#but shit like dishes is generally very much fair game and won't make them uncomfortable

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adulthood is just visiting ur friends, saying "damn bitch, you live like this?" (affectionate) and aggressively helping them clean up while they politely tell you that you don't have to do that. and then having friends do that to you when they visit your apartment.

#eliot posts #one of my friends often does not make his bed and sleeps on a bare-ass mattress so i INSIST on at least putting a fitted sheet on #(and then normally just fully make the bed too bc might as well) #i tell him to ''stop rawdogging the mattress''/''put some protection on that nasty thang'' #bc i of course must use the most cursed language available #it only takes like 5 minutes to do and is very worth it #and then i have this second friend who takes this to a whole nother level #he does my dishes every time he visits and lemme tell you. the dish situation around here gets DIRE. #he did like 4 sinkfulls when he was here last #and motivated me to clean the rest of the kitchen while he did that #it took like an hour and we ran out of hot water #but WAY faster than if i had tried to handle that shit alone #and we had fun and jammed to 80s music #another person i'm only loose friends with but i helped her clean a ton of trash from her dorm last time i visited #bc she was on the tail end of a depressive episode and i KNOW how that is #this only works w certain kinds of cleaning tho. you can't tidy up/organize other ppl's shit‚ for example #bc you don't know where anything is supposed to go and you'll likely make things more difficult in the end #amd it just requires you to handle all their personal belongings and open their drawers and shit #and there's a 90% chance that'll make them uncomfortable and like you're violating their space #but shit like dishes is generally very much fair game and won't make them uncomfortable #tho sometimes you gotta ask if there's a specific way they like their dishes washed bc some ppl are picky abt that #ANYWAY #is it obvious my love language* is acts of service? #*(tho the 5 love languages thing is a VAST over-simplification and things are not actually clear cut like that)

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g i v e m e b u g b o y (all questions :) )

YIPPEE YIPPEE YAAAAAY my favorite little idiot

🦋 Everett:

1.on a scale of 1-10, how ticklish are they?

hmm.. probably like a 6-7? not horribly so but still up there

2.where is their most ticklish spot(s)?

the spot between the ribs and underarms. 100%.

3.which spots are they not ticklish?

knees, back, & arms. everywhere else is fair game.

4.what is their laugh like?

aaaall over the place. he's got the range. varies from squeaky/hiccupy to full on squeals depending on the spot. they're also very much just a giggler in general. lil silly guy.

5.do they enjoy tickling? if yes, is it a fun platonic/familial thing, or kinky thing to them, or can it be both depending on the circumstance?

LITERALLY a whole ass tk fiend. he loooves it so much he's all for the closeness and silliness and physical affection. the way in which they enjoy it really depends on the situation, they're down for whatever! second option reserved Only for his boyfriend of course.

6.are they more often a lee or ler, generally?

a pure switch! they have the same amount of fun on both ends. loves to make people he cares about happy and loves being on the receiving end as well.

7.who is someone in their life that they tickle often?

his boyfriend (winks back at you)

8.who is someone in their life that they get tickled by often?

his boyfriend (again)

9.does the word “tickle” or any variation of embarrass them?

not embarrassed to say it at all! any variation or tease comes naturally to them. getting it used against him, though, is a whole different story 😳

10.are they embarrassed about their ticklishness, and do they try to deny/hide it?

much like they're able to say the word, they're not ashamed for their enjoyment of tking either! they wont. bring it up specifically. but they won't deny it either. he'll get a little embarrassed, but nothing more than being simply flustered.

11.would gentle tickling or rough tickling affect them more?

he looove love loves light tks, but more as a relaxing and fluffy thing. if you wanna get a real good reaction out of him, rough (not horribly so) tks work the best. either way its a good time for him!

12.is there a specific spot that they enjoy being tickled, either exclusively or more than other spots? what is it?

basically anywhere makes him melt, though he has a particular soft spot for being tkd on his sides/tummy area. also a big fan of chin scritches. oh and how could i forget, not a spot but he adores mouth tks. raspberries, kisses, nibbles. he will turn to putty.

13.is there a spot that they can’t stand to be tickled, either because it’s just too sensitive, or it’s uncomfortable/painful/etc? what is it?

no specific spot, but his endurance is pretty low. cuz of his heart problems if it goes on for too long he might have some trouble breathing. otherwise he's good!

14.would they ever purposefully bug a friend/partner/sibling into tickling them, and if so, how would they go about it?

most DEFINITELY. he's a master of this art. his main tactic is just overall being his goofy goober self. teasing, starting a tk fight, crawling all over the other, trying to distract them from doing a task, etc etc. the options are endless.

15.does teasing affect them?

verryyy much so. can dish it out like a pro but can't handle it back for shit. they're very much the type to hide their face in any way they can and to nervously babble.

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