#idc if the person is autistic and can't use neopronouns. yes i am talking about this in specific

[verzaenian]

I’m so tired so I’m just gonna say I fucking hate every single allistic who tries to “understand” us autistics like we’re some kind of animal I fucking hate allistics who provide performative “accommodations” that they literally say “won’t work for everyone” (by which they mean they’ll only help people who can easily pass as allistic without even trying) and most of all I fucking HATE autistics (and allistics) who don’t need that much help or accommodations who act as if their experiences are the norm and tell other autistics that our experiences are fake, not real, invalid, overreactions, ridiculous, and stupid just because we can’t fit into the perfect little box of “sweet uwu girl who just likes to talk about her special interests sometimes and displays barely any autism symptoms” (no hate to people like that. but it’s so so SO fucking tiring to see people act like they’re being “progressive” by acting like every autistic person is a young white teen girl who displays like 2 autism symptoms at the most and only shows them when it’s convenient)

Above all, I fucking hate every allistic who has ever said “just try harder I don’t mind if you mess up” and then proceeded to guilt trip and get upset at autistics for not being able try harder because autism is a disability, not something we can just turn off whenever it’s causing problems.

#i am SO SO SO tired of ableists #because guess fucking what! telling someone to ''try harder'' NO MATTER WHAT is ableist #idc if the person is autistic and can't use neopronouns. yes i am talking about this in specific #i will literally fucking. strangle you. i am so tired of allistic bullshit #and its even worse when other autistics say it because you KNOW theyre just trying to appeal to allistics and go ''no no dont worry im not #like the BAD autistics i swear i can do everything in a normal neurotypical way!!'' #stop throwing other autistics under the bus because allistics hate us #every time an allistic says ''just try harder'' or some bullshit like that i get closer and closer to reaching my limit and just blocking #every allistic i know #''just try harder'' oh ill try harder. ill try harder to smash your fucking face into a wall #-Kiyo (he/him) #sorry for so much swearing and negativity i am just so pissed off right now #cw negative #cw rant #cw ventish #actually autistic