#i literally havent felt this fucking dysphoric in idek how long lol

[sovaharbor]

do u know how fucked up it is to tell a trans guy asking for dating app/site recommendations bc he mentions how meeting people irl in his hometown is wildly unsafe bc it is wildly unsafe to even be OUT in his hometown he's currently living in and how all the gay/bi men in his hometown tend to be conservative-leaning themselves and therefore very fucking transphobic. that "if you're not out and you're also not passing enough as a man (when said trans guy literally said he had to stop transitioning for his own safety) then pretty much no man cis or trans is going to want to date you" is? like do you?? do you know how absolutely wildly fucked up that is?????

#i am literally astouned someone has the actual gall to say this to me #do u know how shitty my morning has been because of this lol #summer's text tag #not even a fucking app recommendation to cushion the way i am now so fucking dysphoric ive cried twice and want to bury myself in a hole an #literally never come out. i will live in the dirt for the rest of my years and become one with the worns #worms even #AND THIS PERSON. IS ALSO TRANS. LIKE HELLO? HELLO????? HOW. HOW DO YOU SAY THIS AND THINK YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT #i literally havent felt this fucking dysphoric in idek how long lol