#edit: to clarify. I fucking love kdramas too. please don’t take me talking about the tropes we see often in them as me condemning them.

[hallwyeoo]

One thing that never fails to piss me off is how media with straight characters who are in objectively unhealthy relationships is generally enjoyed without judgement, but the second that queer people have media with power imbalances or toxicity or or or it’s a whole fucking THING and we’re disgusting deviants for enjoying it.

#like yeah okay #go back to your k-dramas where the ceo genuinely entraps and emotionally and financially abuses the mc #and your Coleen Hoover books #these people would have a fucking heart attack if they ever met actual older queer people irl #I don’t know #it just really bugs me that when we do it it’s vile and problematic and we’re evil and gross #but when they do it it’s perfectly fine and it’s just fiction and it’s fantasy and it’s whatever #like. wow #text post #sorry for the rant #edit: to clarify. I fucking love kdramas too. please don’t take me talking about the tropes we see often in them as me condemning them.