#but im seeing stuff on twitter rn abt the milk fic and the fact that the author is a child predator

[daydadahlias]

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#im not making a jessay abt this bc im trying to partake in self restraint #but im seeing stuff on twitter rn abt the milk fic and the fact that the author is a child predator #which is true #she went to fucking jail #and it's shit like that that is publicized that reinforces why i was such a jumpy bitch all of 2021 about questionable fic #and why im still very passionate (albeit quieter now) about people writing fucked up shit #because the argument i hear soo often is the 'it's just fiction. no real people are being hurt. just because you write about fucked up stuff #doesnt mean you're actually into the fucked up stuff' #and i feel it's important to remember that like... in any true crime you see or any documentary of deviants you will find that #before they acted on perverted desires they actively wrote stuff down about them #like that is well-documented! #if you are having fucked up fantasies and continue to indulge yourself in fucked up fantasies you are actively reinforcing that behavior #like ok can u control kinks? no u cant #but u can control ur interaction w/ them #and i fucking hate that half-baked stupid as shit argument that 'it's just fiction' #because it's not #NOW OK it *can* be just fiction if you know how to interact w/ it in a healthy way #like there's a difference between cnc and rape fics yknow #there's a difference #and there *are* ways to healthily interact with *most* kinks #but you can't just fucking go around willy nilly doing whatever you please thinking it doesnt affect your fucking brain chemistry #i mean my god #rant #tw vent #im pro kink ofc im very sex pos. that's not the issue. kink isn't the issue #the way people engage w/ it is. #this has been my rant <3 of the day <3 #ok im going to be positive now for the rest of the day <3