#i hope this made sense. im just cycling through thinking about deleting this aro account too

[spitefularoandbi]

It has always bothered me how aroaces can pull the "it's the same thing," bc that has been said to me before. But my aro-ness cannot be singularly just aro without being assumed to be aroace by even people I've come out to before. And so then it's made aware that I'm still allosexual, just like I was before when I came out as bi, and suddenly that's contradictory and two separate things and how uncomfortable most aces can get about allosexual things - even tho my aromanticism defines my sexuality and my sexuality is an aromantic sexuality. For me it is one and the same too, but I have to be ripped apart to just belong as "aro." Rinse, repeat, for 12 years now. Rinse, repeat.

#this is an aroallo post #aroallo #alloaro #i hope this made sense. im just cycling through thinking about deleting this aro account too #my posts #im not sure if i should tag as non sam aro but i often do think of myself as Just Aro. ya know? but with like 80%of the aspec community #being ace its kinda like 'ace or bust' so aroallo fits the best for me lol #also im estimating 12 years. i started college.... 13 years ago. and thats when i started questioning. so 12 is roughly right #im actually worried to hit post lol. but i have felt this way for a long time and this week on tumblr has me feeling a way