to be fair it was a super inconvenient day for me to miss #but i wasnt notified until friday of my appointment #and i submitted my request friday night #but i didnt realize she was like relying on me to be at school to get some things done on her end #and in any case she was really mad and upset at me but in that passive aggresive way and godddddd #i just like had to stop nyself from crying cause i had asked a couple people if it was really okay to take that day off #and those i talked to assured me it was #but then apparently it caused all these problems #and there wasn't anyway for me know that #but also my head of department talked to me and told me to avoid taking this specific day off in the future #for context also this is the first time i ever took time off from work since i started #and i came in last year even when i had food poisoning and my stomach and intestinal lining got stripped #and i essentially couldnt eat for three days #and besides the point but i also work two to three hours of unpaid overtime a day #so anyway #I'm trying not to be upset but i hate hate hate when people are mad at or disappointed in me #it makes me feel like a big crybaby #personal