#default beer is ipas btw

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Okay so one of the things I keep struggling w is deciding what to drink when I’m out. Like when I land on beer, I can pick a beer. But like the deciding on beer or wine or cocktails has been really hard. I def prefer following someone’s lead. But I’m gonna be on a trip to family in not too long and they think I can think for myself more and decide, and like please no. There’s gonna prolly be a lot of drinking on the trip, so I want to feel prepared bc I’ve totally cried before when I felt like couldn’t decide and was being told to.

So like following someone’s lead is always the top option. But after that, like when it’s some place more casual my default is beer. I’m thinking maybe cocktails is a good default for the rest? I even have like default cocktails for different things, but the deciding to go w a cocktail is hard. Wine feels like more confusing I think.

#default beer is ipas btw #default wine is dry white #when red is appropriate I look for Malbec usually #there’s a few different default cocktails #1st is looking for something on a cocktail menu w gin thay sounds good #then it’s a gin gimlet or gin and tonic sometimes a tall w extra lime depending on how like big of a drink I want #and if I want to feel fancier a French 75 #personal #i wrote this post before hand but talked about in therapy and she thought it was a good idea to come up w a default