#communicate better. and im just gobsmacked quite frankly

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curious if anyone else has this problem: being articulate but incomprehensible? like for example, im very good at articulating certain things, and people say im good at writing; however it seems that nobody is understanding what im truly trying to say, and trying to come up with a way to explain my true (but also ever-shifting and indecisive) thoughts is arduous and agonizing

#just curious bc yesterday my roommates were essentially telling me it was my fault that nobody helped me when i was having a bad moment bc i #shouldve communicated. the issue is that i did. i tried multiple times and ending in so many tears each time (which i feel is pretty good #evidence that i wasnt ok and may need support). so u can see the issue of communication being difficult. and their response was just #communicate better. and im just gobsmacked quite frankly