#but yeah i think many w cptsd maybe try to get that unconditional love they deserved to have as children

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once ive heard someone say that true unconditional love (love that is never ever broken, no matter the circumstances or your flaws) can only come from one's parents/caregiver, otherwise its unhealthy to have that for someone else or expect it from others. ive been thinking about that and hmmmmm

i kinda think its true in some ways... even if it stings. i am so curious what others think and might ask a forum. Even the strongest most loyal, love between 2 balanced ppl who care abt each other vry much- their love for each other does come with some conditions, no? You're allowed to lose those feelings if something very disturbing comes up, for example. Or maybe im confusing boundaries and mistreatment for the "conditions" of love maybe? Idk. This has been living rent free in my head for a while

#love is so confusing to understand and talk about. it makes my head blurry #i was sad for the longest time that i would never experience this but remembered- you can unconditionally love yourself ♡ #its so unhealthy and i think limerance frm ppl w cptsd and this topic are related somehow i just.. i suck at #wording these connections my brain is making idk #but yeah i think many w cptsd maybe try to get that unconditional love they deserved to have as children #from other outlets and its biiig ouch when yoy discover no; ppl cant love you in that way. its not healthy #its sad but the sooner you realize it the better ☆ this is just my experience though #txt #ppl still will have love for you and its still important and a blessing 2 be loved. it just cant be unconditional