#dont judge fluid sexuality or contradictory labels none of your beeswax

[aaronymous999]

Okay imma say it right now because some people do not get it!!

Being queer is not a choice, but you’re not necessarily “born this way”.

I was a gay man up until the age of 12. I loved boys and I was a boy. Now though? I don’t like people. I’m happier than ever. And it wasn’t a choice I made to just stop liking people. My body just decided not to be attracted to anyone anymore. And that’s okay. If in the future I like boys again, that’s okay too. I was born queer, but my queer identity will never be the same my whole life, and that’s okay :)

#aaronymous ramblings #sorry making this post because like idk #fluid sexuality is a lot more stigmatized than fluid gender presentation for some reason #im not abrosexual or anything btw i just suddenly woke up and was aro one day no joke #and maybe ill wake up one day with a hard on for a man again but idk #finally accepted being aroace and finally accepted not always have been that #like i feel like theres so many stories about how ‘i knew the signs’ and all that but its like #sometimes the signs dont apply to you today and thats okay #imma be real tho i might have been aro for a couple years because id make up having crushes but then all of a sudden i actually got one #like uh im attracted to men now ig #and now its like #huh i no longer am attracted to anyone #anyways idk just have met a lot of wildly ignorant queer ppl irl who literally called an abro dude as having a fake sexuality? #dont judge fluid sexuality or contradictory labels none of your beeswax #i promise you that a trans man dating a lesbian will not cause the downfall of gay rights